If you have to choose between marrying someone you love so much, and someone who loves you so much. Whom would you choose?

Someone is currently in this dilemma and I need to advise the person. Pls give reasons for your choice.
Thanks

I rather stay single if I can't do both

Both parties must love each other.

Anything besides this is a fake relationship, and sooner or later, its negative effects would be felt.

This isn't the issue of bf/gf or dating its a matter of marriage.

To have a successful home you must love and be loved in return and not to love someone and thinking you gonna work things out by forcing him/her to love you back..... TO LOVE AND BE LOVED BACK.

There is always someone that love more in a relationship. I can be that person but this is just different. I rather stay single. Or wait.

Someone I love.

STENON:
Someone I love.

What if u love the person and he's just pouring out the Love somewhere else?

Beennkumar:
Both parties must love each other.

Equally?

LaurelP:
If you have to choose between marrying someone you love so much, and someone who loves you so much. Whom would you choose?

Someone is currently in this dilemma and I need to advise the person. Pls give reasons for your choice.
Thanks

It depends on his/her reason for loving one person more than the other...before making a choice of a life partner for me it goes beyond love,where do you see yourself with either of the "partners" in five,ten years,which of them has added more value to your life since knowing them and some other things,...but by the way not that its any of my business why double date?

adebayour26:

What if u love the person and he's just pouring out the Love somewhere else?

Hmmmmmm...........The most painful thing in Life is seeing the one you Love, Loving another Person.

LaurelP:
If you have to choose between marrying someone you love so much, and someone who loves you so much. Whom would you choose?

Someone is currently in this dilemma and I need to advise the person. Pls give reasons for your choice.
Thanks

Am sure u r d one in d dilemma else u wouldn't bring it to Nairaland.

ellechrystal:

Am sure u r d one in d dilemma else u wouldn't bring it to Nairaland.

Lolz
Ur wrong
Oya which wud u choose?

LaurelP:


Lolz
Ur wrong
Oya which wud u choose?

Someone who loves me so much..

This question is similar to the "between the devil and the deep blue sea" line... If you choose the deep blue sea, what's to tell that you would be saved by a random ship before you drown, but if you choose the devil, atleast God can can still deliver you.

I think being with someone you don't love is just plain torture... (deep blue sea)


I don't exactly "know" what it means to be in love but I know how I care for my two best buddies, and I'm sure being in love is waaaaay deeper than that... So I'd prefer to be with someone I love... It's more soothing, better fulfilling, loving someone satisfies that inate desire in every body to give attention, time and value to someone/something else

So yep.. It's better to love than to be loved.

LaurelP:


Equally?

Not really. Someone will always love more than the other.

Like my mum has advised me several times its better for a lady to marry someone who loves her to someone she loves but will be best if they love each other because we ladies tend to grow affection more easily when we live with a man than the other way round and guys don't sincerely love easily so if they don't love you from the start it won't be easy to get their love when married no matter how much you love him .

;DSomeone that loves me so much that will love me so much and that his so much love will make my love love him so much. If you understand what that means.


Further explanation:Just the way someones laugh makes ur laugh laugh .
Thats d way his love will make my love love. LoL

A lucky man marries the woman he loves, a luckier man loves the woman he marries (Applies to women too)...

#GoFigure

Mehn;;;;;looks like d Op bin reading my mind;;if am gon2 date aqn is sm1 who loves me(xame for marriage)

someone I love

I'll love for his love to be more

Damn! This popcorn is sweet!

STENON:
Hmmmmmm...........The most painful thing in Life is seeing the one you Love, Loving another Person.

Exactly, that's my point

ellechrystal:

Someone who loves me so much..

**in a girl's voice**
I know you'd choose dat

LaurelP:


**in a girl's voice**
I know you'd choose dat

Yea yea

ellechrystal:

Yea yea

I like ur nose
@Dp

Elantracey:
Like my mum has advised me several times its better for a lady to marry someone who loves her to someone she loves but will be best if they love each other because we ladies tend to grow affection more easily when we live with a man than the other way round and guys don't sincerely love easily so if they don't love you from the start it won't be easy to get their love when married no matter how much you love him .

You're saying dat u will not marry a man ur deeply in love with who doesn't love u as much?

LaurelP:


I like ur nose
@Dp

Thanks dear

LaurelP:


You're saying dat u will not marry a man ur deeply in love with who doesn't love u as much?

no way, I've dated one before and I know where it landed me .

ellechrystal:

Thanks dear

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FLAWLES:
Mehn;;;;;looks like d Op bin reading my mind;;if am gon2 date aqn is sm1 who loves me(xame for marriage)

So u can't marry a man whom u love deeply?

1one:
This question is similar to the "between the devil and the deep blue sea" line... If you choose the deep blue sea, what's to tell that you would be saved by a random ship before you drown, but if you choose the devil, atleast God can can still deliver you.

I think being with someone you don't love is just plain torture... (deep blue sea)


I don't exactly "know" what it means to be in love but I know how I care for my two best buddies, and I'm sure being in love is waaaaay deeper than that... So I'd prefer to be with someone I love... It's more soothing, better fulfilling, loving someone satisfies that inate desire in every body to give attention, time and value to someone/something else

So yep.. It's better to love than to be loved.

That's deep
But what if he doesn't love u that much?