As we countdown to the New Year, it is important for you to reflect and review your relationship and take stock of the worth to your life.
Can you have a progress report and how much you have gained and how much value your partner has added to your life?
Don't fool and kid yourself by living in denial of the facts of life and the circumstances of the realities.
If you know that your relationship is not improving your life, discuss it with your lover and be honest and transparent if you are happy or not.
If you know your future is not secure in your relationship, it is time to quit without wasting time on useless sentiments that will not help you.

Let certainties decide your choices and not probabilities.
Time waits for no one. And your relationship is subject to the test of time.
As I have always insisted in other articles on romance, that only two things are most important in every relationship; your happiness and security.
Without security you cannot be happy in any relationship.

Is she worth it?
Is he worth it.
Don't waste your money and time on anyone who is worth it, otherwise you will later regret it.

Don't settle for mere consolations that will not last long when what you need most are solutions to your problems to have a happy and secure life. And not the miserable life of sympathy collectors who always want others to pity them.

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thank you. im touched already

Time for sober reflection

This is mainly for d guys wey dey sabi mumu all over town.

Mtcheww.


Story for those chained with one pussycat for life.