We have been together for 6yrs now. I luv her so much and have promised to marry her after my masters. Before traveling for for my studies, i invited her to come spend some time with my family (for a week) before i go. After the visitation, ALL my family members are saying that they dont like her! The behavior ( which i see nothing wrong with), her statue ( very portable for me), and wia she comes from, are the reasons y they dont like her. Now i am confuse. Should i go ahead and marry her without their approval? who will follow to her house? None of my people will. OR should i break up wit her to please my pple? The gal has done nothing wrong to me and i dont want to break an innocent gal's heart, being the first guy in her life. WETIN I GO DO! Nairalanders help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hmmm! If they have good reasons for not liking her then maybe you should consider it by giving it a second thought but if the reasons were based on physical things like her state, height then don't even listen to them. We are all created in the image of God whether tall or short, she didn't decide which state to come from God took the decision on her behalf so why punish her for not being tall or coming from a particular state? Your siblings won't leave with her so you have a major say in dis matter, I also think it's not okay to get married without your parents approval so you need to make them reason with you especially your Dad

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but i need their approval na...

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Are they d one to stay with her? U've been dating for 6yrs and no complain about her and ur family met her for just a week and wants to destroy ur relationship Be a man and decide what u want for urself don't let anybody decide how u live ur life

If they do not have any serious specific thing to say about why you shouldnt marry her, then please do not take them seriously

You are a man..family before any other thing..use your head ooo

They said that they dont like the behavior. That she doesnt act "real". Maybe, that she pretends. MUM doesnt like her @ alllllllll.... and me and my mum, na 5 and 6. Buh, i luv my gal. I just wanna PLEASE them ALL

Treasuredlove:
If they do not have any serious specific thing to say about why you shouldnt marry her, then please do not take them seriously

Ok

Poster may be their is something they are seeing you can't see, there is no way they will just dislike her without reason. Talk to your mum ask her to tell you the reasons for them not liking her. make her understand how much you love the girl. Your family could be right you know.

Planning to ditch a 6years old relationship cos mum said so? Will she be happy if someone treats your sister that way? Ask her this.

byvan:
Planning to ditch a 6years old relationship cos mum said so? Will she be happy if someone treats your sister that way? Ask her this.

his sister might be well behaved though. @OP talk to your mum and understand the reason properly. Girls pretend hope you know forget love matter. Use ur brains more. Bye

A big tanx to u guys. M really getting useful advice from u guys. Nairalanders, una too much! I need more abeg

Prayer is the key. Have you consulted God about this matter? Ask God to show you His thoughts on the matter and to reveal if she is the one. The personalities of your family members and this girl may not just gel is why. People born in different months have different characters which sometimes clash.