A family friend of mine pleaded to allow her live with me during her clearance in school. She is 19yrs old and has been a nice girl and fun to be with. I really want to live with her but considering the fact that I'm not a 'very nice' guy when it comes to the ladies and I fear that 'some things' might come up between us which I don't really want.
Please is there any tips on how to live with her without intimacy? How is it possible for us to live together without any form of intimacy?
Candid and mature advice please! Thanks!

Everytime you look at her imagine your sister.

If that does not work, imagine your mum or grandma.

1. Tell her there should be no 'rough play' or horse playing around the house.
2. No dressing provocatively or skimpy around the house. Or tying wrapper or towel (with or without underwear). .


Same thing applys to you and all will be fine.
All the best.
Peace out.

I don't understand live together. You to live in one room room Guy prevention is better than cure.

Mynd44:
Everytime you look at her imagine your sister.

If that does not work, imagine your mum or grandma.

I have not really lived with an opposite sex before that's why I'm kinda scared since we are going to share the same bed and you know midnights can be funny at times
Thanks thou!

yes ,either they are kids or Asexual

1. She sleeps on the bed, you sleep on the floor

2. No winking

3. No watching soft-porn movies together

4. No bum shorts

5. No hugging at late hours

nzeaji:
1. Tell her there should be no 'rough play' or horse playing around the house.
2. No dressing provocatively or skimpy around the house. Or tying wrapper or towel (with or without underwear). .


Same thing applys to you and all will be fine.
All the best.
Peace out.

Thanks thou but I don't want to give her any impression that I'm scared of anything! And don't you think laying down too many rules will make her unconfortable??

Sermwell:

Thanks thou but I don't want to give her any impression that I'm scared of anything! And don't you think laying down too many rules will make her unconfortable??

It shouldn't make her uncomfortable. It should help her feel secure, knowing you do not have any untoward intentions. That is, unless she's also looking to get intimate with you. I'm which case, disregard my advice.

Depends on your age, maturity and willpower.
She's nineteen which is bad because she's still a teenager... And let's not get started on their issues.

If you are also a teenager (13-19) then you have no hope.
But... If you can keep a level head, try not to think of anything that might bring about awkward situations, and tell her to dress moderately(like a deeper-life member if possible )... Then you should have no prob.

Lucario007:
Depends on your age, maturity and willpower.
She's nineteen which is bad because she's still a teenager... And let's not get started on their issues.

If you are also a teenager (13-19) then you have no hope.
But... If you can keep a level head, try not to think of anything that might bring about awkward situations, and tell her to dress moderately(like a deeper-life member if possible )... Then you should have no prob.

I'm in my mid-twenties. Keeping a level head and trying not to think of things that might bring awkward situations is the problem. How can I successfully do that?

One, she wants to come around for clearance, depicting she's coming for a short stay; clearance shouldn't take more than a week.
By the way, you MUSTN'T sleep on the same bed; not even in the same room if you don't want to have anything with her.
You should be able to endure for a week, or thereabout. Isn't it?

i wuld love sex when the time is due to

@OP

* The two of you should avoid sleeping on the same bed. Since she wants to stay for clearance, I suppose she won't stay long. You just endure for a few days.

* Tell her not to dress provocatively.

* Try be matured every time your in the house with her.

If she wants to stay for a week or there about, leave d house for her and stay with a friend

veegirl:
If she wants to stay for a week or there about, leave d house for her and stay with a friend

School resumes on the 19th jan and I don't really like the idea of leaving my room to a friends and even if I want to, most friends are yet to resume. I just want to stay with her but how to do so without 'anything' happening is what I ask! Thanks anyway!

Wen u re not castrated
Even if u re pope ua eluelu must move

Ma babe came to do screening in skul wen she sought for admission, before she got accomodation dos period I was in skul she stayed with me

Believe u me I was once a married man
Marriage life sweet shaa

Come op hope una dey bath togeda

Sermwell:

School resumes on the 19th jan and I don't really like the idea of leaving my room to a friends and even if I want to, most friends are yet to resume. I just want to stay with her but how to do so without 'anything' happening is what I ask! Thanks anyway!

From d way u sound it seems u're attracted to her. And if that's d case there's nothing u can do to help yourself. You both have to depend on her being able to control the situation

Sexipea:
i wuld love sex when the time is due to

dats what she told me too wen she first came
But she didn't knw time was due then


Meanwhile welcome back wia have u been?

veegirl:
If she wants to stay for a week or there about, leave d house for her and stay with a friend

Gbam!

tell her to bring a friend.

or look for someone else to host as well.

Hehe... Op is asking this question as if only guys initiates intimacy, okay U don't want to, what if the lady wants to? believe me, it'll workout fine if both of U are strongly against the occurrence of intimacy especially from the lady.

Once the lady get am for mind, it'll be more difficult for U but if she shares the same abstinence with U, she'll be able to calm U down in case ur monster looses it's sense.

Best of luck bro, it might not be easy but u'll pull through. Make ehn no be me sha coz dis time wey konji is in d air, I fit no trust myself.

Afrok:
Hehe... Op is asking this question as if only guys initiates intimacy, okay U don't want to, what if the lady wants to? believe me, it'll workout fine if both of U are strongly against the occurrence of intimacy especially from the lady.

Once the lady get am for mind, it'll be more difficult for U but if she shares the same abstinence with U, she'll be able to calm U down in case ur monster looses it's sense.

Best of luck bro, it might not be easy but u'll pull through. Make ehn no be me sha coz dis time wey konji is in d air, I fit no trust myself.

very funny! Konji can be very stupid somethimes, sorry, all the time

chimerase2:
dats what she told me too wen she first came
But she didn't knw time was due then


Meanwhile welcome back wia have u been?

so u'v tested it? bin busy @ skoo...we on break nw

Sermwell:
very funny! Konji can be very stupid somethimes, sorry, all the time

bruh U can't be more correct... Konji been putting guys in trouble since the time of Samson and Delilah ...

My question is are your bodies wood or stone that don't respond to stimuli ?

Sexipea:
so u'v tested it? bin busy @ skoo...we on break nw

lol dnt wori u will get der some day dear



Woow so skul made u to be away from nairaland
Such a good gal keep it up jooor
No need ask u how ur xmas is going can see u re enjoying ur self

Guy na 19th we dey resume Me I dey resume after election ooo.....tell her 2 come stay with me cos with dis ur post u av already slept with her.....I know say d 1st day u fit hold body small by 2nd to 5th day ur mind go don full with her thought by 6th to 7th day oboi na danger time ooo.......hope u scale tru!! But buy condom keep smwhere sha,incase judas betray u

Sermwell:

I have not really lived with an opposite sex before that's why I'm kinda scared since we are going to share the same bed and you know midnights can be funny at times
Thanks thou!

Share the same bed?


odikwa risky o , that will take a lot of self control from you .

All these guys that are asking the girl to dress properly. Me guess you are yet to meet a girl with a stand up sex appeal.


Anyways, back to the Op, sex is a thing that is triggered by the mind so just picture her as your kid sister and you wont have any problems.

Guy if she is pweety like mprex den u can't scale through wthout touching......my honest submission

benkings:
Guy if she is pweety like mprex den u can't scale through wthout touching......my honest submission

i'll take that as a compliment. Thank you