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How To Get A Girlfriend When You Feel Lonely by donyjohn: 1:37am On Dec 29, 2014
Guys seek out getting a girlfriend at different moments in their lives, and the reason for why they want to get a girlfriend can have a large effect on what kind of results that they get. Some guys seek out a girlfriend when life is going good for them and they want to have someone to share their life and have some fun with. Most men, though, tend to seek out a woman when they are lonely. When they feel like they need to have a female in their life to take away that lonely feeling.

Coming from that mindset is usually a bad way to go about it, simply because you are coming from a place where you really lack any kind of power. When you want to attract a woman just because you are lonely, you are either going to be very unsuccessful as most women tend to be put off by that aura, or you are just going to latch on to the first opportunity that comes along. Doesn't sound all that appealing when it is put that way, does it?

So, what can you do when you are lonely and you want to get a girlfriend?

Probably the first thing that I would suggest is to work on building up your social life, and I don't necessarily mean working on attracting women. Get a group of friends, it can be a mixed group of men and women, and start socializing more often. When you have a social connection like this, it can make that need to get a girlfriend evaporate pretty quickly. Plus, you are giving yourself a little more "power" which usually means that you won't make a bad decision and end up with the first woman who comes along.

Another suggestion I would make is to get busy. When your life is heading in the right direction and you are working towards personal goals that you might have, a funny thing tends to occur. You tend to instantly find that women want to pay more attention to you. You also find that you become a lot more picky when it comes to the women you date, simply because you know what you want and you know that she has to fit into that picture.

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