After salvation, the most important choice you will
need to make is who to marry. This choice is so
important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if
you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad
marriage can affect every other area of your life. This
subject is so important, so many married people are
hoping to be single again so as to make the right
choice. If you are single please don't just be in a
hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to
prepare for it.
For two people to come together to live in peace and
harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and
physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant
so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an
elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat
marries a fish where would they meet? You must
look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry,
nothing can beat this. The devil's primary target is
the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a
family and if he can make two wrong people meet
then he has succeeded affecting the community and
nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure
for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is
far worse. God has somebody for you but you must
set your priorities right. What do you need in a
woman? What do you need in a man? Marriage is not
about what you want, it is about who you need, that
will make you better while you make him better. It is
about destiny. That is why you must know your
purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18. You
must pray before you choose. God knows the best
person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is
very easy to know God's will when sex is not
involved. The moment sex is involved and you want
to know His will then He will blank you out.Why?
Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX
before marriage. Sex is not a prove for love, If you
have had sex in the past then you need to repent
totally and stay away from each other for sometime
then you can seek the face of God. Your marriage
will not be hell on earth. Your
marriage will be honorable in the name of Jesus
Christ. Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you
are of age, don't marry because you are getting old,
don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry
because you need someone to support you
financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got
pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose
the person, don't marry because of family pressures,
don't marry because you like the idea of marriage
and admire every wedding gown you see, don't
marry because all your friends are getting married.
But get married because you want to fulfill destiny.
Get married because you want to be a help mate. As
a man, get married because you want to fulfill your
purpose. God will help you in choosing, please let His
will be done in your Life. Amen!

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