A marriage u did'nt prepare 4 wil confuse u wen u get there. Its better u prepare now wen u r stil single and dats why i created dis post 2 analyse d Six (6) most important things u must do b4 marriage as a single.
U don't prepare in marriage but u prepare 4 marriage. Preparation is d foundation of any successful marriage. As u make ur bed so u lie on it. Some spend 7 years in d university studying rat and lizard wen dey come out, dey pick any lady and get married. Later, u hear d man saying ''i regret marry u'' and d woman turns back ''u r d worst thing dat ever happened 2 me in life'' all dey thought was 2 find a partner who is Naira loaded, handsome or beautiful BUT dey never ''Prepare 4 Marriage''.
Thats why so many people r hvin nasty problems in thier marrieges 2day.
Some prepare 4 wedding instead of marriage. Wedding is just a hours party. a day after wedding is called Marriege.No matter how elaborating ur wedding is does not guarantee u a successful marriage.
So how then do i PREPARE FOR MARRIEGE?
1. ACQUIRE KNOWLEDGE:
This involve reading of marriage books. Jesus recommended reading wen it come 2 number one thing 2 do wen preparing 4 marriage (Read Math. 19-1). In some churches u have 2 finish 15 Marriage books b4 dey conduct marriage 4 u :Dlol.
Marriage is a journey u hv not travelled on b4. asking people who have pass through d road is a wise choice. 80% of married couple dis days don't read any marriage books b4 getin married. Dey don't even know the original of GOD purpose of marriage which is ''Meeting needs (Read Genesis 2:18)'' and not oppressing each other. Wen needs are not meant der wil b discouragement, affliction, tension and it can leads 2 seperation.
It takes knowledge 2 know hw a man/woman behave.
Men are LOGICAL beings and women are EMOTIONAL beings. Men are always thinking, so dey don't have time 2 talk too much unlike women. A woman is made 2 strive for love why d man is made 2 express d love for her. It is imposible 4 a man and woman 2 dwell 2geda wen knownledge is absent.

2. DEVELOP QUALITY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD: (read Job 22:21.)
If u don't develop quality relationship with God u will be under marriage preasure. If u dont have d fear of God, u will go and marry an unbeliever because of desperation. Don't let anyone looks down on u. Don't let ur age be a problem because der is time 4 everytin.
If u r engaged 2 someone and he/she walk up 2 u and say is no more interested again, just say thanks because GOD has better plans 4 u.
''Its better 2 hv a broken engagement than 2 have a divorce''. Always be in a Good relationship with GOD and he shall surprise u wen d time comes.

3. DISCOVER GOD PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE: If u don't have no direction then everyone is free 2 show u a way. So find God purpose 4 ur life. Don't be among does dat marry because;
*Their mate are getin married.
*Their parents wants them to.
*They just finish from d university and d next thing they think is to marry.
*They want 2 bear children.
*Age is passing them or they have grow up and d next thing is 2 marry. NO! Its wrong.
Now u are still single use d time u have 2 set up ur life goals, dreams and what u want 2 become in life. Discover ur purpose in life and live it.

4. CULTIVATE QUALITY CHARACTER: It is character dat substain beauty. Find negetive trace in u dat are capable of destroying ur marriage in d future and deal with them now u have time (still single). e.g anger, hot temper, lieing, stealing, smoking, etc.
Character is GOD likeness, so anytin in u dat is not behaving like GOD is time u get over it.
Character is like a smoke dat u can't hide. Another underline factor of character is control. Always control every bad cell inside u. So start learning hw 2 cultivate good character. If der is sometin men don't like its ''arguement''. So, for does ladies who love talking wen d man is talking should learn 2 put that off b4 marriage. Its a bad character.

5. TAKE CARE OF UR OUTWARD APPEARANCE:
Ur look and appearance matters alot. U should always look gorgeous, sweet, beautiful and soft at all time. If u are dirty, u won't see people close 2 u. Learn colour combination. As a man, don't go and wear black top, red trouser, red cap and red shoes and be looking like a Fireman.. lol.
As 4 d ladies, dress modest and be ur best. Get d best wears. Learn 2 walk & talk like a lady and not like a man. Learn d best u can and it will help u wen u get married.

6. LEARN 2 BE DOMESTICATED:
Some ladies dey don't know hw 2 cook before getin married. Its wen u are single u can learn how 2 cook, sweep, wash, do some house cleaning,etc.
Some ladies don't even knw hw 2 present food. Dey will cook finish, put rice, beans, yam, meat, vegetables all in one plate and present it 2 d husbands like a sacrifice... Some ladies only know hw 2 cook indomie which is bad. So ladies b domestic and for guys, try learn hw 2 help ur mum/sisters now u r stil single, so u cn be of help 2 ur future wife wen the time comes. Thanks.

Absolutely true. Excellent article.

nyc1

major466:
Absolutely true. Excellent article.

thanks.

Read the headings...
Good piece but this can't make Fp.. Add something juicy..

Chizzy20:
nyc1

Alright! Thanks 4 d complement

braintext:
I just read the Headings, Life's too short to read long articles

seconded

Newkidoo:
Read the headings...
Good piece but this can't make Fp.. Add something juicy..

sorry! D post is not an ad i wanted 2 place on FP. Is jez 4 pple who need dat advice and i think not lazy ass like u

Deshannel:

seconded

if u cant read through or appreciate, then dont commemnt u repugnant nasty dudes!

donjerz:
sorry! D post is not an ad i wanted 2 place on FP. Is jez 4 pple who need dat advice and i think not lazy ass like u

Now, if u use this kind of spirit in writing this piece, it would have made Fp by now..

Newkidoo:

Now, if u use this kind of spirit in writing this piece, it would have made Fp by now..

Yes, Thanks. Am not FP lover. My post hv made FP. So is not a new tin 2 me. Maybe u hv not made fp bcoz u copy and paste. U dont abstract ideas. Lazy ass

Tanx u sir

donjerz:
Yes, Thanks. Am not FP lover. My post hv made FP. So is not a new tin 2 me. Maybe u hv not made fp bcoz u copy and paste. U dont abstract ideas. Lazy ass

What is ideas I obviously didn't go to school..

Guy just cool it.. I was just having fun but seriously wat is ideas

nice thread.