Mathematical:
SHE'S LIKE NEW YEAR NEW GUY. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER, NEW YEAR RESOLUTION THINGY.. YOU GUYS AIN'T ENGAGED WHY BOTHER, IF SHE SAYS ITS OVER, GET OVER IT. SHE'S TRYNA MOVE ON.

major466:
She's calling off the relationship because she feels you don't love her enough like before.

arsetalks:
Haba babe. It isn't as easy as that and I am sure you know it.

Mathematical:



MOVING ON ISN'T EASY EITHER [

ifex370:



its not,but it sure is better than day dreaming about someone who doesn't give a hoot about how you feel... such selfish individuals only end up hurting you... so turn your back on em and face the world

Mathematical:



MOVING ON ISN'T EASY EITHER [

arsetalks:
Did you cheat on her? Or did she cheat on you? She said you gave her many chances and she wants to dump you?

Maybe she is feeling guilty for something she did wrong or she is with someone else.

If I were you and I am sure I want her and she wants me, I will use the false scarcity method.

Cease contact with her for a while. Let's see if she misses you. If she does, you can get her back if not, forget it.

Walexy96:



Thanks for your contribution.
Am sure she is actually feeling guilty because she cheated but psychologically i got to know and logically i confront her but all she has to do is seek for forgiveness which i actually granted. ever since then,things are not as the same as before. The false scarcity method i actually use is that I deleted my whatapp account, so that one way or the other we won't be communicating.
Other social app like facebook, twitter and even 2go....... i had stoped using those ever b4 now so stylishly we communicate through whatapp. i think deleting the whatapp makes her wear the mask of deception and taking the bold step.
thanks once again and other that has contributed.

arsetalks:
Do you love yourself? If you do, move on. It is one thing for someone to cheat and be sorry, but in this case, she is enjoying it. So much she wants to dump you ( probably for the guy she cheated on you with). She should be working hard to make amends and not looking for a break up.

Walexy96:
For some months now the relationship has been so bored to the two of us.
I tried my best to make things back to normal but what can I do when my good seems not to be good enough ?

The story is complicated, If not, I would have love to share it here.
But last night she send this text msg. so i want to know what she is really saying because i don't think I understand as she is not that straight forward in the decision she made.

This is the text: i write u dis txt wit g.rief in my heart...afta all dis y...our love shld ave waited a little much longa bt i dnt tink it has cum to stay...i am realky sori ...if i dcd to kip u...i will kip hurting u ...n i dnt want it...u gave it so many chances...n its obvious dat u dnt love me as u use to so its of no use...since we cant regain bak our love...so i dnt want u to boda abt me...pls move on...n forgive me if i ave don anytin to wrng u..i want to clear all dis bfr a new yr.so u can frgive me...dnt boda calling cause i cant talk to u nw...until i get ova it

so my question is that what exactly should i do ?
Did she mean it is over really ?
or she just want to take the pain just to see me happy since she failed in bringing/giving the happiness ?

EstarKeys:
she jex wan tak away d pain...she loves u mur dan u do

Walexy96:


I also see it this way too but majority has convinced me to move on. Happy New Year anyway.

Mathematical:
SHE'S LIKE NEW YEAR NEW GUY. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER, NEW YEAR RESOLUTION THINGY.. YOU GUYS AIN'T ENGAGED WHY BOTHER, IF SHE SAYS ITS OVER, GET OVER IT. SHE'S TRYNA MOVE ON.

Walexy96:



Thanks for your contribution.
Am sure she is actually feeling guilty because she cheated but psychologically i got to know and logically i confront her but all she has to do is seek for forgiveness which i actually granted. ever since then,things are not as the same as before. The false scarcity method i actually use is that I deleted my whatapp account, so that one way or the other we won't be communicating.
Other social app like facebook, twitter and even 2go....... i had stoped using those ever b4 now so stylishly we communicate through whatapp. i think deleting the whatapp makes her wear the mask of deception and taking the bold step.
thanks once again and other that has contributed.
It is now conspicous that she want me no more.
Am just listening to no more u by Akon.