There's this girl i met 4months ago and fell in love with, ever since then i've been buying her stuffs, just to show her how much i care. just recently i paid her a visit, but wen i got to her compound i met her brother outside. We gisted for somtime b4 he asked me the question...''what do u really want from my sister?'' I can't remember saying anything reasonable..
Pls Just picture urself in dis situation and suggest what wud've been the best answer to this question.
Note: i'm a student n i dnt hav any intention of marrying in the next 5yrs, but i love the girl.

Hmmmmmmm

Yeah...i still would want to throw d question bak at you..what exactly r your motives... What do u mean by wen u say u love her.....

The Truth; I don't know what I want, am Clueless maybe I want to Bleep her, get her pregnant thenI want to ruin her life and my education!


Just tell him that!

Tell him what you want nah; her love. Or are there other motives?

So you don't know what you want from his sister, you want us to tell you what you want so you could go back to tell him, shey?

see, I bin wan call u mumu but I com tink am say e no gud. because e b like say u don pass dat level since. Make I Google one beta name 4 u. I dey com

Why on earth will you ask me a question you're in the best position to answer

op jst ansa dis question:

wha do u rili want frm d girl?

I know if most of u guys forming king kong here fyn urself in such a situation, una go begin stammer.
To me, the question wud av been very easy to answer if it was asked by the girl herself cos i wud've told her somtin like ''i want u.. Or i want u to be my girlfriend... But i didn't knw how to convince the brother that my intention was not to use n dump his sister.

Just tell him SEX

kristen12:
Just tell him SEX

lol.. U're not serious.
As a girl, If som1 give u such a reply, how wil u react?

Trendy247:
I know if most of u guys forming king kong here fyn urself in such a situation, una go begin stammer.
To me, the question wud av been very easy to answer if it was asked by the girl herself... But i didn't knw how to convince the brother that my intention was not to use n dump his sister.

Honestly man i understand what you mean. I have been in exact similar situation with similar question. And after like Two years now we have been seeing each other, that question ''what do you want from my sister'' is the one question i can't forget as long as i live.

I remember when the elder sister of my girlfriend popped the question.. I easily and jokingly said i wanted to marry her. And till date, that statement was like endorsing a life warant i may not be able to take back. Many times i wished that question didn't come up and didn't have to answer that question.

My advice, anything you say should not be too committing.. Like ''nothing serious, i just wanted lend her textbook'' lol

gsainttrinity:


Honestly man i understand what you mean. I have been in exact similar situation with similar question. And after like Two years now we have been seeing each other, that question ''what do you want from my sister'' is the one question i can't forget as long as i live.

I remember when the elder sister of my girlfriend popped the question.. I easily and jokingly said i wanted to marry her. And till date, that statement was like endorsing a life warant i may not be able to take back. Many times i wished that question didn't come up and didn't have to answer that question.

My advice, anything you say should not be too committing.. Like ''nothing serious, i just wanted lend her textbook'' lol

lol... Tnx man, its dat marriage aspect dat i really wanted to avoid because i knw dats what every caring broda wil want to hear.
The reason he asked me is because d sista always show everytin i giv to her to every1 in her family, including d mum

smile then tell him I want happiness from your sister

Trendy247:

lol.. U're not serious.
As a girl, If som1 give u such a reply, how wil u react?

If Ɣ☺ΰ say anything apart from that he'll think you're lying cos he's a guy and I'm sure he knows whatsup.
And I guess the girl is between 15-19yrs, that why her bro is asking you that

I don't have a problem with some one telling me that, that is his problem. It depends on what I want from him. Inshort we go use ourselves tire

jingh:
smile then tell him I want happiness from your sister

wow! Nice one
but wat if he decided to add '' and how do u intend to achieve dat?''

kristen12:

If Ɣ☺ΰ say anything apart from that he'll think you're lying cos he's a guy and I'm sure he knows whatsup.
And I guess the girl is between 15-19yrs, that why her bro is asking you that

I don't have a problem with some one telling me that, that is his problem. It depends on what I want from him

tnks ma...she's 21 tho

Trendy247:

lol... Tnx man, its dat marriage aspect dat i really wanted to avoid because i knw dats what every caring broda wil want to hear.
The reason he asked me is because d sista always show everytin i giv to her to every1 in her family, including d mum

you are wise to consider it in the first place. In my own case, i had to learn the importance of not saying what you may not fufil.

The truth is that, although no body is forcing her on me, but my word seem to be my bond. And my conscience won't let me rest.

jingh:
smile then tell him I want happiness from your sister

Happiness indeed......Ωo one can make him happy except himself

I think the better answer is ''she is a very good friend, and i enjoy her company or talking with her''

Trendy247:

tnks ma...she's 21 tho

That's serious. You don't have intention of marrying her soon then why go to her house na, to avoid all these kind of Jamb questions .

Trendy247:
I know if most of u guys forming king kong here fyn urself in such a situation, una go begin stammer.
To me, the question wud av been very easy to answer if it was asked by the girl herself cos i wud've told her somtin like ''i want u.. Or i want u to be my girlfriend... But i didn't knw how to convince the brother that my intention was not to use n dump his sister.

it would have been easier to lie to her than to her brother right?
Probably he is a coach in the game u are about to play.

God will catch u

kristen12:

Happiness indeed......Ωo one can make him happy except himself

he Ve to say something first till he fund more suitable word to say

Trendy247:

wow! Nice one
but wat if he decided to add '' and how do u intend to achieve dat?''

Trendy247:

wow! Nice one
but wat if he decided to add '' and how do u intend to achieve dat?''

Tell him you Ve always been a wall flower in your life, you don't have friend you only keep to your self but her sister woke dat dat dead feelings in you, she give you happiness you Ve been denying yourself. she is a source of inspiration to you and she keep you focused.

I will achieve dat while dating and marrying her in future

kristen12:

That's serious. You don't have intention of marrying her soon then why go to her house na, to avoid all these kind of Jamb questions .

lol.. I'm a student, though running a biz also.. But i just dnt see myself marrying in d next 5yrs... I only went there cos i love her, and loving her doesn't mean i shd start now to discuss marriage na

jingh:


Tell him you Ve always been a wall flower in your life, you don't have friend you only keep to your self but her sister woke dat dat dead feelings in you, she give you happiness you Ve been denying yourself. she is a source of inspiration to you and she keep you focused.

I will achieve dat while dating and marrying her in future

Hmmm... Person go need write am as expo cos to cram dis one no be here o

Trendy247:

lol.. I'm a student, though running a biz also.. But i just dnt see myself marrying in d next 5yrs... I only went there cos i love her, and loving her doesn't mean i shd start now to discuss marriage na

OK, the family members might be thinking differently na........anyway marriage is the last thing in the mind of most guys

u r a student. u don't intend to marry in d near future. considering d fact that that's a long time u guys will of course eventually break up.

here's d answer to the brother's question ; Sex

here's d answer u should hv given d brother ; Love.

Then pray he's not as smart n as open-eyed as I am to know that u r just a lying b............
na new year b dis. make I no talk rubbish

I don't believe in getting into a relationship for the sake of it. For me, getting involbed in a relationship is a precursor to getting married.

If I am not interested in marriage then I shouldn't be interested in any relationship. It would pay me more to focus my energy on applying to the priesthood or religious life instead.

If I were in your shoes and that question was thrown at me, I would make him understand that I seek a wife and his sister seems to have what I need in a wife though we are still getting to know each other.

Trendy247:

wow! Nice one
but wat if he decided to add '' and how do u intend to achieve dat?''

Tell him you Ve always been a wall flower in your life, you don't have friend you only keep to your self but her sister woke dat dat dead feelings in you, she give you happiness you Ve been denying yourself. she is a source of inspiration to you and she keep you focused.

Dlionsheart:
So you don't know what you want from his sister, you want us to tell you what you want so you could go back to tell him, shey?

Yes

mesoade:
Why on earth will you ask me a question you're in the best position to answer

Na today?