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If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 1:18am On Jan 03, 2015 |
As a woman, there's nothing better than being in the presence of a man who relishes in his masculinity in a way that doesn't involve the obvious chest-pounding and cat- calling, but the confident reserve of a gentleman. Now, before you accuse me of hating men, let me be clear; I love more things about men than I can put into one article. This is not about finding female empowerment though man-bashing. Quite the opposite, actually. It's a celebration of the grown up man's man who knows how to treat a woman. What does this man look like, to me, at least? Well... [1.] He is hygienic, but cleans his nails and trims his nose hairs outside of a nail salon. Think about it: Would Hemingway or Gladiator be getting his nails buffed? Methinks not. [2]. He can balance both swag and sophistication and a career and a personal life without too many proverbial exclamation points (and certainly not multiple ones in a text message. No, no, no). [3.] He reserves his "LOL" for actual laughter, which he exudes out loud and often. [4]. He isn't looking to play "pen pal" with you through your iPhone because he knows that all text and no play makes Johnny a very dull boy. [5.] When he's interested in a woman, he doesn't wait three days to call her, but he does actually call her, and when he does, he asks her out for dinner, makes reservations, picks a great bottle of wine (because he knows how to) and then makes sure she gets home safely. [6.] If he wants to see her again, he lets her know, and if he doesn't, he politely lets her know that it was a pleasure to spend time with her, even if it wasn't. He does, however, let her know gently and firmly enough that he's not interested so that she doesn't waste her time thinking it might become something it won't. [7.] He reads actual books and newspapers and holds opinions on everything from scotch pairings to world events all the while understanding that not all of his opinions are facts and that not everyone has to agree with him in order for him to maintain his relationships or his manhood. In fact, he enjoys it when you don't agree with him because it means he gets to indulge you in a good debate or leave you thinking a little bit harder about things than when you sat down in front of him. [8.] He opens doors and takes coats, not because he feels a woman is weak, but because he is strong enough to show that he cares about the comfort of those around him. [9.] Sure, he might want to get into a woman's bed, but he's also interested in getting into her head as experience has shown him that seduction is a delicate dance and the man who resides in her mind has conquered every other part of her. [10.] He appreciates a woman who shows she cares for him, but he isn't interested in being courted. He enjoys taking the lead in courting and doesn't need to be "chased" because he's in desperate need of an ego stroke. He also won't play "puppy dog" to a woman who takes advantage of this. [11.] He doesn't look to be anyone's father or savior, and he doesn't pretend to be the leading man in any woman's fairy tale. He's just a man looking for a partner who can slay her own dragons, pay her own bills and explore the world alongside him. [12.] He looks for a woman who doesn't need him, but wants him, not for money or the happiness or a baby or a safety net, but solely for who he is. [13.] He has a career, a hobby, a family of close friends and a favorite way to have his steak prepared and he isn't the least bit intimidated when the woman in front of him shares these qualities; quite the contrary, it makes him want her more. [14.] He has taken the time to get to know himself and has a strong understanding of his own character and convictions, what he values and what he doesn't. He is a man who is honest with himself about himself and therefore is OK being honest with those around him. [15.] He takes as much pride in the way he treats women he's with as he does his job and the way he looks. [16.] He's not the bad boy, a good boy, or a boy at all; he's a man. A leading man, and he's looking not for a good girl, but a great woman. One who shares all of the solid qualities that he brings to the table, and perhaps, can teach him something along the way. He's willing to wait and work for this woman, to fight for her and will gladly hold out for her as long as he needs to. But when she comes along, he doesn't sit on the fence; he's smart enough to know when he's gotten damned lucky. And when she finds him, she should be smart enough to know the same. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 1:19am On Jan 03, 2015 |
its true shaa |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 1:36am On Jan 03, 2015 |
u just described my dream man. Where is he? 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 1:44am On Jan 03, 2015 |
dorlapoh20:pls tell al dix nairaland guys |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Tymax(m): 1:46am On Jan 03, 2015 |
dorlapoh20:In your dreams na. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 1:47am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Come collect clay n cement! 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by SIRKOL(m): 1:48am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Hmmm so wat do u say about me that hv a few part of that? And is it possible for one man to have all those qualities? |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by aminho(m): 2:41am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Why will you discribe me in a public forum dis 1 Like |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by echobee(f): 3:05am On Jan 03, 2015 |
aminho:hmmmmmmmmm! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by adewaletb2(m): 3:45am On Jan 03, 2015 |
I know someone who sells sand plus cement. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Honestgirl(f): 3:59am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Lord, where can a lady find this man. I'm so tired of meeting time wasters and unserious guys. Oh God help! Your daughter is in serious need. 6 Likes |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by dechandel(f): 4:06am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Lool The list up there just describes a perfect man and there is no such thing as a perfect man We cant have it all in a bite So the man who does all these and more doesnt exist 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 4:20am On Jan 03, 2015 |
dechandel:u no dey sleep? |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 4:21am On Jan 03, 2015 |
This is description of Jesus Christ naaa...... 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by dechandel(f): 4:30am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Ipledge:I just woke up |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 4:38am On Jan 03, 2015 |
dechandel:am eating popcorn,come and join me |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by sheddo619(m): 5:43am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Nairaland with sleepless op's since 138 AD |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Elparaiso(m): 5:51am On Jan 03, 2015 |
I smell FP...... Let me share in that *MODIFIED I am shocked that this list was written by a guy...... Quote me when he sees any one with those qualities.... Jesus Christ that had them sef was still killed by men and women.... Until God himself Date This Ladies Them No Go Gree.... But sorry ladies, God is a jealous dude.... You better sacrifice some qualities 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by DocAdray(f): 6:34am On Jan 03, 2015 |
OP, please can you buy one of such men for me? Will send the money to your account. |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 6:50am On Jan 03, 2015 |
SIRKOL: Yes its possible |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 6:55am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by nnasalma(f): 7:01am On Jan 03, 2015 |
nice |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by JoeCutie(m): 7:06am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by JoeCutie(m): 7:09am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Who says the described man doesn't exist? He does... In Heaven, sitting at the right hand side of His father. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 7:16am On Jan 03, 2015 |
you can get men like this in hollywood movies.. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by MizMyColi(f): 7:23am On Jan 03, 2015 |
OP, what's your sauce for this writ? Clearly, this is a white's cornucopia of an ideal man. This shouldn't work for blacks; that'd be akin to delusion. |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 7:31am On Jan 03, 2015 |
This shouldn't be the criterion for knowing a man from a boy now.... or for choosing the ideal man... btw, show me a man that possesses all these characteristics n I'd cry green blood.....If a man should possess these, he's simply acting up... let's face it, he's either fake or a machine.... |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by alberto2k(m): 7:31am On Jan 03, 2015 |
dorlapoh20: I'll send u a truck of clay, so u can mould him urself 1 Like |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 7:46am On Jan 03, 2015 |
alberto2k:and the breath of life how will i get that? |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Heromaniaa: 7:48am On Jan 03, 2015 |
I thought in this new year, we would be more inclined to dealing with facts and real issues as opposed to these futuristic, delusional thread... If the op was in chibok... I guess his supposed description of a real man may include possession and ability to handle an AK47. 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 7:48am On Jan 03, 2015 |
JoeCutie: |
Re: If Your Guy Does These 16 Things. Congrats ! You Found A REAL MAN by Nobody: 7:50am On Jan 03, 2015 |
badoolee:Nairaland guys are never and will never be romantic |
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