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If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by sorextee(m): 12:21pm On Aug 07, 2015
1. He is hygienic, but cleans his nails and trims his nose hairs outside of a nail salon.

2. He can balance both swag and sophistication and a career and a personal life without too many proverbial exclamation points (and certainly not multiple ones in a text message. No, no, no).

3. He reserves his “LOL” for actual laughter, which he exudes out loud and often.

4.. He isn't looking to play “pen pal” with you through your iPhone because he knows that all text and no play makes Johnny a very dull boy. wink

5. When he’s interested in a woman, he doesn’t wait three days to call her, but he does actually call her, and when he does, he asks her out for dinner, makes reservations, picks a great bottle of wine (because he knows how to) and then makes sure she gets home safely.

6. If he wants to see her again, he lets her know, and if he doesn’t, he politely lets her know that it was a pleasure to spend time with her, even if it wasn’t. He does, however, let her know gently and firmly enough that he’s not interested so that she doesn’t waste her time thinking it might become something it won’t.

7. He reads actual books and newspapers and holds opinions on everything from scotch pairings to world events all the while understanding that not all of his opinions are facts and that not everyone has to agree with him in order for him to maintain his relationships or his manhood. In fact, he enjoys it when you don’t agree with him because it means he gets to indulge you in a good debate or leave you thinking a little bit harder about things than when you sat down in front of him.

8. He opens doors and takes coats, not because he feels a woman is weak, but because he is strong enough to show that he cares about the comfort of those around him.

9. Sure, he might want to get into a woman’s bed, but he’s also interested in getting into her head as experience has shown him that seduction is a delicate dance and the man who resides in her mind has conquered every other part of her.

10. He appreciates a woman who shows she cares for him, but he isn't interested in being courted. He enjoys taking the lead in courting and doesn't need to be “chased” because he’s in desperate need of an ego stroke. He also won’t play “puppy dog” to a woman who takes advantage of this.

11. He doesn't look to be anyone’s father or savior, and he doesn't pretend to be the leading man in any woman’s fairy tale. He’s just a man looking for a partner who can slay her own dragons, pay her own bills and explore the world alongside him.

12. He looks for a woman who doesn't need him, but wants him, not for money or the happiness or a baby or a safety net, but solely for who he is. (THIS ONE IS SCARCE IN NIGERIA)

13. He has a career, a hobby, a family of close friends and a favorite way to have his steak prepared and he isn’t the least bit intimidated when the woman in front of him shares these qualities; quite the contrary, it makes him want her more.

14. He has taken the time to get to know himself and has a strong understanding of his own character and convictions, what he values and what he doesn’t. He is a man who is honest with himself about himself and therefore is OK being honest with those around him.

15. He takes as much pride in the way he treats women he’s with as he does his job and the way he looks.

16. He’s not the bad boy, a good boy, or a boy at all; he’s a man. A leading man, and he’s looking not for a good girl, but a great woman. One who shares all of the solid qualities that he brings to the table, and perhaps, can teach him something along the way. He’s willing to wait and work for this woman, to fight for her and will gladly hold out for her as long as he needs to. But when she comes along, he doesn’t sit on the fence; he’s smart enough to know when he’s gotten damned lucky. And when she finds him, she should be smart enough to know the same.

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Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Hawlahscho(m): 12:22pm On Aug 07, 2015
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by vizkiz: 12:26pm On Aug 07, 2015
they copy and paste stuffs and expect us to just follow up like ants undecided
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Nobody: 12:28pm On Aug 07, 2015
Eyya...
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Nobody: 12:31pm On Aug 07, 2015
Doz are characteristics of a mugu or Maga.
Nigerian gals ain't that romantic.

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Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by mencade4: 12:32pm On Aug 07, 2015
nonsense!
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by DuchessLily(f): 12:32pm On Aug 07, 2015
Hmmmm
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Infomizer(m): 12:34pm On Aug 07, 2015
Op, you dey do these things?

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Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by sorextee(m): 12:36pm On Aug 07, 2015
yes o, i dey do them, but they keep leaving me cry cry

Infomizer:
Op, you dey do these things?
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Infomizer(m): 12:37pm On Aug 07, 2015
sorextee:
yes o, i dey do them, but they keep leaving me cry cry


Which soap you dey take baff?

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Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by chudidonas(m): 12:39pm On Aug 07, 2015
Rubbish... Op come and take clay and mould the man
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Nobody: 12:39pm On Aug 07, 2015
who wants a real man?
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Nobody: 12:40pm On Aug 07, 2015
OP,can you do all these things?.....be sincere!
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by agarawu23(m): 12:52pm On Aug 07, 2015
yimu
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by XavierBlue(m): 12:56pm On Aug 07, 2015
if i hear say i open door give girl...


XavierBlue
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by dastuna01(m): 12:57pm On Aug 07, 2015
I kuku Don smart
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Osezzua(m): 1:19pm On Aug 07, 2015
Nor be real man be that ooooo, na better woman wrapper him be....
Nonsense
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by segebobo: 3:09pm On Aug 07, 2015
*Yawns
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by slydog(m): 6:04pm On Aug 07, 2015
11. He doesn't look to be anyone’s father or savior, and he doesn't pretend to be the leading man in any woman’s fairy tale. He’s just a man looking for a partner who can slay her own dragons, pay her own bills and explore the world alongside him.

Love this, Nigeria girls turn their guys to ATM machine
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by BOWOTO(m): 7:26pm On Aug 07, 2015
POO
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by virud: 9:57pm On Aug 07, 2015
#CountDownToOldAge
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Gurgle(f): 10:00pm On Aug 07, 2015
hmm
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Nobody: 10:07pm On Aug 07, 2015
You do all this and you wont get any punana
The girls will call U boring
Esp. No5. If you call a girl soon after she gives U her number she will call you thirsty or a desperate nigga
Re: If Your Guy Does These Things, Congrats! You Found A Real Man by Nobody: 10:11pm On Aug 07, 2015
lygn19:
Doz are characteristics of a mugu or Maga.
Nigerian gals ain't that romantic.

Osezzua:
Nor be real man be that ooooo, na better woman wrapper him be....
Nonsense

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