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Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by sluk(m): 4:12pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
I share in this. I so value my peace ✌ of mind. I hate nagging like I hate GEJ's government. @op better quit that demon before she invites wicked friends for your burial. But @op how old are you if I may ask, I have some advice for you. [code][/code] Nigga44: |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by 1miccza: 6:05pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
First O she's from a useless home,you probably didn't notice all of this when you were courting my advice divorce her before you end up in the grave. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by 1miccza: 6:10pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
firstEVA: Emmm I don't also support divorce but in this very case the wife is worse than a demon mark my words she would bring other men into their home and kill him one day 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by 1miccza: 6:14pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
andromida: The wife is being influenced by the demonic sisters and they would probably lead her to her death eventually 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 6:32pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
1miccza:Remember we've not heard from her, her story may be different. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by 1miccza: 6:40pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
firstEVA:In stories like this,the other party would always be on the defensive,but the signs are in the story,signs like the sisters coming to fight,the butt pads,her curses,the threats and the fact that she takes pride in every nonsense she's doing. These are not good signs and they point to a not too palatable end. My thoughts though |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by KLand(m): 6:42am On Jan 07, 2015 |
krispycash: I beg to differ. The husband hasn't accused the Wife of infidelity. The issues he raised are not beyond remedy, especially if they will yield to God. Divorce does more harm than good. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:44am On Jan 07, 2015 |
1miccza: Nobody knows what is what really. You are assuming the wife is being influenced you don't know for sure what her sisters tell her. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by samtol4(m): 10:18am On Jan 07, 2015 |
@op .This is your own side of the story. I believe her own story will b different from your version . You were not forced to marry her .YOUR Marriage need JESUS CHRIST .whatever happen never assault a woman ,you draging her to remove those stuff is called assault . |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by 1miccza: 1:13pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
andromida: But just as I said the signs are obvious,they wouldn't join her in such a useless battle if they weren't the driving force behind her. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by maxjax(m): 2:39pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Marriage!! is Good but has a lot of ups and downs so the best way to handle your marriage is by inviting the Prince of Peace (JESUS) into it, secondly both of you need deliverance...... look for a True man of God to deliver both of you. If you trace it well you will see that it is not an ordinary thing. they are out to destroy you. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
KLand: If u read the article, you'd understand certain behavioural patterns of a cheating wife.... He doesn't have to say it... It's already very obvious she feels there is a better man than her husband whom she's seeing and all.... When u are being emotionally strangulated by your spouse... What reason could there be? Either ways, it's pretty obvious... She's seeing another man 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Lightening: 8:31pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
johnsonjosbles: You seem to have the midas touch. Very touching. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by poshest(f): 12:24am On Jan 08, 2015 |
it is well |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 12:26am On Jan 08, 2015 |
poshest: Where are you from? |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by thecommunist(m): 9:36am On Jan 08, 2015 |
2buff:kalamakuta |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by hedonistic: 9:47am On Jan 08, 2015 |
femikay149: Most well to do men cheat on their wives in this part of the world, it is the norm, and we don't hear that the wives become meaning demons as a result. That is certainly not what this is about. Let's stop fishing for excuses where there are none. A butt-pad wearing married woman boldly tells her husband unbelievable things like: it shall never be well with you, you will work like an elephant and eat like an ant, I will kill you, etc and you're talking about whether he cheated on her. Is it not clear that she is heavily cheating on him aside from her demonic behaviour? |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 10:08am On Jan 08, 2015 |
1miccza: She may be the force driving herself. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Drone007: 12:37pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
krispycash:I know a friend in a similar situation. He was besotted with a Sierra Leonean girl he met in Ghana. She returned with him to Nigeria where they wedded; but thereafter refused to live with him in Nigeria, though they had agreed to live in Nigeria after marriage. Her reason was that light is not stable in Nigeria; there was too much traffic jam in Lagos etc. As fate would have it, she soon ran into a series of troubles in Accra which necessitated the man's physical presence. The complexity of the wife's problems turned what was supposed to have been a short 2-week rescue mission into a 3 year stay in that country. By the time he defied his wife to return to his country his apartment and all his property, including vital documents, were all gone. Out of love for his wife and a principled stand on maintaining family stability, especially because of their two under-age children, the man returned back to his wife and children. His wife who was already given bouts of violence (sometimes attacking the man with kitchen knives while boasting that she was a Sierra Leonean rebel), however, showed no compassion but rather bragged that she had prayed that the misfortune with his house should happen. About a year later, the man needed to travel back to Nigeria to get documents needed to process his residency permit to enable him live legally in the country with the family. His wife cut all communication with him since then. It also emerged that by the time the wedding took place, the woman already had a nine year-old daughter in Freetown, but who was not living with her in Accra. There were also very serious suspicion that her real reason for returning to back in Accra after the wedding was that it gave her the freedom to continue having affairs with other men, and also to market herself (she claims to be a professional marketer, by the way) from one office to another, though she is supposed to be a married woman. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
thecommunist: I wan fear before say you be ndi Igbo, because then I would have had to call you a liar Igbo women rude pas anything. But That's good for you and your husband. Few wives understand that the best way to get their way with hubby is not by beating their chests, but by being the neck to not just the head, but to the eyes as well. Because the neck can turn all it wants, but it is where the eye wants to look, it will still look. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by 1miccza: 8:02pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
andromida: I strongly believe she's not alone in this |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Drone007: 11:52pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:Good day to you too, dear reasonable-sounding daughter. No, you had no issue reading the context the first yime. You (from your posts) sound way more intelligent and respectful ( (even on forum like this where your anonymity is assured) than that. Truth is, that part isn't in his initial post; he added that bit of information at Page 12, Post No.10 (herewith included below): 'Wow,nairaland family section is indeed a big family. Thank you all for your comments ,advice and suggestions. I have already accepted all the blames,it was my mistakes,but then,there's no perfect human. I will like to correct an impression that most posters had,though,it may not be necessary,but I will just have to say it so as to keep the record straight. I'm financially independent of my wife, I pay all the bills at home, I only allowed her assist me when I had some financial challenges and that was immediately after our trad, I have since bounced back, [b][/b]plz ,be guided that what I earn in a month,my wife earns same in 4 months or more.Thank You.' [/quote May your good attitude continue to stand you out, make you a leader in your generation and guarantee you a place of honor before kings; may you not stand before mean men and women. Stay good! 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by SStoneCCold: 2:34pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
BABANGBALI:End of discussion. |
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