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Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by magabounce(m): 7:37pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
O boiiii..... Shez soooo not in2 d marriage bruv Consent tu d divorce n let ur mum tk k of ur kid Personally tho.. I nvr allow d gurl pay d bills *Itz a Nigerian fin!!! 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Jarus(m): 7:38pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Any woman that will try half of this with me and still remain in my house, has not been born. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ToyinDipo(m): 7:38pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
@OP you have my sympathy, but sorry all I have to say is nairaland is fun. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by TDstarr: 7:38pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
TAKE THE CHILD AND DRIVE HER OUT, SINCE SHE SAID SHE IS NOT YOUR WIFE, SHE IS OBVIOUSLY CRAZY, ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY, SOME DEGREE ARE HIGHER THAN SOME 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by donmalcolm21(m): 7:38pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
onyichick:shut your dirty mouth and stop behaving like the OP wife before I take out my anger on your miserable soul. 11 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Forwetinnah: 7:39pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Divorce her wicked arze...why are you here crying? A mistake has been done. .undo it!! 4 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by demelza: 7:39pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
coogar:Its called faith. 4 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by simdam500(m): 7:40pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
That why i dont do illiterate... Is she educated/a christian 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by cycline404(m): 7:41pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Sorry about your ordeal OP! But you knew all this to be her character and you still went ahead to marry her (Mistake 101) You entered a physical fight with your wife and tore her cloth (Mistake 102) Because of her condition you allowed her to wore the Ikebe-Pad (butt-pad) during pregnancy (Mistake 103) Your wife placing negative words on you (catastrophic 104) SOLUTION 101 (she said it already just read in between the lines of her words "if you still consider me as your wife you are on a long thing" LESSON 101. You cannot change her.... I hope one babalawo never dey deceive your wife! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by BokoHaramm: 7:41pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Op, kill that woman or divorce her before NLanders type RIP for U. 3 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by stanisbaratheon: 7:41pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
omoh see thread naw. Wonderful!! |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Eleyi go gan-an o:@.... Throwing numbers around like she works with UN... Rosarie: 9 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by kilokeys(m): 7:42pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
bros.. walk away. 4 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by guass(m): 7:42pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Ur woes will triple geometrically if she leaves. U are like a CAPTAIN (controller) of a SHIP, and the woman the engine with which the ship is going smoothly, in a severe weather, STORM, u do not throw away the engine into the sea just because the engine is disappointing. Am coming back let me go tru every posts first. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by WORLDPEACE(m): 7:42pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
See number of viewers on the thread. I am surprised one of these persons hasn't advised the op to commit suicide. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by StPete: 7:42pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rosarie: Stop dis falsifications about pre-marital sex, it has nothing to do with marital life unless the lady in question was an outright w*hore. Every marriage undergoes challenges, stop making everything look churchy abeg 5 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
byvan: Couldn't stop laughing after reading that too. When many would rather go out pantless, this bimbo of a wife is bothered about butt pads . The mental video of Op struggling to yank the butt pad off his wife's àss is cracking me up. Op, what are you still doing in this marriage anyway? You mentioned her sister is a police officer, is it until she uses her sister's shakabula to blow your brains? Would have suggested you sent her packing, but since circumstances have made it the other way round, leave that insane woman with her insane relatives. I wonder why you are still tolerating being bullied, abused and ridiculed by your wife and her family. N.B- I don't believe you're a saint as painted in your narration, but since your butt pad wearing wife is not here to give her own side of the story, we'll stick with the fact that she's an agent of satan. , so RUN! 8 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by hotice01: 7:43pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rep042: Bro I feel your pain.I can be of help.pls kindly contact me on 08032252564. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
You married the wrong woman. File for divorce before she kills you since her family supports every of her actions. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by TDstarr: 7:45pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rosarie:WOW you sound very wise, thats why i love matured women, p.s. in a good way not otherwise. one bottle of moet for you am actually gonna apply this advise in my life |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Raymie(m): 7:45pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
BTW, any man entering the institution of marriage IMHO MUST be able to cater 110% for his family needs whether hs wife is working or not, richer or not at least for the first 5years of marriage. Getting married with all these income sharing expectations will belittle yhu before the eyes of yhur madam and in OPs case, her kindred. Again OP, do a DNA test on yhur baby. Yhu can never know with these relatives to policepeople 4 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by 0b1nna: 7:46pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
elantraceey: I'm really surprised that @ 28 she still reasons like she's a teenager. I really wonder what people think when they make/take those vows, perhaps they think of the cake, the reception venue, their ex's who may be present, but certainly not those vows. One has to look b4 taking a leap. 4 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by donmalcolm21(m): 7:46pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
DopeAngel:another eediot walking about naked on NL. Any of you that abuse this Op will get it hot from me 17 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by CzarRex: 7:46pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
chaii I rilli feel 4 d op.it aint easy contendin dis kind of tinz..well me I advice u shuld run far away nd settle urself. 3 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Feraz(m): 7:46pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
teemanbastos:Na wa oh. Bros, if na one of your friend dey this kin predicament, you go advise am say 'till death do us part'? Someone has threatened to kill you, your wife for that matter and you're waiting for your pastors to settle this matter? OP, abeg, RUN!!! Separation is the best. If her family members support her, I don't see peace arriving anytime soon. BTW, isn't her elder sister married? Some ladies sha. Why is it that when a guy comes to Nairaland for advice, some ladies find fault with the guy? They leave the issue and start attacking the guy? Someone said unprintable things to her husband before the butt pad issue, yet, they could only pick the butt pad to discuss saying 'is it your body?' Why not leave her be. Nna, na wa oh. Some Nairaland ladies aha. . . . Rep042:NL ladies: It is your fault. You aren't man enough. She can really say unprintable words such as "it will not be well with you","as you go out,people will deal with you", "you will work like an elephant and eat like an ant", "this your certificate will never yield you any good thing", etc, name callings,abuses,curses etc.NL ladies: you know we ladies can sometimes say things we do not mean when we are angry. Please Nairalanders, I will like to know if it is wrong or out of place for a working class married lady to assist her husband in paying some bills or buying some foodstuffs at home. Because,anytime she assists in doing anything,she will record it and consequently use that to abuse and insult me whenever we have misunderstanding and or exchange of words.NL ladies: Bear with it. God will change her. Few months into our marriage,she started wearing butt pads, I told her to stop ,because I don't like the stuff,but she flared up and we had exchange of words. She told me that she has to look good to outsiders.NL ladies: is anything wrong wearing buttpads? Are you trying to stop her from looking good? Is it your body? On Xmas day(2014),she dressed up & wore the butt pads again,I told her to remove it ,but she refused,then i tried forcing her to do so,and that resulted to a serious fight. She tore my already ironed clothes to pieces(an expensive Indian attire I bought when I travelled to India),I tore hers too and forced the butt pads out from her body.NL ladies: It is because of premarital sex that this is happening to you; worst of all you are not ashamed to post this on a public forum. why didnt you see a marriage counsellor instead of posting it here Her words:"if you are still regarding me as your wife,then you wasting your time". Its obvious she wants a divorce because to her,she's still very young(28 years),and can easily move on. She doesn't give a damn.NL ladies: Your wife hasn't cheated on you, stolen your money, or committed any mortal crime. Man up and face your responsibilities and quit trying so hard to force yourself on her. It's not your place to tear down her clothes, butt pads or not, simply because you don't like them. By doing so, you've lowered yourself in her eyes, hence her fighting you back in retaliation. 11 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by slimdiggi: 7:46pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Get a good lawyer to tell you what your options are. Don't play with your life. Npf is involved. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Send her packing jawe. Divorce is a sure way to go, She is unchangeable as it stands now. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Atigba: 7:47pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Guy to the nearest court And do the needful Or You die young Life is too short to bear the unbearable Run for your or you die before your time 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
OP, you sound like a dumbass. What do you want us to tell you. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by nduchucks: 7:48pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
No disrespect intended, but the above indicates that the said wife is a uncouth and untrained Yoruba girl, posibly from Lagos - na dem sabi curse like dat. Oga, you need to pack your load and disappear without notice, but take responsibility for your child. If she come crying and begging and you let her back into your heart, na you sabi. 2 Likes |
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