I don't know why it seems both guys and girls/ladies have been crying, complaining and killing themselves over the other maybe because of the situation they went or are going through, well someone once said that we're partly responsible for anything that happens to us in life. as bitter as it may sound it is true.

1.YOU CAN'T CHANGE PEOPLE. For instance, you have a girlfriend that you like or love and you guys are dating and she keeps displaying some of her bad sides at the slightest provocation or no provocation at all like always nagging or spilling venoms (insults that can mess with a feeble minded person's perception )at you, you try to call her to order or back to her senses but to no avail and yet YOU STILL STICK WITH HER HOPING SHE WOULD CHANGE(in some cases bfs).well thank God everyone is not the same,we have two types of people.we have people that take sh!t and people that just don't take sh!t. so back to what we are discussing, while you're hoping and enduring she keeps feeding you sht till when she's done with you she leaves your blak azz and that's when you hop into nairaland to pour your sorrows out for us when you had been mixing and preparing the recipe for it...

2.STOP TAKING SH!T.....THIS NEEDS TO STOP, people this is 2015 my advice for you all is to 'STOP TAKING SH!T FROM OTHER PEOPLE ' Except from your boss at office and family(it depends ).

3.TREAT PEOPLE HOW THEY DESERVE TO BE TREATED....... This another thing some ladies complains or keep worrying why their guys treats them like a B!TCH, pls dear ask yourself am I behaving like a b!tch ? & guys you wonder why your girlfriend treats you like a pucci, ask yourself same question too then if you're really positive that you are not then you move on and away from that person no matter how hard it might be, better to be far away from a ticking time bomb that to be there hoping it doesn't blow. I'm typing this cos a friend of mine was whining about how his girlfriend is treating him and guess what .......HE ACTS LIKE A PUCCI around the girl.

4. PEOPLE TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU WANT THEM TO TREAT YOU or treat yourself (85percent of the time). respect begets respect, insult begets insult, what I'm trying to say is that you get what you give out of life, you give out positive attitude you get that in return, you do the latter you get the latter too. This is a new year people let's grow.
Guys don't believe that hype about respect a lady and treat a lady like a queen, if a lady behaves like a queen please please please treat her like a queen she is because she deserves it but if a lady acts like a B!TCH BY ALL MEANS TREAT HER LIKE A B!TCH same goes for the guys too, we are having a lot of guys crying about broken hearts because they went ahead to fall in love with a btch though love is crazy but we gotta use our mind and heart instead of only heart.......BTW I'm not against ladies Infact I adore and thank the lord for ladies cos without them we wouldn't be here (sensible ones though )but I sooooooooooo despise btches... I have an awesome girlfriend and I cherish her,love,adore and appreciate every bit of her and she knows how to reciprocate.

5. STOP WASTING TIME... .. guys we are derailing in a way because we haven't accepted the concept that time is money, if we truly accept thatcher won't be wasting time discussing rubbish and spending time with people that offers nothing but nonesense, another thing we need to do is concentrating on things that really matters and not the ones that we think that matters. watch the time you invest in female abi girly matters and invest a lot of time in yourselves please give 80percent of your time to reasonable things that will enhance you and add progress to your life and reduce the se*x se,x se,x almost all the time mindset ,It would do you a lot of good.

6. SELF ESTEEM IS EVERYTHING PEOPLE GET IT UP cos it has a lot to do with how your life goes.have a lot to discuss but let's stop here my fellow nairalanders, wish you all a happy New Year. live more, love more, give more and enjoy your life more.

Bro what is a the moral lesson for this long essay?

Diary of a pained guy

long athough i could not phantom the message

zeezahbee:
Diary of a pained guy

Such a heartbroken dude

Alfred200825:
Bro what is a the moral lesson for this long essay?

Alfred its for one to know his or her worth, to have or develop a strong mind and know how to protect it from the things the world throws at you, knowing when to put people where the truly belong without dilly dallying around, discovering oneself, knowing what you really want and knowing how to select friends bro cos they play a great part of how your future goes depends on it somehow

zeezahbee:
Diary of a pained guy

zeezahbee you need to sharpen your skill in reading, understanding what you read and analyzing before dishing out dear. :-)) one thing is to read another is to really understand what you read.

I understand exactly wat dis dude z tryna say.. Jus dat d text aint reader friendly.

He's tryna tell us dat "often tyms, we get wat we deserve in rships".. U want mr.right, be mrs.right!!

Alfred200825:


Such a heartbroken dude

:-)) work on your assertion bro, I'm in love with a beautiful sweet, caring, kind, strong willed, intelligent, loving
angel that knows what she wants and what's right and how to love.... the topic is something that most smart people already know and for some to learn from too. knowledge is continuous bro,peace.

Ewizard:
I understand exactly wat dis dude z tryna say.. Jus dat d text aint reader friendly.

He's tryna tell us dat "often tyms, we get wat we deserve in rships".. U want mr.right, be mrs.right!!

that's one of the things i'm trying to let them know...

Icedbeatz, i couldnt agree less, you nailed it.
I hope people will learn, and stick to what you said. Invest time and resources to evolve, rather than waste it on people that you wish to love you.

samisparkle24:
Icebeatz, i couldnt agree less, you nailed it.
I hope people will learn, and stick to what you said. Invest time and resources to evolve, rather than waste it on people that you wish to love you.

Looool... that is not me ooh.
Woooow.. check out the monikers.

Icedbeatz for once I'll say I agree with you 100%.

icebeatz:


Looool... that is not me ooh.
Woooow.. check out the monikers.

Really,i thought, it was you.
Make i check.

zeezahbee:
Diary of a pained guy

Oh Pretty Lady, why are so pained by his write-up.... See, i got the guys message completely.

Even if he is heartbroken that article doesn't portray such. Being hrtbroken doesn't mean he is a complete failure.

The OP wants us to learn how to get Mr. Nice or Mr. Bad, Mrs. Nice or Mrs. Bad which all depends on how we present ourselves.

Ewizard:
I understand exactly wat dis dude z tryna say.. Jus dat d text aint reader friendly.

He's tryna tell us dat "often tyms, we get wat we deserve in rships".. U want mr.right, be mrs.right!!

Exactly!

Wow nice write up

Romance section makes me soft like a jellyfish, how can a guy be spewing al these. Goddamnit. Guy yu no fit rezn ur babeee

[quote author=samisparkle24 post=29502491]
Really,i thought, it was you.
Make i check.[/quote

nah it's not him, hu wow(in AL Pacino's voice ), I got the same moniker with another person..... aight

@icebeatz what's up bro? how are you doing?

BokoHaramm:
Romance section makes me soft like a jellyfish, how can a guy be spewing al these. Goddamnit. Guy yu no fit rezn ur babeee

bro you can't reason with someone who don't wanna reason with you or who is unreasonable, I'm trying to let you know that's it's better to find someone who is reasonable than being with someone who is unreasonable most of the time. drama queen's affects your focus on life(btw that is if you let them ). we all know ladies displays some little irritating things when in a relationship and likewise guys but it should be to an extent not one week one drama or everyday drama bro.... one needs focus in life to attain goals.

What d op is tryin to say is show love to persi dat show u love and free the once dat is useless in ua life...

buchisom1:
What d op is tryin to say is show love to persi dat show u love and free the once dat is useless in ua life...

Not one who u love but the one who deserve the love. U may love someone while that person loves someones else.

MyParadise:


Not one who u love but the one who deserve the love. U may love someone while that person loves someones else.

u re d one gettin twisted here read and undstd wat am sayin

buchisom1:
u re d one gettin twisted here read and undstd wat am sayin

thanks for putting me tru

icedbeatz:


zeezahbee you need to sharpen your skill in reading, understanding what you read and analyzing before dishing out dear. :-)) one thing is to read another is to really understand what you read.

I will let this slide and that's what I felt about the post. Go and drink acid

MyParadise:


Oh Pretty Lady, why are so pained by his write-up.... See, i got the guys message completely.

Even if he is heartbroken that article doesn't portray such. Being hrtbroken doesn't mean he is a complete failure.

The OP want us to learn how to get Mr. Nice or Mr. Bad, Mrs. Nice or Mrs. Bad which all depends on how we present ourselves.

You got the message but I didn't get the message. I can't think the same way because my medulla oblongata works in a different way. Must my opinion be similar ? That's why it's a post, I have given my own opinion, give yours and pass.

zeezahbee:
You got the message but I didn't get the message. I can't think the same way because my medulla oblongata works in a different way. Must my opinion be similar ? That's why it's a post, I have given my own opinion, give yours and pass.

Okay, pls let ur blood not be hot.

Lets I forget, u said in one of ur posts that u r in USA right? Pls reply

MyParadise:

Okay, pls let ur blood not be hot.

Lets I forget, u said in one of ur posts that u r in USA right? Pls reply

Yes I am, so you stalking right ? I will catch you

zeezahbee:
Yes I am, so you stalking right ? I will catch you

No lady, pls dnt just get me wrong. I saw it on one post that made front page. And even if I am trailing u there nothing bad in it if it is just for good . I am planning of selling my Seasonal TV Movies scripts to Hollywood but I dnt know how to go about it.It is about 12 Episodes. Do you hve any idea how I go about it.

MyParadise:


No lady, pls dnt just get me wrong. I saw it on one post that made front page. And even if I am trailing u there nothing bad in it if it is just for good . I am planning of selling my Seasonal TV Movies scripts to Hollywood but I dnt know how to go about it.It is about 12 Episodes. Do you hve any idea how I go about it.

Hollywood , in your dream abi. I can't help sorry

zeezahbee:
Hollywood , in your dream abi. I can't help sorry

I am dreams yes.... I pray it would still come to pass. Okay? Cos I am always favoured wherever i find myself

Thanks for your quick and honest reply. Bye

nyc1