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Was She Not Born A Virgin by drfun(m): 2:35pm On Dec 15, 2008
I was woundering why a lot of ladies deny the fact that they have lost their virginity
to their one time lover when they meet another guy.this lady claim she was a
virgin but after dating for a while and we decided to explore,i found out she wasn't.when
i confronted her with the issue she said she doesn't know how she lost it.Could it be she was not
born a virgin,since she said she had never had sex before. undecided
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Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by richo2: 2:40pm On Dec 15, 2008
guy, u need to apply common sense once in a while abeg!!! angry angry
. . . besides how did u find out she wasnt a virgin since ur not even smart enof to know that all girls are born virgins!!!
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by spikedcylinder: 2:41pm On Dec 15, 2008
Usually, girls (the immature ones undecided) start by declaring that they are virgins to "earn" your respect, hoping they can string you along for whatever reason. Then when things begin to unfold, you start to hear stories about how they were raped by one uncle or the other.
Boring. undecided
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by OscarJ1(m): 2:47pm On Dec 15, 2008
u make sense.
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by Akinagirl(f): 2:58pm On Dec 15, 2008
Sad part is, they use these stories too often, so the ones that did get deflowered by these means, its hard to believe again.
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by MoneyRule(m): 3:00pm On Dec 15, 2008
@spikedcylinder
you are right,i met this one girl who claimed to be a virgin at first and then she started telling me this kind of boring story but in her own case she was raped by a guy she dated for two years!Can you believe that? I mean she bored me to speechlesness!
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by ifyhope: 4:08pm On Dec 15, 2008
Hey!!!! Mind you Virginity can not be lost only through sex with the opposite partner. Girls who attended Girls's school and probably practised lesbianism can also loose their virginity if either finger and candle and the likes are continually pushed into her, ok?. So the point am trying to make is that it can be lost through several ways.
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by spikedcylinder: 4:13pm On Dec 15, 2008
ifyhope:

Hey!!!! Mind you Virginity can not be lost only through sex with the opposite partner. Girls who attended Girls's school and probably practised lesbianism can also loose their virginity if either finger and candle and the likes are continually pushed into her, ok?. So the point am trying to make is that it can be lost through several ways.

In that case, such persons have no right to keep calling themselves virgins. undecided
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by steve49ja(m): 4:22pm On Dec 15, 2008
How would i know?
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by Tonyet1(m): 4:41pm On Dec 15, 2008
first fact the poster failed to realise was alot of girls lie alot believe me or not. . . . wev been there and seen them

in my hood we call girls who form like that DISVIRGINED VIRGINS! get that

thats who she is ok!
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by PoohBeer: 8:37pm On Dec 15, 2008
If ur talking bout the haemen(sp?) not all females r born with it! or can be broken from sports, tampons or mastubation with toys() so it might be easier for U to enter, Im really not intouch with my biology so,
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by Ben13: 9:03pm On Dec 15, 2008
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by Tatase(f): 5:15am On Dec 16, 2008
PoohBeer:

If ur talking bout the haemen(sp?) not all females r born with it! or can be broken from sports, tampons or mastubation with toys() so it might be easier for U to enter, I'm really not intouch with my biology so,

No you're exactly on point. The hymen (the usual tangible idenifier of virginity) CAN be broken not necessarily by sexual intercourse but from sports, tampon use, masturbation, or even pelvic exams at the doctors. The latter is common especially if the girl gets pap smears etc and the doctor is not particularly careful.
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by Dede1(m): 2:00pm On Dec 16, 2008
drfun:

I was woundering why a lot of ladies deny the fact that they have lost their virginity
to their one time lover when they meet another guy.this lady claim she was a
virgin but after dating for a while and we decided to explore,i found out she wasn't.when
i confronted her with the issue she said she doesn't know how she lost it.Could it be she was not
born a virgin,since she said she had never had sex before. undecided
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Are you a virginity specialist as to conclude the girl is not a virgin? For posing this question and pretending to know about the girls’ virginity or lack therefore, you must be totally naïve.
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by hajifaty: 2:17pm On Dec 16, 2008
She might be a virgin but u may not know becos ur finger went in straight without any obstruction. I have met some asian girls here that are truely virgin but I didn't belive it becos when I tried my finger it went in but very tight then I asked the girl about the jojolo thing and the girl said it can easy breakaway due to daily excercise which I later confirmed from other pple.
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by bloggz: 2:21pm On Dec 16, 2008
why lie or pretend,  for sure u can run but u can't hide, but funny enough some girls don't actually know whether or not they are v's
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by lacrimose(f): 10:20pm On Dec 16, 2008
Working out could cause a woman's hymen to break. So if a girl dont bleed it doesnt mean she wasnt a virgin.

Also, there is no doubt that some women lie but there are considerate amount females who broke their hymen from exercise, hard labor, tampon use etc
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by Nobody: 2:52am On Dec 17, 2008
spikedcylinder:

Usually, girls (the immature ones undecided) start by declaring that they are virgins to "earn" your respect, hoping they can string you along for whatever reason. Then when things begin to unfold, you start to hear stories about how they were raped by one uncle or the other.
Boring. undecided

Always, ALWAYS one uncle. I feel it is just silly. Do they not know that even if you are, the moment you aren't any more, the eye the the same boy who disvirgined you was using to look at you will change,
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by Kunbee: 1:55am On Dec 18, 2008
HELLO TAMPONS disvirgin no one for pete's sake
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by bluespice(f): 2:01am On Dec 18, 2008
wat were u trying to say kunbee? undecided
Re: Was She Not Born A Virgin by Nobody: 2:05am On Dec 18, 2008
Get educated. Although it's very rare, some people were not born with hymen

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