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Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
effogis: And marrying children and punishing gay adults |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
tensazangetsu: You really think it's only female kids that can be molested? Hear this, a male friend of mine was molseted by their house girl from primary 1 till he was in JSS3. Mom was hardly around. He initially didn't know what it was about but when he got to junior secondary and opened up to his peers they introduced him to porn magazines and advised him on how to take on the maid when next she approached him. What was the effect? Warped mentality. Right now he wants to reprogramme his mind but it's hard. Bad enough we don't have psychologists and accessible counsellors. Both boys and girls need protection. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
nattie5: Word! |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by adesbreath: 5:18pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
fr3do:Why do you say so..... |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by eyinjuege: 5:21pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
jude33084: Pls lets be real here. Because you don't often hear about it happening in other places doesnt mean it doesn't happen there frequently. The states you mentioned are probably ready for a change especially to prosecute and act as a deterrent to other paedophiles. Some other places are stil living in a bubble and when that bubble burst , it wont be funny. Child abuse is everywhere and we atimes assume its even worse abroad, but that's because we dont have the stats and due to d stigma attached many cases go unreported. |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by daveP(m): 5:36pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
This is cool, the book idea is effective too but Op from 1-10, you make it seem as if it doesnt happen at all to lil boys. Only your nephew as example of the points you tried to pass across. Yeah i know, it happens more to the girls than the boys, BUT......... (jots a thing or two) |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
God Bless You..OP. One of the most reasonable post I've seen on Nairaland, if not the best. We all need to join hands to fight this, really..not campaigning for people that don't know you and killing one anoda... I myself do NOT allow my lil sis to go out to anybody whose household has a small boy or maid..I MUST protect any young child. Y'all should do so too...relatives or not. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Ellimist: Where do you go when you're by yourself ? Who comes along when you cry for help ? I know I can't change the past. But as the river keeps flowing I'll keep on moving on. Be strong brother. Ayamlaykorn 1 Like |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by lepasharon(f): 6:26pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Damn |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by benjibabs(m): 7:01pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Hey Onegai, Long time!!!! Thanks for this piece. It is good to see that awareness is growing in this area. For those who are not in Nigeria and would like a similar book to help in this area, check out "Those are my private parts" by Diane Hanse. Here is a link to it on Amazon - http://www.amazon.com/Those-are-MY-Private-Parts/dp/1482544377/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1420739285&sr=8-1&keywords=Those+are+my+private+parts Amazon also has a lot of other great books in the children's safety books section (http://www.amazon.com/gp/bestsellers/books/3242/ref=zg_b_bs_3242_1) that are worth looking at. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by 1miccza: 8:00pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Onegai: I also don't have kÍds and neither am I married but I'll do everything possible to get that book for my soon to be kids. Thanks a bunch bro |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by krystal101(f): 8:18pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Ellimist: They Lord is your strength. I'm very sure you'd feel lighter since you've shared it **e-hugssss** |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by eowyn: 9:35pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
It's too bad we don't have the statistics on the number of kids abused. The abuser is usually a trusted friend or relative. It's imperative that parents protect and equip their children. Arm your kids with knowledge and listen nd probe. |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Six11(m): 10:08pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
I hate abuse and nobody will ever abuse my child or someone I love. But on the flip side, I have an assignment for everyone on this thread. I sincerely believe it will balance, harmonize and put things in perspective. Assignment- Read about and look for the meaning of the following: 1. Abuse 2. Child Abuse 3. Masochism 4. Sadomasochism 5. Sadist 6. Affection |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 12:31am On Jan 09, 2015 |
laykorn: Nowhere, No-one... Thanks all the same man Laykorn? Is that lyk a superhero name? krystal101: No, not really.. I feel sick and insecure I just pray for the day I can look back wifout hate and rage... Anyhoo, thanx. Oya chop kiss there |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by fr3do(m): 1:55am On Jan 09, 2015 |
adesbreath: Adesuwa, don't you watch the news? Molestation is very rampant in Edo. |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by krystal101(f): 6:37am On Jan 09, 2015 |
No, not really.. I feel sick and insecure I just pray for the day I can look back wifout hate and rage... Anyhoo, thanx. Oya chop kiss there [/quote] That's a bold step! Don't feel insecure jo. The day is coming when all of that will end "hate & rage"... **e-hugssss** |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 9:55am On Jan 09, 2015 |
naijababe: I'm glad it was of help. |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by SenatorJames(m): 9:56am On Jan 09, 2015 |
This is a good write up for any parent that care to learn. |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 11:40am On Jan 09, 2015 |
ileobatojo: It was very helpful, I watched it with both of them. The only thing i fear more than sexual abuse is substance abuse. 1 Like |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
krystal101: Hokay ma..iyaf heard. Thanks foh yur words ***returns e-hugzz*** |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Klare(f): 7:44pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
Chi59:real mercy gidi gan nii ooo |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by thooying: 10:56am On Jan 10, 2015 |
thanks for bringing this up, pple need to b fully aware |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by fr3do(m): 1:24pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
daveP: Stop! Little boys also deserve the type of protection girls get. 1 Like |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Jaypea98: 11:27pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
I was taught sexual education right from junior secondary school till I graduated cc airpure |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Onegai(f): 9:57pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
With the almost daily cases of Child Abuse being reported, I want to bring this topic up again. I've gotten my copy of Nomthi Odukoya's "No, Don't Touch Me There" (I am in no way affiliated to the author). Since I cannot sew AgbadaPampers to cover Baby E up "decently" and no-one can be trusted to have self-control and the law will not defend her (even worse, they may accuse her of tempting her attacker), I decided the best form of defence is offence. Please grab your copy or any book that will help you relate this serious issue to your kids. Both parents, take time to sit down together as a family and discuss it with your babies. Also, appropriate videos exist, teaching about how children can keep safe from Child Abuse. 1 Share
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Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Nobody: 1:05pm On Sep 01, 2015 |
Please where can one get the book? I searched on konga and didn't find it and Ilupwju is far for me,please help I really need it. |
Re: "No! Don't Touch Me There" by Onegai(f): 7:22pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Please contact The Fountain Of Life Bible Church as the author is wife to the head pastor. Bumping this thread up. 1 Like |
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