Hello guys! I have been dating this girl for almost two years now. We have been good but something that I do not really understand is that we have never had any disagreement or quarrelled for any reason.

I always tell her I love her but do not show it that much. I'm not the regular caller or unnecessarily romantic. but she ensures that we talk on phone everyday by either calling of flashing. she doesn't demand for anything and is always submissive to me.

However, our relationship has been more of a distant one cos she schools in Kofi n I work in abj.

my question is: is it normal that we never have problems? And if not, what should I do about it?.
I love her and I want to marry her.

No it is not normal...

U both need to know dat side of u ppl especially if u intend to marry her...

Op, dnt tell me u want her to change 4rm her nice sister Mary, to a nagging mama Nkechi o

Maybe by d time u guys stay 2gether for a little longer time, something similar to dat

must surely come up! Make u receive another babe call in her present na, den see if she wil

react to dat!

AmberQueen:
No it is not normal...

U both need to know dat side of u ppl especially if u intend to marry her...

They are still hiding their real selves i guess

izaray:
They are still hiding their real selves i guess

For two yrs

Makes no sense to me.

Life is too fleetin for such pretense.

izaray:
They are still hiding their real selves i guess

I am not pretending to her. I have told her my in and out. I even deliberately caused a stir between us to know how she reacts but she was the one apologizing. she is the religious type who always resign everything to God.

izaray:
Op, dnt tell me u want her to change 4rm her nice sister Mary, to a nagging mama Nkechi o

Maybe by d time u guys stay 2gether for a little longer time, something similar to dat

must surely come up! Make u receive another babe call in her present na, den see if she wil

react to dat!

Not that I want her to be a nag o. I won't take that. she is just too easy going that I feel I'm heading into a trap.

san316:


I am not pretending to her. I have told her my in and out. I even deliberately caused a stir between us to know how she reacts but she was the one apologizing. she is the religious type who always resign everything to God.

Dat's really nice of her, but be very careful wit her, pls never u take her gentility for stupidity, so u dnt make her change her mind, cos some guys are like dat shah

san316:
Not that I want her to be a nag o. I won't take that. she is just too easy going that I feel I'm heading into a trap.

Lol, u are very right, dat's d ,main reason why u should be very careful wit wat u do to her

izaray:
Dat's really nice of her, but be very careful wit her, pls never u take her gentility for stupidity, so u dnt make her change her mind, cos some guys are like dat shah

Definitely not. A reason I don't chase other ladies. I feel I have an obligation to her. the good thing about it is that we started when I was not working.