When i was in high school,i often obsessed about what i look like,perhaps this happens to everyone,more or less.it is common to be a bit dissatisfied with parts of our body,our appearance and our level of attractiveness.
This dissatification and concerns especially comes out when we think about dating and becoming pasionate with a partner.

Later,i came to understand that physical appearance was not the only aspect of our body that was attractive.our personalities can influence how others see us.in addition,our confidence and social skills can spark attraction,passion and intrigue in potential lovers.

Moreover,those unchangeable parts of our looks are not driving attraction anyway!..contrary to popular belief,a symmetrical nose,the perfectly proportionate figure or a classic face are not nearly as important as aspect of yourself that are easy to change.the little things under your control are the most attractive charateristics of all.

1)Glooming..by far the most important feature.
Take some time to care for urself,shower,take some gel and hair cream.shave and trim where you need to.be neat,look and smell good too.Grooming alone can make(or break) ur attractiveness.

2)Clothing....also important and relatively easy fix is ur style.your clothes needs to be clean,ironed n well maintained.they also need to fit you well and flatter your shape.finally,they shud be little classy.

3)Posture....practice standing up straight,hold your head up,put ur shoulders back. Buy some sensible shoes,a gud desk chair or a corset if you need to. gud posture is sexy.it also contributes to the right body language for dating.

4)Attitude...remember to put on a happy face.smile,be pleasant,positive and friendly.heck,a gud personality can even over shadow other physical issues you may have.so be happy and get a date or keep a lover.

5)Fitness...granted,this isnt as easily changeable as the others(atleast for me).essentially,we are shooting for relatively healthy.no need to obsess n go over board.but do your best to eat well and move around a bit and care for your health.Good grooming,the right clothes and standing up straight can go a long way towards minimizing what diet and exercise dont too.

6)Gender....generally,try to look masculine or feminine(depending on who you want to attract)to be more masculine,muscle up ur shoulders and chest(or wear a nice padded sport coat)...to be more feminine...learn to properly apply make up,accentuating your eyes and lips.also grow ur hair longer(or just get an extensions).

In conclusion.....Groom well,buy some clothes that fit,stand up straight,smile ,and be healthy.thats all it takes to be attractive,sexy and get a date or mate.you can take the plastic surgeon off ur speed dial nw....stop obsession and stop trying be some1 else and go have some fun!!



GOODLUCK

Hmmm..u av a point..but beauty is d 1st attraction tho'..

From 40lb to 60lb,am progressing with fitness

Right on point.

your appearance matters alot.

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Nairalander01:
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