In my church 90% of girls there like me, they want me to be their bf (i think). But im so used to being liked i just shy away from conversations cuz i cant be saying hi to every girl that thinks im hot. One of them just came to my house to see my sister and she just rolled her eyes all through at me without saying hi, (i was wondering why) later my sister told me she thinks im proud. Truthfully i didnt even know her until she came to my house, what kinda life is this ....why do girls i dont even know hate me ? I dont want to be a hottie or a ladies man im just a simple person..But most people here will still link this post to pride. its not fair , we are all human beings. NL Advice me pls

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Dats dr business.... If u like me nd kip quiet abt it and expect me to turn into mind reader to play along den u must be joking... I dnt even hav tym for ladies anymore.

TrishaP:
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Girls like u are the reason for this post, why are u people like this?

take two can of black bullet, walk up to any gal in ur church, don't worry bout wat to say cos it's gona be spontaneous, u can tank me later

Cutehector4u:
Dats dr business.... If u like me nd kip quiet abt it and expect me to turn into mind reader to play along den u must be joking... I dnt even hav tym for ladies anymore.

Dude thats what i did and today almost all girls that know me are beefing me just cuz im now minding my business.

pich4real:
take two can of black bullet, walk up to any gal in ur church, don't worry bout wat to say cos it's gona be spontaneous, u can tank me later

I dont wanna date anyone i just want to mind my business, why cant they understand must i be hated for minding my business.

get a plain polo, den inscribe at d back and front, SINGLE AND NOT SEARCHING, dat shud do d magic

Like them back....lobatan

lanicky:
Like them back....lobatan

he say he does not want, na by force to doooo?

U pray 2 God make u know them..

pich4real:
he say he does not want, na by force to doooo?

Why did he creat dis kinda thread then?
No be advice him need...só wetin come be ur own?

adulthood:


Girls like u are the reason for this post, why are u people like this?

Dont get it wrong, I just want to be sure why the girls are liking.

Brb

lanicky:



Why did he creat dis kinda thread then?
No be advice him need...só wetin come be ur own?

Abi Ooooh .. Like dem back

lanicky:



Why did he creat dis kinda thread then?
No be advice him need...só wetin come be ur own?

my own na say am jes trying to help a broda #tongue out #

Like them back na. Are you supposed to dislike them because they like u?

many of them just want to know you better... datz all
give dem d chance

adulthood:


Dude thats what i did and today almost all girls that know me are beefing me just cuz im now minding my business.

trust me, if u mistakenly talk to dem den dey will treat u like trash.

I dont want their friendship, tired of the drama i used to deal with back then when i was free with all of them....people should leave me alone o

Lol ....dats gals for u .....urs make sense u know dem in person.....mine worst.....since I discovered I have problems Wid gals in ma street I have decided to avoid night waka,.....de get me for mind big time .......de annoying word Is dem calling us proud ...jezzzz...must u talk or notice dem all de time

@ OP.
If you're humble & respectful, continue to be so as you go about your business. As time goes on, your conduct will prove to the girls that the picture (assumption) they're having of you is totally wrong. Eventually, they'ld cease to be bothersome to you, one after the other. And if there's anyone of them who continues to be too bothersome to you, you'll be surprised to see that some of the same girls would take it up & deal with her on your behalf. I've seen it happen again & again. But this happens only, & only if, there's nothing in you that relates to the way they're behaving towards you.

It is equally possible too that you're actually arrogant & being pompous without being aware that you are! ( I'm not trying to judge you. Merely looking at possibilities.) In which case, their behavior is in response to yours.
Quite often, when someone notices that members of the opposite sex are craving for his attention, his/her sense of pride/ego gets inflated, to the extent that he/she starts showing off. In fact, some are so carried away that they do it without being aware they're doing it, until people around them begin to reciprocate adversely.
Instead of such a person to take responsibility to improve his/her undesirable behavior, he/she goes about blaming others.
If a person is finding it difficult to change his/her undesirable behavior towards others, how on earth does he/she expect others to find it so easy to change their response towards him.
"To every action, there's equal & opposite reaction."