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How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by Joejonah(m): 4:22pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
I met my first girl by name Chidinma in 2006.This girl loves me to an extent she can sacrifice anything just to be with me forever.I recall few years back when she had the opportunity to travel to three different European countries with her mum and finally to base in London which is the last country they would visit,but this girl bluntly refused the offer for fear of loosing me to another girl and the mum could not embark on those journeys alone because she insisted she must go with Chidinma being her last born and the only daughter. But when this was happening,Chidinma never informed me because she knew i would force her to go .A year later her elder brother who base in London insisted that she must come over to London to further her education and she refused again,this time her mum had to call me and let the cat out of the bag so i could persuade her to go .I was mad at her and i forced her to go and she went. After seven months in the UK,her brother had a very big problem that landed him in prison and the girl had no other option than to return to Nigeria. Our relationship is still in progress up to date. Sometime ago in 2008 while i was still going out with chidinma, I met another girl by name Oluchi. She is a business lady and she is doing well in her business. I must confess at first i never loved this girl i was only after her money cos i was jobless then but as time goes on i began to love her too .I must admit also that this girl is a good wife material. Our relationship is also in progress up to date. In 2010 again i met another girl Nkechi by name and we started dating. In fact i love this girl more than the rest. This girl has everything i needed in a woman more than her rivals. She is more educated and more presentable. These three young ladies love me so much with their whole hearts that i seldom distinguish between their loves for me. They never cheated on me as far as i know .In fact i must confess they are very good wife materials. April 2012 to be precise i traveled out of the country in search of greener pastures and i must accept that God has really blessed me now. Please my brothers and sisters,permit me to state here that out of these three ladies,i have chosen one,in fact i have proposed the last lady which is Nkechi.I am making plans to return home by March this year to come and marry her and settle down. But it is important to note here that i have done everything humanly possible to let the other two to forget about my relationship with them but all my effort proved abortive. On September last year(2014) i called Oluchi (the business lady)and informed her that i wanted to marry a white lady here so as to get my papers and that i don`t have the intention of marrying another woman again in my life. I also promised to give her Two million naira(N2m) in appreciation for all she did for me and to support her business as well,but to my dismay,as i was yet talking to her on phone she slumped and fainted,if not for her customers and neighbors around who rushed her to a near by hospital honestly i don`t know what would have become of her condition. To cut it short after she regained consciousness i called her and told her that i have canceled the idea of marrying a white lady. The first girl Chidinma,her own case is not something to write home about as She has sworn with her life never to let go the relationship. She has vowed to commit suicide should i leave her and marry another woman,as she always remind me that eight years(8yrs) in relationship is not eight months and i know her very well she means every word. Dear readers honestly i am totally in disarray. I don`t really know what to do now. I don`t want these ladies die in my hands and i can not marry three wives. Please i need your best opinions and pieces of advice on how to discharge the two ladies without hurting them. I am ready to give two million naira to each of them as compensation but how do i tell them this? As far as i know,all they want from me is marriage nothing short of that.On the side of Nkechi(the one i proposed) any other thing apart from marriage would mean suicidal because she has turned down many suitors seeking her hand in marriage . My conscience judges me whenever i remember that these my beloved ladies contributed to the success of my travel financially,through fasting and prayers,just to mention but a few believing for a better tomorrow. help a friend handle this please. |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by sweettease(f): 4:26pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
You can forge o |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by pathardy(m): 4:32pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
supper story! |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by Medunah: 4:33pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
sweettease:As in, no be small tin |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by echobee(f): 4:34pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Ops, pls what is the title of the movie? |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by fijiano202(m): 4:35pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Firstly God punish u...chai only you alone is managing 3 girls while am single... Secondly bros why u self use deepthroat put urself for trouble,why didn't u break up with the first after meeting the 2nd girlfriend and now they are 3... Thirdly Bros,na how you lay ur bed that's how u lay on it Bros I have been to churches where ladies pray that anyone that say I will not marry my guy should die or run mad....so bros u are OYO 1 Like |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Cool.....the same way you asked them out. Am comin back to read the post. |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by shakazuldadon: 4:42pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Give me oluchi and chidimas number with 2m... within one month they will forget about you. |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by teewai3(m): 4:43pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
wic channel are they showing that movie u just told us, silver bird or ait? |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by ifex370(m): 4:48pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
lolz... I just came here to read comments |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
This is quite touching in a way.The issue here is if u never promised the other two marriage,none of them will hold u accountable for wanting to part ways with them for personal obvious reasons.Just calmly speak to each of them by telling them that u feel bad wanting to break it off with them,that u got re-united with ur childhood love over there abroad & one thing led to the other & u put her in the family way & the lady & her family including urs are insisting on marriage,otherwise u risk loosing the child to abortion & u wuld'nt want to loose ur first child to such a disastrous act.Paint it in a way it'll seem u're in a very confused & regretable situation & let them know u need enough space to clear ur head.Then limit the phone calls & attention u were used to showering on them.With time they'll get the drift & find their own love.But if u promised them marriage b4 now,then u're on ur own,cos I gat no advice on this one.In as much as I hold ppl accountable to their promises,I wuld'nt want any fake promises on my fellow woman by a man.Hope this helps. |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by InZA: 4:49pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
@Op Aside from many other things in my Job description, I'm also a screen writer. If you wouldn't mind, can I please present this story to my supervisors as a proposal for a movie? Or if you've already shot the movie, can you please give me the link to where it can be downloaded?... I would like to work on a possible sequel with you because this story is too sweet to end in only part 1 |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by emmyw(m): 5:30pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Seriously if it a true story,why did you do these? Why are you playing with people's emotion? If is you,what will you do now? Why are some people heartless? If you love one girl is it a crime? Now you are trying to create a very big problem, let me tell you,if you ever leave that your first girl and she caurse you,it must follow you,the only solution is to open up to the last two, but guy I must tell you the truth,I can never and will never do such, please let try and be wise,I wish am close to you,I would have help you resolve the issue,although not so easy,try and give yourself internal peace,your action were wrong, what's money compare to human emotion? |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by Joejonah(m): 7:30pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
InZA: it's a true life story bro. don't like this mentality in niaraland, assuming every controversial situation to be a movie. |
Re: How Can He Break Up With Her Girlfriends? by missamanda(f): 4:57pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
Mumu |
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