Yes.

LordReed:
5minsmadness, crackhaus,
pickabeau1
I have thought about this some more and though this is coming late, I still wish say I now understand what you meant in saying a person could make a mistake in cheating.

Also I thought I had made this admission earlier but I can't find the post here.

Hahahaha... The nostalgia.
I had to read every single page of the thread again to refresh my memory... and to think that five years ago, my comments here are exactly the same as I would have made today. I'm impressed with myself


So what changed your mind?

crackkhaus:

Hahahaha... The nostalgia.
I had to read every single page of the thread again to refresh my memory... and to think that five years ago, my comments here are exactly the same as I would have made today. I'm impressed with myself


So what changed your mind?

Understanding. Cheating is a mistake of judgement, a lapse in the way a person determines what their action should be.

LordReed:


Understanding. Cheating is a mistake of judgement, a lapse in the way a person determines what their action should be.

Right...and by that, the cheater also develops a better awareness of the things that led to this mistake of judgement, is able to correct it and do very well to avoid a reoccurrence.

As such, a cheat is not always going to remain a cheat once they have recognized their error and made changes.

crackkhaus:

Right...and by that, the cheater also develops a better awareness of the things that led to this mistake of judgement, is able to correct it and do very well to avoid a reoccurrence.

As such, a cheat is not always going to remain a cheat once they have recognized their error and made changes.

True.

LordReed:
5minsmadness, crackhaus,
pickabeau1
I have thought about this some more and though this is coming late, I still wish say I now understand what you meant in saying a person could make a mistake in cheating.

Also I thought I had made this admission earlier but I can't find the post here.

Noted. As we get older and wiser/more experienced we see that everything isn't simple black and white.

crackkhaus:

Right...and by that, the cheater also develops a better awareness of the things that led to this mistake of judgement, is able to correct it and do very well to avoid a reoccurrence.

As such, a cheat is not always going to remain a cheat once they have recognized their error and made changes.

Simple logic for those who want to see it.

5minsmadness:

Simple logic for those who want to see it.

Look at this man..

Are you still on NL?
Where you disappear go since...

crackkhaus:

Look at this man..

Are you still on NL?
Where you disappear go since...

Lol
I pop in once in a long while
I realised I had more interesting things to do with my time

5minsmadness:


Noted. As we get older and wiser/more experienced we see that everything isn't simple black and white.

Are you still alive?!

Happy new years.

5minsmadness:


Simple logic for those who want to see it.

You know this your thread is/was really for men especially Nigerian?

Often times, women 'forgive' cheating husbands.

bukatyne:


Are you still alive?!

Happy new years.

Na you wan kee me before??

Same to you

Can you answer these questions?

- do you think a Smoker will quit smoking because of relationship or marriage?
What of an Alcoholic or alcohol consumer?
What of a woman beater?
What of a drug taker?
Do you think a stingy partner will become selfless are open handed after marriage?

Answer all these questions then we can start from there.

5minsmadness:

Lol
I pop in once in a long while
I realised I had more interesting things to do with my time

Nah I'm not buying that.

You wouldn't create a goodbye thread if it was just about time to do more interesting things.

That aside, welcome back...