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Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Akranez:Cheaters be like...... |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by ochon: 12:41pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
LordReed: If he's "definitely" referring to sleeping with another woman/man other than one's GF/BF/spouse, then I disagree with him. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by ochon: 12:42pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
crackhaus: LOl. If you hadn't point it out, I would never have mentioned it because I see it from thread to thread. It's tiring. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 12:43pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
ochon:I am not. I don't know how to explain it again. I give up. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 12:44pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
ochon:I don't know what to say again honestly. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by pickabeau1: 12:50pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
So can you answer the original question rather than perambulating Do you believe once a cheat; always a cheat simple LordReed: |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by LordReed(m): 12:50pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Wait, you don't know how to say that the mistake you wrote in your op was not referring to cheating or what are you saying? BTW still waiting for your answer for my previous question. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by LordReed(m): 12:53pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I don't want to answer the question so get the mods to ban me. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by pickabeau1: 12:55pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
LordReed: Its a very simple question and will take less effort than your brighter grammar binge |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by LordReed(m): 1:12pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I love binging on brighter grammar, it keeps the juices flowing and exercises the grey matter. 1 Like |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by pickabeau1: 1:17pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
LordReed: OK..carry on |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 1:27pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
LordReed: Barry Gilmore writes: I made a lot of mistakes while following the group on tour. I drank, did drugs and partied hard. I cheated on maddie(his wife) on a regular basis. Its a wonder I didn't give her some sort of disease, some of those parties were really wild. This is an example of mistake being used as a noun. This is what I meant. I know English is hard for some of us but we all learn everyday. I will speak no more on this matter. What question did i not answer? |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by tlops(m): 1:29pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Try that in an Arab Nation and you will know how wrong you were. The truth is that people have varying emotional stamina, cheating/ betrayal of trust can lead to death of the victim eithet directly or indirectly. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by thelastmediator: 1:36pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Cheat by mistake? Sex by mistake? Statements like these encourages shameful act/habit. More like running away from responsibility. @OP, I believe change is a constant thing. It depends on the person though. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by crackhaus: 1:37pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
LordReed:It's what he was trying to say you should focus on. crackhaus: This basically means that a man/woman had a lapse in his/her judgement and subsequently cheated. This lapse in judgement when looked at in retrospect (by someone who is genuinely regretful) makes room for that incident to be seen as a mistake on his/her part, not the actual act of having sex. It is now left for a person who was cheated on to take the next step. Some won't forgive, some say they will forgive but still end the relationship, while there are those who are willing to give change a chance by staying put - this does not make them stvpid. It's just relative individualism. The OP is focusing on the last set of people, which can be any/everyone as we are all capable of change and accepting change - the question thus: Is it not possible that a cheater can change, so why the notion that a cheat will always remain a cheat? 1 Like |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by freecocoa(f): 1:39pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
gimmesome:I never said it was a mistake, learn to read and comprehend. 1 Like |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by LordReed(m): 2:20pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
crackhaus: My grouse is not what the 5minsmadness is trying to say in the OP but what he subsequently said in defending cheating as a mistake. He quite correctly says that cheating is wrong and correctly again says someone who has cheated should not be condemned if they are willing to change but in no way is "justifying" cheating as a mistake correct. He proceeded to further his position with dictionary definitions and nitpicking between mistake as noun and verb. He has sustained the debate so we have not put words into his mouth. 1 Like |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by LordReed(m): 2:24pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
5minsmadness: The debate is not on the manner in which mistake was used whether as noun or verb but the meaning which is why this needs to be answered: LordReed: |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Crisse: 3:06pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Yes,a cheat will alwaz be a cheat because its lyk a sweet fruit u taste nd dnt wish to leave |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by juwoonn(m): 3:11pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Mynd44:Nobody is a saint ma! So you think you have never sinned before? Yet, you want God to keep forgiving you when you sin. What if God says he has forgiven you but he will not accept you into his kingdom. He is God of a second chance and he says we should be like him. I have never been unfaithful to my wife before, but that doesn't make me a saint. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by MadCow1: 3:24pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Mynd44: Yes! But sometimes remorse does reduce the punishment for a crime. Example, A man who pleads guilty to murder rarely gets the death penalty. Punishment is not an act of wickedness but rather retribution. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by kandiikane(m): 3:48pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul:I disagree. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
kandiikane: That's ok, K. I just don't see it. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by dhappyking(m): 5:09pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
If you ask me, who will I ask? Knowing that some one cheated on you, even once, is bad enough. Staying wondering if the person will do it again. Praying and hoping it does not occur again is pure toture. The choice is yours, anyway. 3 Likes |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by maryhaam(f): 9:43pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
People wif trust issues like me,dont believe cheaters change thou....m |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by benefitzte: 9:53pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
From experience a cheat would always be a cheat. What next? Sit down and advice yourself. It's hard but you have to decide, even if your forgiveness comes easy. Have a better plan before you die of HIV or contact other diseases. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by wolverineNI(m): 7:56am On Jan 17, 2015 |
It annoys me when I hear this phrase " mistakenly cheated", genitals are not banana peels ,people don't trip on it and mistakenly fall on another's. I don't know if cheaters ever change but they are better off left in their lane , it is safer that way.true story till they learn how to park well in balogun market |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by sylve11: 9:13am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by sylve11: 9:25am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by sylve11: 9:58am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Mynd44: Just too funny |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by LordReed(m): 10:15am On Feb 24, 2020 |
5minsmadness, crackhaus, pickabeau1 I have thought about this some more and though this is coming late, I still wish say I now understand what you meant in saying a person could make a mistake in cheating. Also I thought I had made this admission earlier but I can't find the post here. |
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by sylve11: 10:29am On Feb 24, 2020 |
Ahhh! |
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