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Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 8:58am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

I am a male feminist....

Does this make you happier?
You are not just a male feminist, you are anti-men!

Wait...what am I saying. They mean the same thing. grin
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Mynd44: 9:00am On Jan 16, 2015
VickyyB:

More like Pro-Feminist. Nice cheesy
All join cheesy
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 9:00am On Jan 16, 2015
[size=18pt]I made front page!!!!
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Dancing skelewu in a mannish way[/size]
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Mynd44: 9:04am On Jan 16, 2015
5minsmadness:
The process of stealing meat from the pot is an intentional action and as a verb (which qualifys an unintentional action) it cannot be a mistake. So no. You cannot mistakenly steal meat from the pot.
.
I asked for a Yes/No answer here dude. Just one word and be ready to answer the next
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:05am On Jan 16, 2015
stanisbaratheon:



na naijaboiy hand you dey try fall so??
I don't understand , lol! anyway I'm out of this thread it sickens me undecided
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 9:07am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

Please dont even go there. You put in the OP that "cheating" is a mistake.

That is what I called you out for. And you have not answered my question which you promised to answer and whatever other question I have for your answer.

Can you steal a piece of meat from the pot by mistake?

https://www.nairaland.com/2094192/cheat-always-cheat/4#29835823

Answered!
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Mynd44: 9:07am On Jan 16, 2015
5minsmadness:

You are not just a male feminist, you are anti-men!

Wait...what am I saying. They mean the same thing. grin
Your lack of understanding of the definition and differentiation of terms which I can confidently blame on being narrow minded and not being willing to accept that you can be wrong is the bane of this thread. It is what shows that you cannot separate definitions and discern meaning to two different terms.

How does someone who believes in the socio-political equality of the sexes become someone who is anti-men?

Again you can call it a mistake or a complete misunderstanding of issues. I dont follow front page threads and I am unfollowing this one too.

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Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:07am On Jan 16, 2015
5minsmadness:

You are not just a male feminist, you are anti-men!

Wait...what am I saying. They mean the same thing. grin
Feminist are Men hater?

You are dumb. Educate yourself on what Feminism means...
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Mynd44: 9:08am On Jan 16, 2015
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

Good.

So if punishment can also serve as a detergent to others, it means it can be avoided when you remember the punishment.

So how is it a mistake?

I think the question was about whether someone could slip up and cheat and repent and never go back to cheating....
Everything can be avoided, in certain situations people throw caution to the wind or do things off spur inspite of the voice of caution... circumstances also compel people to do things..

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Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Mynd44: 9:11am On Jan 16, 2015
njokusboy:


I think the question was about whether someone could slip up and cheat and repent and never go back to cheating....
Everything can be avoided, in certain situations people throw caution to the wind or do things off spur inspite of the voice of caution... circumstances also compel people to do things...

Whoever said it was a mistake?

From the OP

It also prevents you from forgiving your partner even if he/ she makes a mistake because you think once they have started cheating they will continue cheating all their lives no matter what. That assumption is baseles
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 9:11am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

If he had accepted that it is not a "mistake", this won't have dragged this long but he kept on coming with reason and his running to the dictionary just to defend himself just made it more fun for me cheesy
I went to the dictionary to give you an authoritative stance on the subject. I cant believe you still haven't taken correction.

You are still being illogical in the face of plain logic. And anyone's standards that is different from yours is "below par?"


You are not male ma!
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by naijaboiy: 9:12am On Jan 16, 2015
Nneka123:
Alright!
Well,,don't bother anymore smiley
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Mynd44: 9:13am On Jan 16, 2015
5minsmadness:

I went to the dictionary to give you an authoritative stance on the subject. I cant believe you still haven't taken correction.


You are not male ma!
And I have translated your "Dictionary" definition for you sir.

Have a good day. I have work to do
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:13am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:


From the OP


Owk, replace mistake with fvck up... You seem to be focused on that little detail instead of the entire idea..

Now do you agree fvck ups can be forgiven and fvck ups may not be repeated?
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 9:14am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

And I have translated your "Dictionary" definition for you sir.

Have a good day. I have work to do
Am at the office myself right now in fact. Later.
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by pickabeau1: 9:15am On Jan 16, 2015
5minsmadness:



And this was the idea of the whole trend, it's the same myndd that turned it into a mistake /not mistake saga.


Meanwhile, you said he is male. Have you seen mynnd in person?

You guys r just having fun
I'm sure you both know what u r saying
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 9:16am On Jan 16, 2015
VickyyB:

I meant other guys.

Lordreed and FrancisTony...
What happened to them?
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Mynd44: 9:16am On Jan 16, 2015
njokusboy:


Owk, replace mistake with fvck up... You seem to be focused on that little detail instead of the entire idea..

Now do you agree fvck ups can be forgiven
This whole argument started cos I asked how you cheat by mistake and the OP would not accept. He has been going back and forth trying to explain how you can have sex by mistake
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:17am On Jan 16, 2015
naijaboiy:

Well,,don't bother anymore smiley
okay o!
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 9:17am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

I asked for a Yes/No answer here dude. Just one word and be ready to answer the next

5minsmadness:
The process of stealing meat from the pot is an intentional action and as a verb (which qualifys an unintentional action) it cannot be a mistake. So [size=15pt]no[/size]. You cannot mistakenly steal meat from the pot
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 9:20am On Jan 16, 2015
VickyyB:

Feminist are Men hater?

You are dumb. Educate yourself on what Feminism means...
No. Sorry. They are rude men-haters. smiley

At the risk of derailing this thread,
Kindly state one thing feminism stands for that favours men exclusively. smiley
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:20am On Jan 16, 2015
5minsmadness:

What happened to them?
They didn't support you. What are they?
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:23am On Jan 16, 2015
5minsmadness:

No. Sorry. They are rude men-haters. smiley

At the risk of derailing this thread,
Kindly state one thing feminism stands for that favours men exclusively. smiley
Men oppress women in all rounds of life.
We are fighting for our right.
How is going to favour you? undecided
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Orikinla(m): 9:23am On Jan 16, 2015
[size=18pt]NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
AS A SINNER WILL NOT ALWAYS REMAIN A SINNER.[/size]
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:26am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

This whole argument started cos I asked how you cheat by mistake and the OP would not accept. He has been going back and forth trying to explain how you can have sex by mistake

Owk... so the word "mistake" is the bone of contention....
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by pickabeau1: 9:26am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

If he had accepted that it is not a "mistake", this won't have dragged this long but he kept on coming with reason and his running to the dictionary just to defend himself just made it more fun for me cheesy

Lol
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 9:28am On Jan 16, 2015
Mynd44:

This whole argument started cos I asked how you cheat by mistake and the OP would not accept. He has been going back and forth trying to explain how you can have sex by mistake
Please. This is a blatant lie.
Or maybe you honestly didn't understand me despite my repeated explanations.

I even posted a quote from another reader to try and explain further but you refused. You are the stubborn person here.

I even gave a dictionary explanation. In all honesty I think I have tried.

A MISTAKE can be a wrong act. It is naming the kind of act it is.(a NOUN) It is not a good act. It is a bad act. It is a mistake act. It is a mistake.(jeez!)

A mistake can also be used as a VERB to quantify an act done unintentionally or with error e.g he made a mistake in his exams.






If you cant get this very simple childish explanation, then I give up.

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Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Chubhie: 9:31am On Jan 16, 2015
Cheating as with all habits acquired can be unlearn. Like addictions, it also takes a long road to recovery.
Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by Nobody: 9:31am On Jan 16, 2015

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Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by ThoniaSlim(f): 9:31am On Jan 16, 2015
How do you cheat by mistake?

Did your d*** mistakenly fall into her V****

Or did your V***** mistakenly have a d**** stuck in it?

People need to stop telling themselves lies and making excuses for their lack of self control!

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