justmag:
Soo oo if he did the same. It will be alright with u

naijaboiy:
I just hope you are not giving him reasons to behave that way.

It's not wrong in any way to give another guy your number but sometimes some girls are unnecessarily too friendly to guys even when they have boyfriends.

You should also know the intentions of those guys.
I'm very sure you know that some of them have ulterior motives when they approach you.

So be free but be wise.

justmag:
Soo oo if he did the same. It will be alright with u

VANYCUTIE:
NOT LIK AM STIL LOOKIN FOR ANODA MAN BUT U KNW MEN CAN B UNPREDICTABL AFTERALL,DIA IS NO WEDDING RING ON MY FINGER YET SO Y WHOLE DRAMA.HAV BIN ENGAGED FOR FOUR YEARS.DNT U GUYS TINK ITS TOO LONG?AS FOR ME AM BEGINNIN TO LOSE D PATIENT.AM A LADY FOR GOD SAKE

Tallesty1:
You are wise bro. You photocopied my mind completely.

naijaboiy:
I just hope you are not giving him reasons to behave that way.

It's not wrong in any way to give another guy your number but sometimes some girls are unnecessarily too friendly to guys even when they have boyfriends.

You should also know the intentions of those guys.
I'm very sure you know that some of them have ulterior motives when they approach you.

So be free but be wise.

demelza:
What are his reasons for the long engagement?

VANYCUTIE:
MY FIANCE GETS UPSET WENEVA ANY MALE FRND OF MINE CALS ME BE IT FOR ANYTIN.WAT DO I DO COS HE HAS PRACTICALLY CHASED ALL MY FRNDS AWAY.HE DOES NOT ALLOW ME GO ON OUTING LIK ODA GALS.I KNW HE WANTS TO MARRY ME BUT HE IS TOO HARD ON ME.DNT I SUPOSE TO HAV FRNDS COS OF UNFORSEEN CIRCUMSTANCES.WE MIGHT END UP NOT GETTIN MARRIED ND BY DEN IT MIGHT B LATE FOR ME AS A LADY.

VANYCUTIE:

HE SAID HE IS USING ALL HIS RESOURCES TO TRAIN ME SO NO MONY FOR WEDDIN.

VANYCUTIE:
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D ONLY REASON HE GIVS ME IS DAT MEN LOOK MY WAY ALOT AND DAT DEY ALWAS WANT TO END UP MARRYIN ME.HE SAID HE DOES NOT WANT ANY MAN TO REAP HIS HARVEST COS HE TRAINED ME.DATS ALL BUT I CANT B CLOSING D MEN'S EYES WEN I GO OUT NEITHER WIL I TEL DEM WEN TO LOOK OR NOT.NONE OF DIS IS MY FAULT BUT HE ALWAS BHAV LIK ITS MINE.

VANYCUTIE:

HE SAID HE IS USING ALL HIS RESOURCES TO TRAIN ME SO NO MONY FOR WEDDIN.

MrCork:



....QUESTION: ...how am we suppose to get punny if we don't get nomba??...serrrriously....why the heck r u ladies always playn had to get?.....and then u complain u cannot find man on nairalan!

Take am easy jore

VANYCUTIE:

OF CUS,I ALLOW HIS FEMALE FRNDS CAL HIM.I DNT QUERY DAT UNLESS IT GOT OUT OF CONTROL.

naijaboiy:

DO YOU GIVE UNNECESSARY ATTENTION TO THOSE MEN? DO YOU LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A MAN WHEN THEY APPROACH YOU?

ON THE OTHER HAND,,I ALSO UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE TRYING NOT TO PUT ALL YOUR EGGS IN A BASKET BECAUSE YOU DONT TRUST WHAT THE MAN CAN DO.

HE HAS NOT EVEN PUT A RING ON YOUR FINGERS. WHAT IS HE WAITING FOR?

PLEASE TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS. KNOW YOUR STANCE. NOW HE IS USING THE FACT THAT HE TRAINED YOU THROUGH SCHOOL TO TIE YOU DOWN.

ITS NOT FAIR!

justmag:


Okay! And at what point is out of control?

VANYCUTIE:

WEN DEY START CALLIN UNNECESSARILY DAT I EVEN NOTICE IT.LIK CALLIN WEN WE RE HAVIN A GUD TIM OUT LATE IN D NYT

VANYCUTIE:
MY FIANCE GETS UPSET WENEVA ANY MALE FRND OF MINE CALS ME BE IT FOR ANYTIN.WAT DO I DO COS HE HAS PRACTICALLY CHASED ALL MY FRNDS AWAY.HE DOES NOT ALLOW ME GO ON OUTING LIK ODA GALS.I KNW HE WANTS TO MARRY ME BUT HE IS TOO HARD ON ME.DNT I SUPOSE TO HAV FRNDS COS OF UNFORSEEN CIRCUMSTANCES.WE MIGHT END UP NOT GETTIN MARRIED ND BY DEN IT MIGHT B LATE FOR ME AS A LADY.

Subom1:
4 years engagement I really don't blame you for not putting all your eggs in one basket just know where to draw the line and have boundaries but it appears he has none but expects you too.

Reminds me of a lady who was engaged for 10years and she was dumped and a month later the same guy got married to another girl. Trust your gut if you feel something is not right. He may just very well be keeping you as an option too.

VANYCUTIE:

HAV BIN WIT DIS GUY FOR FOUR YEARS NOW.HE HAS PROPOSED ND SEEN MY PPLE.HE IS D ONE SPONSORING MY EDUCATION IN A NURSIN SCH BT I DNT LOV HIM ANYMOR.EVERYTIN I FELT FOR HIM HAS DIED COS HE BEATS ND INSULTS ME IN PUBLIC OWING TO D FACT DAT HE DOES EVERYTIN FOR ME.WAT DO I DO? I CRY EVERYDAY HOPIN HE WULD CHANG ALL TO NO AVAIL

MY FIANCE GETS UPSET WENEVA ANY MALE FRND OF MINE CALS ME BE IT FOR ANYTIN.WAT DO I DO COS HE HAS PRACTICALLY CHASED ALL MY FRNDS AWAY.HE DOES NOT ALLOW ME GO ON OUTING LIK ODA GALS.I KNW HE WANTS TO MARRY ME BUT HE IS TOO HARD ON ME.DNT I SUPOSE TO HAV FRNDS COS OF UNFORSEEN CIRCUMSTANCES.WE MIGHT END UP NOT GETTIN MARRIED ND BY DEN IT MIGHT B LATE FOR ME AS A LADY .