Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by adedayourt(m): 11:23am On Jan 20, 2015 |
I never meet am yet but somtin tells me ama meet her here on NL |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by bukatyne(f): 11:29am On Jan 20, 2015 |
buggaboo:
Ok. I get you now. Easier said than done though. Life happens. Kids happen. It is entirely up to them both |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by dein77(m): 11:32am On Jan 20, 2015 |
adedayourt: I never meet am yet but somtin tells me ama meet her here on NL Very possible.....keep your options open. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by adedayourt(m): 11:34am On Jan 20, 2015 |
dein77:
Very possible.....keep your options open. Thanks brov |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by modele2: 12:03pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Interesting thread.
Peharps its my husband that should be telling this story, but i would attempt to join his side and my side.
He recently moved into my area and told his friends while moving that he was going to find his wife in this area, that year.
He saw me one day walking down the street, i noticed his clean fine look but didnt really give him any thought.
He later said his attraction was my legs.....
He cornered me a few days later and told me he wanted me to be his wife, i replied just like that, you dont even know me, that infact i was engaged( i had a boyfriend and we were making plans..or rather i was making plans), he looked at my ringless fingers and laughed out loud, that even the ones with ring are not sure talkless or me without a ring. That struck home.
Then i found out he was from a different tribe..i totally logged off.
But that guy chased me eh...I have never seen such tireless zeal and tenacity. He used every trick in the book(yeah he later showed me the book, it has a lofty place on our bookshelf today - art of seduction(rob greene ). The final trick that worked was the impression he gave me that all the girls in town wanted him, that guy sef, many tricks, well hes so good looking, well packaged, very funny and intelligent that that line of seduction worked.
I unbelievably married someone not from my tribe(people who know me personally would understand why it was a massive deal) and three children later(baby 4 on the way), i have absolutely no regrets. I would rather be with no one else. My top notch correct bobo. 16 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by magboro: 12:05pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
I read through the thread from the beginning to this page and it is an interesting reading. My story: I visited my cousin in her school and we went to fellowship together. After fellowship she introduced me to this good and gentle looking student pastor, who later visited us at d hostel and made his intention known. Pastor or student pastor was a no no for me. I was in a long distance r/ship then.
Fast forward to 4yrs later we were both working, my cousin told me that he has been disturbing her for my number, I've ended the long distance r/ship but have so many suitors to d point of been confused. I jokingly told her to give him d number and he will be an addition to d list. But he came, clear my doubts, took me with all my faults and make a wife and mother out of me. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by dein77(m): 12:14pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
modele2: Interesting thread.
Peharps its my husband that should be telling this story, but i would attempt to join his side and my side.
He recently moved into my area and told his friends while moving that he was going to find his wife in this area, that year.
He saw me one day walking down the street, i noticed his clean fine look but didnt really give him any thought.
He later said his attraction was my legs.....
He cornered me a few days later and told me he wanted me to be his wife, i replied just like that, you dont even know me, that infact i was engaged( i had a boyfriend and we were making plans..or rather i was making plans), he looked at my ringless fingers and laughed out loud, that even the ones with ring are not sure talkless or me without a ring. That struck home.
Then i found out he was from a different tribe..i totally logged off.
But that guy chased me eh...I have never seen such tireless zeal and tenacity. He used every trick in the book(yeah he later showed me the book, it has a lofty place on our bookshelf today - art of seduction(rob greene ). The final trick that worked was the impression he gave me that all the girls in town wanted him, that guy sef, many tricks, well hes so good looking, well packaged, very funny and intelligent that that line of seduction worked.
I unbelievably married someone not from my tribe(people who know me personally would understand why it was a massive deal) and three children later(baby 4 on the way), i have absolutely no regrets. I would rather be with no one else. My top notch correct bobo. A pretty good love story. Your husband saw what he wanted, and he dedicated his all to ensuring he got what he saw and needed. A very big lesson. Tenacity breaks resistance. I pray your home continue to experience more of God's peace, increase and love..... 6 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by dein77(m): 12:18pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
magboro: I read through the thread from the beginning to this page and it is an interesting reading. My story: I visited my cousin in her school and we went to fellowship together. After fellowship she introduced me to this good and gentle looking student pastor, who later visited us at d hostel and made his intention known. Pastor or student pastor was a no no for me. I was in a long distance r/ship then.
Fast forward to 4yrs later we were both working, my cousin told me that he has been disturbing her for my number, I've ended the long distance r/ship but have so many suitors to d point of been confused. I jokingly told her to give him d number and he will be an addition to d list. But he came, clear my doubts, took me with all my faults and make a wife and mother out of me. Just like that? The best wives are now made for Pastors. I'm deeply happy for you all. Shalom. 5 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by babie78: 1:02pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
I met my husband in funny circumstances. I had this Jalopy that I used to call car from he'll. It was a manual Honda Hala and men that car gave me issues. One faithful day I was driving merrily and low and behold the brake failed and before I could say jack robinson the car rolled down and slope and ran into a brand new toyota parked in front of a house. The first though that crossed my mind is if them sell me sell this car I can't afford the light of the toyota. The owner angrily came out of the car and I timidly came out of the car and when I saw the very tall angry man omo I burst into tears. He took one look at me looked at me a second time and ended up fixing my car and his and he also fixed my heart He is the next best thing since sliced bread and guess what I still have my car from hell. He bought me a better one but I can never sell that my Hala 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by HFOG(f): 1:08pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:
ma'am HFOG care to share?
I hope me story doesn't bore you. He noticed me first some two years before I knew he existed. We finished from the same school. I was two years ahead even though he's much older than me (more than a decade). I noticed him in my final year. He was the fellowship's president. The Lord gave me an assignment which was against the fellowship's procedures. I tried to excuse myself and to prove my point I eagerly went to meet my lord for permission not to do what the Lord was asking me to do. Suprising, he said I should feel free and do it. That was the first time I took note of him. Second time, I had a baby in school (fresher). She had access to all my things and we were very close. Suddenly she began to keep malice with me. I think we had an issue or so. I pleaded and pleaded with her to no avail. Others did on my behalf too but she didn't yield. Then the Lord told me to tell my lord which I hesistantly did. Like film my baby changed. I do not know to date what they discussed. But that incidence struck me. Third occasion - I was struggling with the Lord in my room over watching a movie as opposed to reading. I kept lingering till my lord sent me an SMS on obedience not knowing what I was doing. Immediately I dropped the movie and read. The final one - I had a number of suitors and I was particularly attached to more than one. I'd turned down some but my home church get plenty procedures for marriage. Me lord wasn't one of me suitors. I grew restless one evening because one of the suitors was to call for my response and I wasn't decided. In the midst of my restlessness me lord sent an SMS pleading with me to tell him why I was bothered. That was it for me. I felt irritated like someone was spying on me and crossing his boundaries. I mean all these incidences within a semester. I could hardly call them coincidences. We weren't close yet he knew all about my walk with the Lord. Inasmuch as I didn't want to own up that something was coming up I couldn't deny it either. I graduated and few months later during my service he proposed. The way he did the proposal thing so irritated me I just told him to go and learn how to make a proposal. We didn't speak for the next 9months or so. Not a word, flash, text, mail. Nothing. We went our separate ways believing we were not meant to be together. He's very shy/reserved while I'm very outspoken and can do some unnecessary shakara. Somehow during that break I gave other suitors space but it just didn't work. My lord and I got back together and I've been having the time of my life with a man that is so UNLIKE me. 6 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by veave(f): 1:30pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
HFOG:
I hope me story doesn't bore you. He noticed me first some two years before I knew he existed. We finished from the same school. I was two years ahead even though he's much older than me (more than a decade). I noticed him in my final year. He was the fellowship's president. The Lord gave me an assignment which was against the fellowship's procedures. I tried to excuse myself and to prove my point I eagerly went to meet my lord for permission not to do what the Lord was asking me to do. Suprising, he said I should feel free and do it. That was the first time I took note of him. Second time, I had a baby in school (fresher). She had access to all my things and we were very close. Suddenly she began to keep malice with me. I think we had an issue or so. I pleaded and pleaded with her to no avail. Others did on my behalf too but she didn't yield. Then the Lord told me to tell my lord which I hesistantly did. Like film my baby changed. I do not know to date what they discussed. But that incidence struck me. Third occasion - I was struggling with the Lord in my room over watching a movie as opposed to reading. I kept lingering till my lord sent me an SMS on obedience not knowing what I was doing. Immediately I dropped the movie and read. The final one - I had a number of suitors and I was particularly attached to more than one. I'd turned down some but my home church get plenty procedures for marriage. Me lord wasn't one of me suitors. I grew restless one evening because one of the suitors was to call for my response and I wasn't decided. In the midst of my restlessness me lord sent an SMS pleading with me to tell him why I was bothered. That was it for me. I felt irritated like someone was spying on me and crossing his boundaries. I mean all these incidences within a semester. I could hardly call them coincidences. We weren't close yet he knew all about my walk with the Lord. Inasmuch as I didn't want to own up that something was coming up I couldn't deny it either. I graduated and few months later during my service he proposed. The way he did the proposal thing so irritated me I just told him to go and learn how to make a proposal. We didn't speak for the next 9months or so. Not a word, flash, text, mail. Nothing. We went our separate ways believing we were not meant to be together. He's very shy/reserved while I'm very outspoken and can do some unnecessary shakara. Somehow during that break I gave other suitors space but it just didn't work. My lord and I got back together and I've been having the time of my life with a man that is so UNLIKE me. Please, how many types of lord do you have... You should have just called him hubby or love so we know the difference between our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ and sarah's kind of lord. Just incase of next time. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Chinum: 1:45pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
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Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Chinum:
Hmmm. Obwohl mein Deutsch fast kaputt gegangen ist, freut es mich darueber deutschspreschende Nairalandern zu treffen. Sieht aber so aus als wäre es nicht kaputt. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by InZA: 1:59pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
babie78: I met my husband in funny circumstances.
I had this Jalopy that I used to call car from he'll. It was a manual Honda Hala and men that car gave me issues.
One faithful day I was driving merrily and low and behold the brake failed and before I could say jack robinson the car rolled down and slope and ran into a brand new toyota parked in front of a house.
The first though that crossed my mind is if them sell me sell this car I can't afford the light of the toyota. The owner angrily came out of the car and I timidly came out of the car and when I saw the very tall angry man omo I burst into tears.
He took one look at me looked at me a second time and ended up fixing my car and his and he also fixed my heart
He is the next best thing since sliced bread and guess what I still have my car from hell.
He bought me a better one but I can never sell that my Hala
Toooooo sweeeeeeet. Lovely. Lovely. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by elantraceey(f): 2:08pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Specialist900: you could already have a story na. How could I tell if you hadn't already Did you see any student sharing stories here? |
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Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Specialist900(m): 2:33pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
elantraceey:
Did you see any student sharing stories here? students also get married and have stories na, at least I attended a few course mates wedding back in school |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by InZA: 2:50pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:
Sieht aber so aus als wäre es nicht kaputt. E be like say, that prison wey you go before, you meet person for dia wey dey hungry you go see am again abi |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by elantraceey(f): 3:17pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Specialist900: students also get married and have stories na, at least I attended a few course mates wedding back in school Issorai |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by spicyhoney(f): 3:24pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Lovely stories! |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by olashas(f): 3:45pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:
[/b]I am not a guru. I believe in God, I love Jesus but I am not a Christian in a strict sense. I believe that God speaks to people through different religions and I believe that he is also the God of those who have no religion but that's a different topic. [b]
I speak from experience, not from a religious perspective. 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by LordReed(m): 6:23pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
HFOG:
I hope me story doesn't bore you. He noticed me first some two years before I knew he existed. We finished from the same school. I was two years ahead even though he's much older than me (more than a decade). I noticed him in my final year. He was the fellowship's president. The Lord gave me an assignment which was against the fellowship's procedures. I tried to excuse myself and to prove my point I eagerly went to meet my lord for permission not to do what the Lord was asking me to do. Suprising, he said I should feel free and do it. That was the first time I took note of him. Second time, I had a baby in school (fresher). She had access to all my things and we were very close. Suddenly she began to keep malice with me. I think we had an issue or so. I pleaded and pleaded with her to no avail. Others did on my behalf too but she didn't yield. Then the Lord told me to tell my lord which I hesistantly did. Like film my baby changed. I do not know to date what they discussed. But that incidence struck me. Third occasion - I was struggling with the Lord in my room over watching a movie as opposed to reading. I kept lingering till my lord sent me an SMS on obedience not knowing what I was doing. Immediately I dropped the movie and read. The final one - I had a number of suitors and I was particularly attached to more than one. I'd turned down some but my home church get plenty procedures for marriage. Me lord wasn't one of me suitors. I grew restless one evening because one of the suitors was to call for my response and I wasn't decided. In the midst of my restlessness me lord sent an SMS pleading with me to tell him why I was bothered. That was it for me. I felt irritated like someone was spying on me and crossing his boundaries. I mean all these incidences within a semester. I could hardly call them coincidences. We weren't close yet he knew all about my walk with the Lord. Inasmuch as I didn't want to own up that something was coming up I couldn't deny it either. I graduated and few months later during my service he proposed. The way he did the proposal thing so irritated me I just told him to go and learn how to make a proposal. We didn't speak for the next 9months or so. Not a word, flash, text, mail. Nothing. We went our separate ways believing we were not meant to be together. He's very shy/reserved while I'm very outspoken and can do some unnecessary shakara. Somehow during that break I gave other suitors space but it just didn't work. My lord and I got back together and I've been having the time of my life with a man that is so UNLIKE me. Omo see film o! And you said it was boring. Hubby is a man of God o, Spirit led indeed. I love that, tell him I hail o! 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Specialist900(m): 7:29pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
HFOG:
I hope me story doesn't bore you. He noticed me first some two years before I knew he existed. We finished from the same school. I was two years ahead even though he's much older than me (more than a decade). I noticed him in my final year. He was the fellowship's president. The Lord gave me an assignment which was against the fellowship's procedures. I tried to excuse myself and to prove my point I eagerly went to meet my lord for permission not to do what the Lord was asking me to do. Suprising, he said I should feel free and do it. That was the first time I took note of him. Second time, I had a baby in school (fresher). She had access to all my things and we were very close. Suddenly she began to keep malice with me. I think we had an issue or so. I pleaded and pleaded with her to no avail. Others did on my behalf too but she didn't yield. Then the Lord told me to tell my lord which I hesistantly did. Like film my baby changed. I do not know to date what they discussed. But that incidence struck me. Third occasion - I was struggling with the Lord in my room over watching a movie as opposed to reading. I kept lingering till my lord sent me an SMS on obedience not knowing what I was doing. Immediately I dropped the movie and read. The final one - I had a number of suitors and I was particularly attached to more than one. I'd turned down some but my home church get plenty procedures for marriage. Me lord wasn't one of me suitors. I grew restless one evening because one of the suitors was to call for my response and I wasn't decided. In the midst of my restlessness me lord sent an SMS pleading with me to tell him why I was bothered. That was it for me. I felt irritated like someone was spying on me and crossing his boundaries. I mean all these incidences within a semester. I could hardly call them coincidences. We weren't close yet he knew all about my walk with the Lord. Inasmuch as I didn't want to own up that something was coming up I couldn't deny it either. I graduated and few months later during my service he proposed. The way he did the proposal thing so irritated me I just told him to go and learn how to make a proposal. We didn't speak for the next 9months or so. Not a word, flash, text, mail. Nothing. We went our separate ways believing we were not meant to be together. He's very shy/reserved while I'm very outspoken and can do some unnecessary shakara. Somehow during that break I gave other suitors space but it just didn't work. My lord and I got back together and I've been having the time of my life with a man that is so UNLIKE me. she have spake/spoken. LordReed:
Omo see film o! And you said it was boring. Hubby is a man of God o, Spirit led indeed. I love that, tell him I hail o! even me dey hail am o 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by kaboninc(m): 8:04pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Woow!!!
Beautiful stories here. Can't believe am reading this thread, page by page!
May the happiness and joy and excitement that feels your heart each time ya'all remember these stories continue to blossom like the morning flowers of the East! Love is indeed BEAUTIFUL!
We unmarried dudes be feeling mushy and I am sure these stories will connect lost, exhausted, tired and worn-out love birds who happen to stumble on this thread.
Aisha2 am yet to hear yours oohh! 2 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by dein77(m): 8:11pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
kaboninc: Woow!!!
Beautiful stories here. Can't believe am reading this thread, page by page!
May the happiness and joy and excitement that feels your heart each time ya'all remember these stories continue to blossom like the morning flowers of the East! Love is indeed BEAUTIFUL!
We unmarried dudes be feeling mushy and I am sure these stories will connect lost, exhausted, tired and worn-out love birds who happen to stumble on this thread.
Aisha2 am yet to hear yours oohh! Bro, indeed the stories are beautiful. This is my best thread EVER. Whatever reminds me of how I met and eventually married my wife, is so dear and precious to me, just like she is precious. Love is a beautiful thing. It's a privilege to love; it's a bigger privilege to be loved. 2 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
HFOG:
I hope me story doesn't bore you. He noticed me first some two years before I knew he existed. We finished from the same school. I was two years ahead even though he's much older than me (more than a decade). I noticed him in my final year. He was the fellowship's president. The Lord gave me an assignment which was against the fellowship's procedures. I tried to excuse myself and to prove my point I eagerly went to meet my lord for permission not to do what the Lord was asking me to do. Suprising, he said I should feel free and do it. That was the first time I took note of him. Second time, I had a baby in school (fresher). She had access to all my things and we were very close. Suddenly she began to keep malice with me. I think we had an issue or so. I pleaded and pleaded with her to no avail. Others did on my behalf too but she didn't yield. Then the Lord told me to tell my lord which I hesistantly did. Like film my baby changed. I do not know to date what they discussed. But that incidence struck me. Third occasion - I was struggling with the Lord in my room over watching a movie as opposed to reading. I kept lingering till my lord sent me an SMS on obedience not knowing what I was doing. Immediately I dropped the movie and read. The final one - I had a number of suitors and I was particularly attached to more than one. I'd turned down some but my home church get plenty procedures for marriage. Me lord wasn't one of me suitors. I grew restless one evening because one of the suitors was to call for my response and I wasn't decided. In the midst of my restlessness me lord sent an SMS pleading with me to tell him why I was bothered. That was it for me. I felt irritated like someone was spying on me and crossing his boundaries. I mean all these incidences within a semester. I could hardly call them coincidences. We weren't close yet he knew all about my walk with the Lord. Inasmuch as I didn't want to own up that something was coming up I couldn't deny it either. I graduated and few months later during my service he proposed. The way he did the proposal thing so irritated me I just told him to go and learn how to make a proposal. We didn't speak for the next 9months or so. Not a word, flash, text, mail. Nothing. We went our separate ways believing we were not meant to be together. He's very shy/reserved while I'm very outspoken and can do some unnecessary shakara. Somehow during that break I gave other suitors space but it just didn't work. My lord and I got back together and I've been having the time of my life with a man that is so UNLIKE me. wow! What a story 2 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by HFOG(f): 8:50pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
veave:
Please, how many types of lord do you have... You should have just called him hubby or love so we know the difference between our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ and sarah's kind of lord. Just incase of next time. So sorry ma'am. Didn't mean it that way. The Lord Jesus is 'the Lord' with capital L while my hubby is 'my lord' with a small l. Is it okay now ma? Sorry for the confusion once more and thanks for reading. Blessings 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by HFOG(f): 8:55pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: wow! What a story Tks sir. Glad you found it worth the read. Expecting to read your own super story soon. Tks again for bringing me here |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by HFOG(f): 8:58pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
Specialist900: she have spake/spoken. even me dey hail am o I have spoken and you've heard abi. No mind my over spiritual story as you rightly said then that's the only thing that seems to join us. You forgot to mention the books we're coauthoring though |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by HFOG(f): 9:04pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
LordReed:
Omo see film o! And you said it was boring. Hubby is a man of God o, Spirit led indeed. I love that, tell him I hail o! He go hear. When me read yours I felt so reluctant to say a word. I liked your contribution and sighed that mine wasn't half as romantic. It was way too spiritual. I mean few days ago I mentioned that to the Lord (my online journal) that my lord was so not romantic. But what I say? He gave me what I needed...tks for reading and enjoying. Bless your heart, big bro |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
modele2: Interesting thread.
Peharps its my husband that should be telling this story, but i would attempt to join his side and my side.
He recently moved into my area and told his friends while moving that he was going to find his wife in this area, that year.
He saw me one day walking down the street, i noticed his clean fine look but didnt really give him any thought.
He later said his attraction was my legs.....
He cornered me a few days later and told me he wanted me to be his wife, i replied just like that, you dont even know me, that infact i was engaged( i had a boyfriend and we were making plans..or rather i was making plans), he looked at my ringless fingers and laughed out loud, that even the ones with ring are not sure talkless or me without a ring. That struck home.
Then i found out he was from a different tribe..i totally logged off.
But that guy chased me eh...I have never seen such tireless zeal and tenacity. He used every trick in the book(yeah he later showed me the book, it has a lofty place on our bookshelf today - art of seduction(rob greene ). The final trick that worked was the impression he gave me that all the girls in town wanted him, that guy sef, many tricks, well hes so good looking, well packaged, very funny and intelligent that that line of seduction worked.
I unbelievably married someone not from my tribe(people who know me personally would understand why it was a massive deal) and three children later(baby 4 on the way), i have absolutely no regrets. I would rather be with no one else. My top notch correct bobo. Lovely Love conquers all. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
babie78: I met my husband in funny circumstances.
I had this Jalopy that I used to call car from he'll. It was a manual Honda Hala and men that car gave me issues.
One faithful day I was driving merrily and low and behold the brake failed and before I could say jack robinson the car rolled down and slope and ran into a brand new toyota parked in front of a house.
The first though that crossed my mind is if them sell me sell this car I can't afford the light of the toyota. The owner angrily came out of the car and I timidly came out of the car and when I saw the very tall angry man omo I burst into tears.
He took one look at me looked at me a second time and ended up fixing my car and his and he also fixed my heart
He is the next best thing since sliced bread and guess what I still have my car from hell.
He bought me a better one but I can never sell that my Hala
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