Nasty22:

choi diz ur the "lord" too mch o.. Started finking u were a deeper life member.

LordReed:
Spam bot made me late for this party. EfemenaXY carefreewannabe I now understand the tiptoeing you guys where doing with the language thing, I jumped in with both feet and got myself a ban. Anyways here goes.

A female friend called me up to assist her in house hunting. She told me someone else would be joining us if I don't mind and I said it was okay. At the place we went to see I met this friend of my friend. Polite greetings and that was all, no spark not even her beauty struck me but as we were driving to drop her off she said something that made me do a double take and look at her in the rear view mirror to make sure it was actually her speaking, LoL. She said a man had offered her a job, house and car in exchange for becoming the man's "pet". She said she dammed the man and said a big NO. This is in Abuja and this "poor" beautiful girl is turning down such a juicy offer? OMG I knew I had to find out if she was for real or not.

After we drop her off I told my friend, "give me this your friend na" and she said she'll find out if it was OK to give me her phone number. A couple of days later she sends it to me and tells me to give this unbelievable babe a call. The call lead to a friendship through which I discovered that the babe was for real. I then prayed to God that I have found o! You said he that findeth a wife has found a good thing and obtains favour of the Lord, Lord show me if this choice is good. The Lord showed me and our relationship was tested through 4 years of courtship, during which I lost my job and found it very difficult to even by gas for my car. We stuck together through thick and thin, I was blessed with another job and another car to God's glory. We used to joke that people seeing us now won't understand why I open the car door for her thinking all sorts of wrong things, LoL. We are married now and I still wake up everyday knowing that indeed the Lord has favoured me.

MarvellousGod:
I met him in my year 1..i was packing into my new lodge(off campus) and he was packing into same lodge in a room opposite mine..he was in 300l then, said he wanted somewhere closer to school hence the change of lodge. ..

We became friends (neighbour things ), he told me stuffs about the school, advised me including making good grades, attending lectures, staying off guys, et al.. Talked me into getting a library card and would ask me if I went to the library each time I came back from school...we really became so close, attended morning mass and other church gatherings together (catholics will understand), I could borrow anything from him including beverages, food stuffs etc likewise him. whenever he had food, I wouldn't bother cooking but would simply eat from his, likewise him. he would flash me in the night to get up and read, we sometimes did night calls just to keep sleep off our eyes..During exams, whoever didn't have an exam for that day did the cooking... I can go on and on, we were the best to each other..he was good to me and I was nice to him.. People thought we were related but when they found out the truth, they strted spying on us..

All these while, nothing happened between us(it's hard to believe right? but sincerely nothing did), I never passed the night in his room though stayed late sometimes watching movies or gisting while his door was open....

He finally asked me out in his final year and that was the beginning of our romantic relationship .. I actually knew he had interest in me because of his attitude when other guys pestered me....

Anyway, it's 6yrs now and we are engaged.. he has taken the first step of seeing my parents and we are tying the nut come April. ...

Asked him why he kept disturbing me about studies during my early years in the Uni, he said "he wanted to build his world"...Yeah, we both graduated with excellent grades...

I will catch a bullet anyday for him.. His happiness is my priority. . He's my first and only love
He always says "we will teach the world the meaning of true love"..

I pray God always not to let this seed of love in us die but rather get better with time. .. I love you till death sweetheart


Yeah, true love still exists. . ... sorry for the long epistle

Barezzi:

Wonderful!!!
I cant believe your story brought tears to my eyes. So beautiful!

AyeeIdris:
see all these romantic stories sha.
it was a slow friday at work. so i was surfing the net and playing farmville. got a buzz from someone at a chatting site. we got talking.
he : i live at ......
me: i grew up there.
he: really i stayed at street ...
me: me too
he: serious
me: very
he: i stay at no..... are u alhaji .... daughter? u have a sister named ......
me: yes ooooo
he: then u must know the ........
me : ofcourse ( ii had no idea....
.picks phone and calls my younger sister and asked about the family in question. my sister was the darling of the street then. very cute and friendly . she gave a name ) u have a brother named .......
so thats how we gor talking. turns out we were equally doing masters at lag. me part time, he full time different departments

so we find time to meet one day. i remember my first impression... damn his head is huge... so we got talking and dating. he is the most unromantic person in the world but a jolly good sport for my goofiness. after a year, he said he wanted to meet my mother. i asked for what. he said bush gel, should i not meet ur mum before marrying u. i was like bush man is dat how u ask a girl to marry u? do it properly. i want the whole bended knees. he grumbled something about indian movie corrupting me.
A week later, he asked how i want to be proposed to. annoyed at this point, i told him he should not ask me directly. he should use stealth and make it romantic. he was silent. 2 days later, his friend called and said bros said he should find if i want real or fake roses, cos real roses are expensive for flowers that will soon die. never did get my dream proposal. sigh.
here we are . 3 years now. we have a princess. he is unromantic but he makes an effort and dats all

EfemenaXY:




Lol @ jumping in with both feet! Yes, it is tricky but there's a way round it.

That aside, lovely story.

Timbuktou:
Otta, 2003: Sunday afternoon, went to drop off dad's car at the mechanic, had no change(bike fare was #30 and I had a #1000 note on me) and decided to enjoy a walk home. I decide to explore a new route and, viola, I come upon a business centre and decide to put a call through to a friend make we for hang out; see we had phones but no airtime in those days.

Someone was on the phone when I got there so, I had to wait my turn. In the meantime, there was a lovely looking gyal sitting by the side eating ofada rice and as I was hungry I asked to join, and with the most dazzling smile made to give me the dish, I said thanks and said I was kidding and asked her name which she told me. So, I put my phone on silent mode, took their phone and dialled my number twice and told them the guy didn't pick, I totally forgot to call my homey.

I get home and dial the number and asked to speak to her, it turns out she was the daughter of the phone centre woman and I only had the chance to chat her up because mom was attending to another customer. Anyway, her mom tells me to call her own phone and I say it's not going through. She hands over the phone to daugjter and I proceed to introduce myself "erm, I'm the guy that asked for rice now now. Please, don't hang up". Somehow, she found it funny and the rest is history. We're currently trying for baby number 2. Hehehehe.

2sExy1:
I have since moved on with my life bro. We settled everything last year since 2009. She has been pleading since 2012. she said she is afraid I will harm her. and that she doesn't even know if it's cos of what did to me that has been hindering her progress in life. This was last year. Though I had forgiven her but my spirit was still angry . But that anger diffused when she started complaining that I want harm her. I didn't like that feeling. I think that was when I had to let go.

I literally made her feel that way. It's what greed and selfishness cost her. I planted that figment in her subconscious mind.

I am grateful for what God has done so far in my life... And where she is anyway...

It wasn't easy but I thank God for everything.

Some weeks ago she was lamenting on facebook over the same crime she committed. Karma is a biiitch.

The pain and anger was much cos I couldn't revenge plus the fact that I lost a dear soul when she played her mischievous game.

I have stopped talking about it when it became obvious that people were taking notes of my post. Naturally I don't like too many eyes on me but I guess the biitch made me popular lol.

190 had to arrange a meeting so as to help me let go... Slimyem and idowuogbo also scolded me... Chidyhels was always on my case cos of it.... thanks to you all.

Life is beautiful when you turn adversity into motivation for existence.

alutacontinua:




this is the best news I've heard on Nairaland this year
Jeez! That lady did do a number on you
Thank God you finally let go
welcome to the hall of real men

alutacontinua:




this is the best news I've heard on Nairaland this year
Jeez! That lady did do a number on you
Thank God you finally let go
welcome to the hall of real men

InZA:



I find it "interesting" that people often suggest the bolded, but my concern is, we are not talking about changing cars, or shoes or kitchen wares, these are actual, living, breathing people with the capacity to feel hurt, dejected, frustrated and a whole lot of other emotions that find themselves rooted in heart breaks/breakups and the moving on decision.

That said, I really understand what you're saying, you've made really strong points. Summarily, I think my fear is the thought of being responsible for breaking someone's heart.... I detest the thought of that and believe you me it's not because I'm a people pleaser, neither is it because I want to remain perpetually in people's good graces. But that's just me.... I'd rather not go into a relationship than go into one that might end up with me likely breaking her heart. That's just me

I like this .i tink i will lyk to be ur friend.


I'm queer I know

sweetwuraola:
Wonderful stories, wish I have one to tell.. Hmmmm, love is a beautiful thng.

sweetwuraola:
Wonderful stories, wish I have one to tell.. Hmmmm, love is a beautiful thng.

aishaquest:
I haven't met him yet...at least not that I know of.