Seriously, i'm writing this with express anger right now. What is wrong with the ladies, I'm really sick and tired about this.
I think it is awkwardly absurd for a guy when he wants to greet a lady, gets a handshake from the lady. Ok, let me share my experience. 'as of yesterday evening to be precise, i ran into this old friend of mine, ''waoooh! Is that you'', went with happiness to greet her, actually ''HUG'' her and daaaaaaamn! She opted for a HANDSHAKE, i felt embarrased inside even up till naaa.
** So, ladies please you need to really answer this, what's the big deal in a guy recieving a HUG as a sign of greeting, why do you prefer Handshake?!
** Guys, una dun get diz experience b4?

If only you had a Range

handshake and hug could be 'haram' to some peeps

She get body odour and she no it :

iceberylin:
If only you had a Range

lol, range kwa?!

Dotwillis1:
She get body odour :

baba, diz wan no b body odour mata ooo! e b like say hugs dey affect dia bodi or somtin

Taiwo20:
handshake and hug could be 'haram' to some peeps

-majority of d ladies do diz oo.

Maybe her man was somewhere watching...could also be her policy not to hug guys...or she just was not that into u from day 1... There are several reasons but u shulda asked her stylishly why she extended her hand...

Personally, i only hug guys im close to...not every1 I meet..

Lmao! ! The next question is what did u look like? What did you smell like? What was ya breath like? Have u change since she last saw yah?? And more importantly WHAT DO YOU LOOKING LIKE?

ceeSleek:
baba, diz wan no b body odour mata ooo! e b like say hugs dey affect dia bodi or somtin

i wonder o, maybe some gurls weak point na 'hugging'

I hardly hug ladies.... Would only hug d lady if she stretches out her arms first

Creamish:
Maybe her man was somewhere watching...could also be her policy not to hug guys...or she just was not that into u from day 1... There are several reasons but u shulda asked her stylishly why she extended her hand...

Personally, i only hug guys im close to...not every1 I meet..

thanks creamish, but i feel hugs doesn't necessarily mean d 'she' has to be into d 'he' ... Ok, i'll ask. Thnks

There's nothing wrong in her giving you a handshake, they are still signs of greetings, unless you wanted to feel something

justmag:
Lmao! ! The next question is what did u look like? What did you smell like? What was ya breath like? Have u change since she last saw yah?? And more importantly WHAT DO YOU LOOKING LIKE?

hahaha *1* i wasn't looking bad ... 2* as a mata of fact, i wore a perf. Dat evening b4 going out. 3* breath, how does it correlate with hug?! 4* yeaa ... 5* numba 1's answer ... Bro, i hope i have answered yo q's. Does this now justify d ''no hugging fact''

Nneka123:
There's nothing wrong in her giving you a handshake, they are still signs of greetings, unless you wanted to feel something

lol, i guess you just indirectly gave the reason.... '' to feel something '' lolzzz, ladies ehnnnn....

If I know the nigga wella, I'll hug him. A shake is too formal nau.

Pele

Cutehector4u:
I hardly hug ladies.... Would only hug d lady if she stretches out her arms first

that means, you handshake them?!

ceeSleek:
lol, i guess you just indirectly gave the reason.... '' to feel something '' lolzzz, ladies ehnnnn....

That's was the plan all along, guys ehnnn

MzNelly:
If I know the nigga wella, I'll hug him. A shake is too formal nau.

Pele

thank you very much, abeg tell these sarcastic ladies ooo

Nneka123:
That's was the plan all along, guys ehnnn

no, pls don't misquote me. What i meant is that, you ladies feel ''uneasy'' when a guy tries to hug you while his chest supposedly touches yours. [thats what i understood from your post]

ceeSleek:
Seriously, i'm writing this with express anger right now. What is wrong with the ladies, I'm really sick and tired about this.
I think it is awkwardly absurd for a guy when he wants to greet a lady, gets a handshake from the lady. Ok, let me share my experience. 'as of yesterday evening to be precise, i ran into this old friend of mine, ''waoooh! Is that you'', went with happiness to greet her, actually ''HUG'' her and daaaaaaamn! She opted for a HANDSHAKE, i felt embarrased inside even up till naaa.
** So, ladies please you need to really answer this, what's the big deal in a guy recieving a HUG as a sign of greeting, why do you prefer Handshake?!
** Guys, una dun get diz experience b4?

.....and how do you know she's not married and her husband is not close by watching??

If she's not married then it all depends on how close you two were.

ceeSleek:
that means, you handshake them?!

no I greet dem with a holy kiss

I find it unconfortable at times to hug ladies that are not too close to me. But if they offer to hug me first i don't rebuff them.

Make i no fall their hands for public.

Cutehector4u:
no I greet dem with a holy kiss

lolzzzz, dem neva collect holy hug finish na holy kiss dey wan take?! Lolss, u funny ooo!

ceeSleek:
lolzzzz, dem neva collect holy hug finish na holy kiss dey wan take?! Lolss, u funny ooo!

I thought dats wad d bible said? Greet each other with a holy kiss..

@Poster, I understand ur feeling as it has happened to me b4 but I overlooked it. Ladies are different in nature. A lot of them has their individual principle.

Hugging a lady is not bad afterall, just that some guys hugs to feel somtin from them especially wen ur body pressed their breast and wit dis, they may get annoyed.

Personally, I only hug a lady if she stretches her arm first. Some ladies prefer handshake to hug simply for the above reason mentioned.

ceeSleek:
hahaha *1* i wasn't looking bad ... 2* as a mata of fact, i wore a perf. Dat evening b4 going out. 3* breath, how does it correlate with hug?! 4* yeaa ... 5* numba 1's answer ... Bro, i hope i have answered yo q's. Does this now justify d ''no hugging fact''

Some more question for you!
1. Was it Gucci perfume or hausa perfume?
2. Did you really ask that? Don't underestimate the power of bad breathe. Some girls can decide to shake you instead if she could SEE the bad breath! Nobody wants to be close to that!!
3.do you kno there is a difference between LOOKING GOOD and GOOD LOOKING?

Now I have more questions but u have to successfully anwser this first!

bros forget the tin.....those that will hug will do.
as for me hug or handshake am okay with anyone.
at times I dey prefer handshake.

Be happy she gave you a handshake sef. Hug or Handshake I'm good to go if she initiates it first. It is habit of mine not to initiate hug or handshake.

justmag:


Some more question for you!
1. Was it Gucci perfume or hausa perfume?
2. Did you really ask that? Don't underestimate the power of bad breathe. Some girls can decide to shake you instead if she could SEE the bad breath! Nobody wants to be close to that!!
3.do you kno there is a difference between LOOKING GOOD and GOOD LOOKING?

Now I have more questions but u have to successfully anwser this first!

1* the last time i checked, gucci or hausa perfumes aren't only the nicest perfume we have.. 2* i had no bad breath. 3* yes, i am good looking and also was looking good... So, where u heading @?

SkydaDGreat:
bros forget the tin.....those that will hug will do.
as for me hug or handshake am okay with anyone.
at times I dey prefer handshake.

hmmm, ok ooo. As 4me ooo, handshaking a girl still sounds and looks crazzzie