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Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jan 19, 2015
In my sojourn on earth thus far, I have experienced first hand the authenticity of this claim. Friends who got attracted to beautiful women and eventually married them, now rue their decisions. Most of them lack in character and humility, as is the case with the ones I know.

There is the feeling of self-importance, pride and narcissism as a result of having a volume of men who are seeking them out. This in effect triggers their consciousness to the fact that they are well sought after and highly priced.

As sweet, caring and nice the guy she's dating could be, if he cannot afford her bills, there is a long list of guys on the queue to do so, and she might just use her attractive physical appearance to her advantage, by making him do things he ordinarily isn't supposed to do in order to please her, keep her and prevent her from jumping to the next guy who is earnestly willing to do her bidding just to have her too.

Sadly, I have noticed that most men who dates pretty women have become some sort of puppet, they are being used and sucked dry by these ladies. She wants a new phone, her boyfriend, however, cannot afford it at the moment because there are other pressing needs that he must meet. But he has to go out of his way to get it for her, sometimes even borrowing to do so, just to please her and make her stay with him, otherwise he loses her to someone else who could do so. Their beauty gets into their head, and they become arrogant, self-centred and proud, sometimes unwittingly.

At this point it is no longer about love, care, fear of God or other virtues, on the contrary, it is about who can do what to satisfy their every whim. It becomes a competition, an endless quest for self gratification, all for the obvious reason that they're very attractive and well sought after.

But in the end, most of them lose. They'd miss a (or several) potential marriage mates and end up single. I know of a couple of them.

*Based on experience.

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Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by Shedysworld(m): 7:24pm On Jan 19, 2015
Plenty of them also make great wives, same way u see very Ugly girls that have horrible attitudes that's not fitting for a wife.
The key thing here is individuality, not being fine or ugly.

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Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by redcliff: 7:25pm On Jan 19, 2015
Lol. I concur equally
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by freshness2020: 7:26pm On Jan 19, 2015
Don't stereotype!
...you don't have money on you does not make everyone broke!
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by major466(m): 7:26pm On Jan 19, 2015
Beauty is in the heart.
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by temitemi1(m): 7:31pm On Jan 19, 2015
Ok...
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by alentyno: 7:32pm On Jan 19, 2015
Fallacy of hasty generalization

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Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by Fabdedon(m): 7:34pm On Jan 19, 2015
Pride..undecided
Until they decide to swallow that pride
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by Josphine4good(f): 7:36pm On Jan 19, 2015
it is a fat lie
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by emperorchedda(m): 7:57pm On Jan 19, 2015
You're not far from the truth
They keep on selecting and selecting till they lose the person made for them in their bid to find Mr Perfect.
No wise guy will date a very pretty and hot lady and put her in his future plans because she might coincidentally run into Senator Babangida tomorrow and cheat on your sorry, hustling asss
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by cutieberie1(f): 8:08pm On Jan 19, 2015
op how do u know....its not onli about appearance...
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:34am On Jan 20, 2015
cutieberie1:
op how do u know....its not onli about appearance...

Yes, but most of these beautiful ladies, allow the thing to get into their head...in effect they become proud and arrogant, and eventually develop other negative attitude
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 20, 2015
freshness2020:
Don't stereotype!
...you don't have money on you does not make everyone broke!

Read and digest properly, the above post is not about money
Re: Beautiful Ladies Hardly Make A Good Wife Or Girlfriend by freshness2020: 8:22pm On Jan 20, 2015
joeboy03:


Read and digest properly, the above post is not about money
..read literary not literally !

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