Pls nairalanders, am a little worried, this morning my girlfriend told me that she is pregnant for me, I felt its little early, for me to get married. We love ourselves so much and she is the one I will definitely marry, just that two of my elder brothers are not yet married, I don't know what to do now, am a bit confused, money is not the problem as I am already staying on my own and working. My problem now is if my parents will be happy that I impregnated a lady, and even my elder brothers are not yet married. Althuogh they are overdue and are rich, they are well older than me.Am 28 yrs old. Pls I need advice on what next to do. I don't mind marrying here even today. But what will ppl say.

Congratulations bro ... Baby food, pampers n baby's clothes ... Abi u need donation like apc ni

Get ready, in 9 months time you'll soon become a father.

BTW, I really don't understand people these days, there is something called 'protection'. You get down with ur girlfriend RAW, be sure to expect a baby not a visa lottery.

Congratulations @OP, you are a great striker I must confess. Please don't think about abortion, 'cause there are many couples out there craving for at least a child. Don't kill yours

Please marry her.

Don't abort.
I'm glad that you can take care of her.

At the beginning, it will look hard to cope...but you'll be fine sooner or later.

Worryless of what people will say. It's already done.
I know of a couple that got married once the wife got pregnant.

Nobody knew until when she put to birth about 8 months in marriage.

Op I think you need to talk to your parents about your situation.

Go sit them down and explain to them in the best way possible. You could talk to one parent at a time then bring them together. It will be easier to convince one, than the 2 of them together. Once they are on your side, arrange for your marriage.

If they don't want you to do a marriage ceremony before your brothers, tell them to bless your r/ship. Then go see the girl's parents.
Goodluck!

Wen u were doing d do, nobody gave u advice. No wey kasala don burst, u dey find advice . At 28, u say its too early? I wonder hw old ur brothers are . So u knw pple will say smthn, n u still went ahead. Men ehn! Wonderful creatures

You had unprotected sex with your girlfriend what do you expect?...a plasma TV from jumia abii?

And you are even 28 Oh! Which means your kiss alone can impregnate a gal

Me na bad man, me na care what nobody say.

u'r 28 ryy? working nd i ur words, money is not the problm nd she's the one u'r DEFINITELY going to marry... i'd presume i'v solved ur simple arithmetic for u .. GADDEM

congratulations.....

You are a man so reason it by your self.
Before you do anything think of the outcome first.

Well sha i will blame it on KONJI been bastard

At your age you are saying you are too young Mtchewww...i beliv you dont have shi shi if Not You wont be scared

Congrats bro... Please don't abort that baby

Even if you won't marry her now

Just take care of her and the baby

and start planning your wedding
Beside those ur elder bro way no wan marry
Make them come N'L, we get plenty single and searching ladies

Some even dey create thread for husband sef


Congrats again MrJanuzaj

Okay, first off, a big congrats to you, brother. I'm happy for you and also about the fact that you're not denying responsibility.

Now, here's what I can say to you... (pardon me, I might be a bit hard on this one so brace yourself)

Dude, you said you are "Definitely" gonna get married to her. Cool! You are 28 years old and you're worried because your senior brothers ain't married yet. Not cool!

Why should you be worried about that? Gone are those days when it mattered, Dude, this is your life. This is your future. This is a blessing in itself. It's not your fault that they're still single. I mean,it's rather unfortunate that it had to be so but bro, it is what it is.

I would still go on and on but I'll stop here and give space to others.

Discuss with your parents and hopefully this sails smoothly. Once again, congratulations to you and good luck! Peace.

congrat bros this is 2015 where all things na triple triple.

Congracts Guy ....it is not easy to get a geh Pregnant ...some men re looking for dz opportunity buh dey can't find ...You are really a Man ...take care of her and ur baby ...simple

MrJanuzaj:
Pls nairalanders, am a little worried, this morning my girlfriend told me that she is pregnant for me, I felt its little early, for me to get married. We love ourselves so much and she is the one I will definitely marry, just that two of my elder brothers are not yet married, I don't know what to do now, am a bit confused, money is not the problem as I am already staying on my own and working. My problem now is if my parents will be happy that I impregnated a lady, and even my elder brothers are not yet married. Althuogh they are overdue and are rich, they are well older than me.Am 28 yrs old. Pls I need advice on what next to do. I don't mind marrying here even today. But what will ppl say.

@TOPIC IF NOT? WHO SHOULD BE PREGNANT FOR U BEFORE? YA MOM? LOLZ WHEN U DEY FVCK NOBODY KNOW BELLE DON ENTER U DON COME ONLINE.....BOYS ARE SHAMELESS

Mtcheew

if the only reason stopping u right now is ur unmarried brothers n what people will say them I'd say go ahead n marry. those r not enough reasons to let ur first child come into this world as a bastard

twerkjack:
@TOPIC IF NOT? WHO SHOULD BE PREGNANT FOR U BEFORE? YA MOM? LOLZ WHEN U DEY FVCK NOBODY KNOW BELLE DON ENTER U DON COME ONLINE.....BOYS ARE SHAMELESS

you sound rude Bitch*, He only ask for advice not insult. Men are not shameless but it is you who is a shameless gurl.

Wow!! Congrats Broda!!!


Am Really Happy 4u!

twerkjack:
@TOPIC IF NOT? WHO SHOULD BE PREGNANT FOR U BEFORE? YA MOM? LOLZ WHEN U DEY FVCK NOBODY KNOW BELLE DON ENTER U DON COME ONLINE.....BOYS ARE SHAMELESS

this babe self

I like the fact that you aren't denying the pregnancy. since you see future with you two why not take it to the next level since a baby is involved. please bro don't take abortion for an option, just try and make your parents and siblings see reasons. best of luck dear

Kolade354:
you sound rude Bitch*, He only ask for advice not insult. Men are not shameless but it is you who is a shameless gurl.

GOD OF NL TELL ME WETIN CONCERN THIS GOAT

twerkjack:
GOD OF NL TELL ME WETIN CONCERN THIS GOAT

pig this is waht i like keep em coming............ You this twa*t lack mannerz. Go back and ask ya elders at home to teach you how to express yaself not hw to insult.

donephi:
this babe self

WETIN I DO NA....EVERY THREAD NEEDS COMMENTS ND COMMENT MEANS ""POINT OF VIEW"" THEY CANT ALL BE GOOD

Kolade354:
pig this is waht i like keep em coming............ You this twa*t lack mannerz. Go back and ask ya elders at home to teach you how to express yaself not hw to insult.

MY FRIEND SHUT AND GO BACK TO THE HOLE U CREPT OUT FROM.....OLODO

twerkjack:
MY FRIEND SHUT AND GO BACK TO THE HOLE U CREPT OUT FROM.....OLODO

oponu omo go back to dat whor*e you call mum to teach you mannerz......keep em coming Bitc* ya mama gat Aids.

Kolade354:
oponu omo go back to dat whor*e you call mum to teach you mannerz......keep em coming Bitc* ya mama gat Aids.

U TALK LIKE A...............
LIKE A......,............, ABEG I JUST LAUGH AT UR.................... NO WORDS CAN DESCRIBE UR STUPIDITY SHA......DNT HV TIME FOR TINS LIKE U.......SO RUN ALONG NOW PINOCHIO..OFF TO SCHOOL, COS OBVIOUSLY UV NEVER BEEN TO ONE

twerkjack:
U TALK LIKE A...............
LIKE A......,............, ABEG I JUST LAUGH AT UR.................... NO WORDS CAN DESCRIBE UR STUPIDITY SHA......DNT HV TIME FOR TINS LIKE U.......SO RUN ALONG NOW PINOCHIO..OFF TO SCHOOL, COS OBVIOUSLY UV NEVER BEEN TO ONE

All you thirst gurlz-Phumakim.

twerkjack:
U TALK LIKE A...............
LIKE A......,............, ABEG I JUST LAUGH AT UR.................... NO WORDS CAN DESCRIBE UR STUPIDITY SHA......DNT HV TIME FOR TINS LIKE U.......SO RUN ALONG NOW PINOCHIO..OFF TO SCHOOL, COS OBVIOUSLY UV NEVER BEEN TO ONE

All you thirsty gurlz-Phumakim..............your level of foolishness is on another grade,