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11 Types Of Men You Should Avoid by phymeon(m): 2:05am On Jan 25, 2015
Dating in general is not the easiest task on the
planet no matter how easy it may seem. It takes
the effort of both parties to make it worth the try.
When it is not happening the way it is supposed
to, things go wrong. The truth is, most of the time
when we have issues when dating, the signs
would have been there earlier but we chose to
overlook it. This is because most people have
the mentality that you can change the person
over a period of time. This is wrong. These
article is to give you an idea of the type of men to
avoid before it gets too late.
1. The controlling kind: Sometimes, the
controlling type of men might not be the best
people to date. It may look all rosy at the
beginning and you may try to overlook it, the
signs that the guy you are dating might appear to
be controlling or let’s use the word, power
hungry. He always wants to be the one in charge
of everything and not even wanting to give you a
chance to voice your own opinions, then you
might have to run from this one.
2. The anger management kind: I used anger-
management because that is exactly what he
needs to calm himself down and be slow to
anger. Everyone knows how annoying women
can be. We know that sometimes, it is best to let
the woman win and just avoid any further
arguments. Instead, he gets upset at every little
thing you say. That relationship will not work
because he has a million and one days to put up
with you. If he can’t, let him step away and you
move onto the next one.
3. The violent kind: Violence is the number one
marriage wrecker. If he ever tries to throw
something at you, let alone, hit you, then he is
violent. Do not be deceived that he was
overwhelmed with anger. No reasonable person
wants to hurt their loved ones. Especially for the
ladies who think their man hits them because he
loves them, well one day, he will kill you so run.
Run as fast as you can before it’s too late.
4. The nagging kind: There are so many men who
nag and it’s very unattractive. Ladies, kindly
avoid this type of men.
5. The malicious kind: Men in general are not
supposed to have this trait. This is another
unattractive trait that men should never display.
If your man keeps malice with you, then I do not
understand why he is still in your life.
6. The negative kind: This type are very bad for
our health. You do not want anyone who has only
negative comments about things all the time. It is
never about the positive things that he can do.
You have this great business idea and you are
so excited to tell him but all he does it asks you
what happens if it doesn’t work. Always
negative. Anytime he does this, ask yourself why
the other person who did it succeeded, after all,
the individual does not have two heads. Say bye
to every form of negativity in your life.
7. The demeaning kind: This type always bring
you down in everything. They always make you
feel like you are not good enough. Nothing is
ever good enough for him. This is called
emotional violence. It is even worse than
physical violence because it makes you feel
worthless. If you think these traits are present in
your man, dump him to look for his kind.
8. The vain kind: Now, these type of men are
more concerned about how they look and what
people think about them. They would outshine
you when both of you are attending an event
together. A regular guy would want the woman to
be beautiful not really keeping in mind how he
might look. Don’t get it twisted; he would look
nice too but these are the selfish kinds who put
themselves first before you. You don’t really
want to end up with this type of person.
9. The flirtatious kind: These are the types that
love to flirt with other women not paying mind if
you are present or not. They always love to be
around the ladies and can also be described as
the ladies’ man. A man should have eyes for just
his girl when she is there. It is disrespectful
flirting with other ladies in the presence of your
girlfriend. These ones are up to no good. Just
walk away!
10. The mama’s boys: There is nothing more
unattractive than a man who runs to his mother
at every little thing that happens to them. These
ones cannot take decisions by himself. He is
obviously not independent. If you end up with
these ones, their moms would be the people
dictating your relationship.
11. The Insecure kind: Insecurity in relationships
is a terrible thing. Insecure men will look for
every excuse to doubt your words, actions,
intentions. Such men will flair up at every call, the
beep of your phone or a message. You can never
have male friends or associates and it can be
difficult to grow a steady relationship when your
man is insecure.
Although no one is perfect and there is no rule
book in relationships, but these are a few thing
you might want to avoid before it’s too late. Source : http://howng.com/11-types-men-avoid/
Re: 11 Types Of Men You Should Avoid by Nobody: 2:15am On Jan 25, 2015
Hi I'm the first to comment so what do I get? grin
Re: 11 Types Of Men You Should Avoid by cherryice(f): 2:18am On Jan 25, 2015
STC cheesy

Dimples192, seems like youve been waiting for this day all your life grin
Re: 11 Types Of Men You Should Avoid by Nobody: 2:26am On Jan 25, 2015
cherryice:
STC cheesy

Dimples192, seems like youve been waiting for this day all your life grin
Lol I'd like to thank god first and then my mum because without them I wouldn't of got this opportunity. But most importantly I'd like to thank the op who gave me the chance to shine! Thank you all! !

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Re: 11 Types Of Men You Should Avoid by kalu01(m): 3:13am On Jan 25, 2015
ok
Re: 11 Types Of Men You Should Avoid by justmag(m): 5:30am On Jan 25, 2015
Now I need the version for girls.
Re: 11 Types Of Men You Should Avoid by maajin007(m): 8:07am On Jan 25, 2015
stop deceiving ursef to create yeye thread every man possess any of d following trait;,the best thing to do is not to leave him;d best thing to do is to advice him and pray 4 him if u truly love him.What am i even saying ladies are also guilty of this.

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