Tearg1:

Mama has missing tooth like Buhari's

smudge2079:
Kiss mama

Cutehector4u:
Bribe mama

Tearg1:


This advise is from the pit of hell... Try and seek advice from a man of God... Never dwell on the counsel of the ungodly... This issue is sensitive and if not handled with divine wisdom, it can cause carnage. Before u do anything, pray for God to direct u to the right man of God to speak to. We all have flaws and this is one of them. Some of u hypocrites bashing him are serial aldutrers yourselves..

kuzee:

guy park well..wat kinda blackmail re you talking of?
blackmailing him is like blackmailing her daughter..who in the right sense will do that, supposing the daughter find out her mother has bin blackmailing him, what do you think will happen next

ayoade2:
If you were not caught, you would have thought you are smart and the relationship would have graduated to something more under your building !?Confess to your wife in presence of Mama. that's called being a man. Mama will likely be the one placating your wife for you. The whole blame will fall on the temptress.

Sophyrocks:
This Op is a total disgrace to manhood!! You are fortunate i am not your wife and my mother isnt your mother in law. Omo mehn, we will soooooooo fvck you up!! we will make a perfect team. If i were your wife, it would make sense you even pack some things and leave that house because my hot temper will make that house hot for you. I wont touch you but you will die of stroke.

Just imagine bringing a friend to help you out with something and your wife becomes intimate with him just because of his 13 inches d1ck. What do you think you would do if you found out? That is what makes me sooooo angry when you men cheat!! You dnt forgive but want forgiveness which is what motivates me not to tolerate it at alllllllll. Mbanu! You men should try and reason with the brain often. Your d1cks are not your brains. The more you use it the more mistakes you make. What will it profit you to use 5 minutes pleasure to loose your family and break down your marriage completely? cant you see you have a lot to loose when you cheat as a man? If 42 size of bra is what you love, why didnt you marry a woman with one?

Get ready to face the consequences of your actions because you will face them no matter how much schemes you wanna pull here. Adultery has consequences. Every man who commits it faces them. God cannot be mocked for whatever you sow you must reap. Your wife will get to know if not now but in the nearest future after many threats from her mother.

Sophyrocks:
This Op is a total disgrace to manhood!! You are fortunate i am not your wife and my mother isnt your mother in law. Omo mehn, we will soooooooo fvck you up!! we will make a perfect team. If i were your wife, it would make sense you even pack some things and leave that house because my hot temper will make that house hot for you. I wont touch you but you will die of stroke.

Just imagine bringing a friend to help you out with something and your wife becomes intimate with him just because of his 13 inches d1ck. What do you think you would do if you found out? That is what makes me sooooo angry when you men cheat!! You dnt forgive but want forgiveness which is what motivates me not to tolerate it at alllllllll. Mbanu! You men should try and reason with the brain often. Your d1cks are not your brains. The more you use it the more mistakes you make. What will it profit you to use 5 minutes pleasure to loose your family and break down your marriage completely? cant you see you have a lot to loose when you cheat as a man? If 42 size of bra is what you love, why didnt you marry a woman with one?

Get ready to face the consequences of your actions because you will face them no matter how much schemes you wanna pull here. Adultery has consequences. Every man who commits it faces them. God cannot be mocked for whatever you sow you must reap. Your wife will get to know if not now but in the nearest future after many threats from her mother.

zeefa:
Please, I need a serious advise from people in the house. I really don't know what to say to my mother in-law, may be to beg her or ignored as if nothing happen.

Let me give you a little summary of what happened to me.

My wife just put to bed and the whole loads of work have been much for her that she called on her friend who just graduated from the university to come and stay with us so that she could help with little work at home.

We didn't have problem with her because it will save her from paying bills whereas we have more space in our own house for her to occupy free of charge without having to pay any bills.

She was so hard-working and even without telling her,she knows what to do at the right time. She does all the cooking for us and most time before I get home from work, she calls me to ask what I would love to have for dinner which she will gladly organise.

Gradually, we get little bit close and talk freely to each other without having to define our boundaries.

Wumi is a dark skinned chobby lady with a 42DD size (please don't ask me how I got to know her size). And am sure those that have the picture of sizes on their brain will understand my point. It was tempting.

It all started when I got home and saw her cooking with one nasty top showing off her assets. She caught my attention and smiled and I returned my gesture given her a soft smile too and that was how the whole madness started.

My mother in-law just came from nigeria few days ago to help us as well. But left for me, I was enjoying the new atmosphere with Wumi in our house.

Just yesterday the nasty incident happened. Mama caught me in d washroom kissing and touching wumi . Meanwhile, my wife went for Dr appointment for our son with cold.

Right now, I'm afraid because mama didn't say anything and I don't know how to convince her as well.

Wumi is not comfortable at home again and I can't look into ma ma's face anymore.

The funny thing is that mama didn't discuss what she saw with my wife because I knew if my wife heard, in fact, I wont be on nairaland now to narrate the story of my life.

Please, do I call mama and beg her? Or should I just ask my wife to allow her (wumi) go since mama is around. ?

I'm really confused here because I can't not face or talk to Mama freely at home anymore.

Please what do I do?

dammytosh:


Are you married ?

repogirl:

ohhh, so I should tell OP, congratulations abi? Congratulations for cheating on your wife because its what all men do?

See, just because you are a cheat does not mean all men cheat, FYI, I am already married and if he cheats which I seriously doubt cos he is very self disciplined, then we will handle the matter

Tearg1:


This advise is from the pit of hell... Try and seek advice from a man of God... Never dwell on the counsel of the ungodly... This issue is sensitive and if not handled with divine wisdom, it can cause carnage. Before u do anything, pray for God to direct u to the right man of God to speak to. We all have flaws and this is one of them. Some of u hypocrites bashing him are serial aldutrers yourselves..

maclatunji:
OP, you have no shame.

Ladies, lesson No.1, don't keep a grown female that is not your daughter in your home unless you want to read stories like this.

ronald4lif:
You have to pretend as if nothing happened and don't plead with the mom. It's possible she didn't clearly see what happened between you and the girl. And you pleading with her will throw all her doubts. But even if she did she may not want to tell her daughter so as to avoid problems and avoidable issues in your marriage. Maybe it's time to let your wife friend leave the house to avoid more drama. And just be more nice to your wife and your mom now generally.

But if your mother in-law finally tells her daughter what transpired please deny it completely. You can say you were passing by and along the line you heard the friend calling for help and you went to assist her (if it was a kitchen incident you could say things like oil poured on her and you had to quickly get a cloth to clean up the mess on her) and was only trying to help before mama came in. Don't make it appear as if mama is lying but rather that yes she saw you both but didn't get the exact picture of what was happening. You can discuss whatever story you may want to say with the girl so you both can have same story.

Wumi should leave the house

ronald4lif:
You have to pretend as if nothing happened and don't plead with the mom. It's possible she didn't clearly see what happened between you and the girl. And you pleading with her will throw all her doubts. But even if she did she may not want to tell her daughter so as to avoid problems and avoidable issues in your marriage. Maybe it's time to let your wife friend leave the house to avoid more drama. And just be more nice to your wife and your mom now generally.

But if your mother in-law finally tells her daughter what transpired please deny it completely. You can say you were passing by and along the line you heard the friend calling for help and you went to assist her (if it was a kitchen incident you could say things like oil poured on her and you had to quickly get a cloth to clean up the mess on her) and was only trying to help before mama came in. Don't make it appear as if mama is lying but rather that yes she saw you both but didn't get the exact picture of what was happening. You can discuss whatever story you may want to say with the girl so you both can have same story.

Wumi should leave the house

andyanders:


You are right. The guy has messed up and too bad hurting a nursing mother and fvcking up in the presence of the mother in-law. How can a sane man not control his lust no matter what.The lady in question knew what she was doing.

This is a very big lesson for married women not to trust their close friends with their husbands.When the man is rich, their friends might end up bedding them. Any married woman should distance themselves from unmarried friends of theirs no matter how close they are.

Eberex:


You talk like you dont know women. And how sure are you that the mother agreed to their marriage in the first place? were you there? How are you sure if he is the aka gum type? Anyway my point is, the mama has an advantage, either she uses it or not is her biz