Here are ways I would like to share with you nourish your relationship.

1. Solidify your friendship How satisfied you feel or connected, to your partner by developing a deeper friendship. To do that, incrementally spend more in your relationship has to do with how connected you feel to your partner. As an adult, an insecure attachment style is associated with a slew of relationship troubles, including jealousy, obsession, and emotional highs and lows. The
good news is that, regardless of your present pattern, you can become more securely attached,
time with her doing something you both enjoy. Also, regularly ask for updates on your partner’s likes, dislikes, current stressors, and new interests, as people change over time.

2. Appreciate Each Other
Remember when you first started dating, how you used to go that extra mile to impress her? Well,
one of the secrets to a long, fulfilling relationship is to continue to actively appreciate your partner.
If you’re not sure where to start, a good place is by doling out daily compliments. Tell her she looks hot or thank her for organizational abilities when she reminds you to call your mother. The only rule is to make sure that you genuinely mean what you say.

3. Concentrate on the Present to Ensure Your Future Interestingly, the ability of your relationship to weather tough times has a lot to do with your mutual availability in the here and now. Unfortunately, over time, for a variety of reasons, many couples move further apart from each other, meaning that when a rough patch hits, their relationship doesn’t survive. To build a rock-
solid relationship, start by acknowledging rather than ignoring the ordinary moments in your relationship. If your partner wants to share something she’s reading on the net, for example,
take a minute to listen, even if you simply grunt in response. It may sound strange, but if you
accumulate enough of the little things, when you really need your partner, you’ll find she’s there for
you.

4. Find Common Goals
The aim is for both of you to share what you want your life to be about, where you want to end up
and what these things mean to you. Look for anything that’s common between the two of you
and talk about ways to work toward that aspiration together.

5. Focus on What’s Fixable
As long as an argument doesn’t leave you feeling like you’ve been through an emotional roller coaster, consider it fixable. In particular, the initial stages of living together may be especially fraught with monetary concerns. So that this problem doesn’t spiral out of control, sit down with your other half and craft a detailed action plan, consulting any resources that might help to get your finances on track. You should both be able to live with the new arrangement or it won’t
work. Use this method to address any other problems in your life that you deem fixable.