folabayo1:
Change is a constant tin evry human's life abd I blv evry sinner deserves a 2nd chance

Change is something that happens with the right mindset and continous striving over a period of time. Learn to be faithful now that you are single so it won't be an issue when you get married. My take.

ivyT:
Try to forgive,but if it aint working,2thngs r involved_1.let go(quit the relatnshp).2.revenge

will you revenge if it were to be me? baby say the truth. let me know were we're heading to.

Juliano47:
10 serious ones bruh...aside flings and the rest...the girls don't stay long...they don't like honest men. and I'm difficult...I must admit.

10 Serious relationship ? And you use been honest as an excuse wao, maybe it wasn't that serious as you are trying to paint it, I don't see any serious person having 10 serious relationship that probably wasn't really serious. That means you are always in a new relationship an average of every 18-24 months. Wao that's really serious

If you are still in a relationship and your partner is cheating on I will advice u to quite such relationship because if u marry him or her he will continue to cheat on you, but if u are already married I will advice you to let your partner know that you are aware that he or she is cheating, if he/she ask for forgiveness, try and forgive , but if the cheating partner is not asking for forgiveness then there is a serious problem. I advice you to report him or her to your pastor or his or her family member.

djeezy:
I'm a lawyer.

. Don't mind him my brother. Who is he to punish a man for a moral act? His he God? Let him punish her and end up in jail. Cheating is not a crime, its a moral SIN.

Juliano47:
you contradicted yourself...basically, you didn't provide an answer. pls, try again. what punishments would you suggest?

Mind u, I didn't contradict myself, I gave an answer I only gave an additional objective to it.

Punishment ke
If he cheats on me, I did act lyk nothing happened nd move on wit my lyf

thelastmediator:


Change is something that happens with the right mindset and continous striving over a period of time. Learn to be faithful now that you are single so it won't be an issue when you get married. My take.

agreed

bomasek:
Why is it of a major concern to u?

ever heard of magun? (Thunderbolt) ...have you ever been/seen (where) it happened? ....if you know then you'll know why it is of any concern to me.

MrHardOn:
Juliano47. Sexual problems deserve Sexual solutions.

I suppose you treat STDs or HIV with sexual solutions?

funmilayoB:
walk away frm d relationship if u r able to establish he/she is cheating on u. Period

easier typed in Nairaland than done in real life.

Cutehector4u:
wat's dis one sayin. What concerns wat I comment wit my personal text.

olympus121:


Hmmmm, You hav had 10 "serious" relationships and only just one cheated, you've started looking for punishments. You ought to be punished first for dating 9 good persons and breaking their hearts, or u don't think that deserves punishment too. Lolzzzzz!

and where did I mention in my post that I was the one who broke it all up?

martinsblinks:
Best punishment for a cheat is to cheat on him/her.......

doesn't portray responsibility or maturity.

silence

searider:
OP, where in Navy town that one happen because me dey stay NT and I no hear anything like that o

Daddy(OP), u can lie o*hitting his head with my panama cap*

everything wey happen for Navy Town na hin you don hear finish? Even your name sef.... you can't ride the sea bruh....you either swim, sail or sink.... mind you I'm a Seafarer too.

pinkhill:
silence

Not always easy.

Every human being is replaceable as long as you are willing to search hard enough!

Juliano47:
yeah...like Nick Cannon got a replacement? Or Wiz Khalifa?! What you dunno is that some peeps are just irreplaceable.

olumyde5:



10 Serious relationship ? And you use been honest as an excuse wao, maybe it wasn't that serious as you are trying to paint it, I don't see any serious person having 10 serious relationship that probably wasn't really serious. That means you are always in a new relationship an average of every 18-24 months. Wao that's really serious

how old do you think I am?! ....i've been in a week old relationship....some few months...so, you see?

adoval:
If you are still in a relationship and your partner is cheating on I will advice u to quite such relationship because if u marry him or her he will continue to cheat on you, but if u are already married I will advice you to let your partner know that you are aware that he or she is cheating, if he/she ask for forgiveness, try and forgive , but if the cheating partner is not asking for forgiveness then there is a serious problem. I advice you to report him or her to your pastor or his or her family member.

Making sense....

tivta:
. Don't mind him my brother. Who is he to punish a man for a moral act? His he God? Let him punish her and end up in jail. Cheating is not a crime, its a moral SIN.

I suppose Stealing/covetousness ain't a crime either? ....peeps who call God God like you are the real reasons the world is in chaos. so, tell me...you let go off every trespass against your person? smh....holier-than-thou folks tho.... some won't even make heaven because of their ignorance...

teeowl:
Every human being is replaceable as long as you are willing to search hard enough!

one reason some folks are still single is because they have combed every nooks and cranny and couldnt find. *talking from experience*

zick19:
Best punishment for men that cheats; insert and break 25pieces of broom into his joystick hole.....

Best punishment for ladies that cheats; cut of the tip of their nipple.s.....


#smoking_my_weed_jejely

u need Jesus

There might be a valid reason for cheating though. Read this and understand - http://thenakedconvos.com/sexual-agreement-having-similar-sexy-time-interests/

bigbams24:
There might be a valid reason for cheating though. Read this and understand - http://thenakedconvos.com/sexual-agreement-having-similar-sexy-time-interests/

don't post links on my thread bros....

Location is an important factor. If you are not meeting new people everyday, then scarcity becomes an issue. There is nobody that has searched every nook and cranny of the world and can't find - in most cases they have searched every nook and cranny of their small town and complain they can't find anyone.

Cheating is NOT a crime so in most cases, the option is to move on! You can't force anybody to love you!

Juliano47:
one reason some folks are still single is because they have combed every nooks and cranny and couldnt find. *talking from experience*

teeowl:
Location is an important factor. If you are not meeting new people everyday, then scarcity becomes an issue. There is nobody that has searched every nook and cranny of the world and can't find - in most cases they have searched every nook and cranny of their small town and complain they can't find anyone.

Cheating is NOT a crime so in most cases, the option is to move on! You can't force anybody to love you!

I refuse to argue...because your society refused to make it a crime doesn't mean it ain't a crime.....but I won't try to convince you anyway. but make research, you'll definitely see places where cheating ain't tolerated or the offence taken lightly. Mind you, I cannot be replaced.

You can't be replaced... yet you have searched nook and cranny and you can't find a lover? (or a lover to stay faithful to you?) What a big joke! If you can't be replaced, you would easily get a lover and she would not cheat on you...

If you can't be replaced then why are you opening a thread on punishment for cheats? Service to humanity

Juliano47:
I refuse to argue...because your society refused to make it a crime doesn't mean it ain't a crime.....but I won't try to convince you anyway. but make research, you'll definitely see places where cheating ain't tolerated or the offence taken lightly. Mind you, I cannot be replaced.

teeowl:
You can't be replaced... yet you have searched nook and cranny and you can't find a lover? (or a lover to stay faithful to you?) What a big joke! If you can't be replaced, you would easily get a lover and she would not cheat on you...

If you can't be replaced then why are you opening a thread on punishment for cheats? Service to humanity

Lol....you amaze me bro...so, if I said peeps searched nooks and cranny looking for replacement, it means I'm talking bout me? lool....such immature conclusion.....and again if I opened a thread bout relationship cheats, it means it is about me? lool...bro now! Doesn't even make any sense...so, every thread on Nairaland was created from experience? Smh...your understanding tho, I weep for it

Juliano47:
I suppose Stealing/covetousness ain't a crime either? ....peeps who call God God like you are the real reasons the world is in chaos. so, tell me...you let go off every trespass against your person? smh....holier-than-thou folks tho.... some won't even make heaven because of their ignorance...

. Mr man am speaking from what the law of the land says.