lanicky:
OK, I'm here again with my wahala. Make una no vex o. Lol.

If you've ever been cheated on, you know the way pain and anguish that accompanies it. The feelings of rejection and helplessness are almost unbearable, but rest assured there is help to the situation.

To cheaters:
I
1)Think of your children: Do you think they will forgive you if they find out about what you've been doing?
70% of children find it difficult to forgive their cheating parent.
Think ahead to what court might think of you as q parent. You may think your partner won't fight you on custody, but people change when they get into divorce court.

2)Be honest with yourself: Do you think you have nothing to hide while trying move forward. Sometimes the past do hunt the future.
If you can't stop on your own, get professional help.
If you know you're not willing to stop the shameful act and you don't care about your partner, you'll let him/her go.

3) ACCESS YOUR COMMITMENT LEVEL AND ACCEPT YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES:
Are you committed enough to your partner in order to do the work necessary so as to repair the relationship?

Have decency to tell your partner in all honesty and candour that you own your choices. And that you're the one who ran the relationship off into the ditch. Do whatever it takes to earn your partner's trust again.



In conclusion:
You have to pray, because your problem might not be ordinary.


Now, to the partner:

Try to forgive:
Forgiveness is a choice. It doesn't mean what your partner did right.
Try to figure things out with your partner, set new rules and try to be understanding and accommodating. If you have a doubt he/she would dissapoint again.....and you know you won't be able to handle the pain and dissapointment. Let go nd move on.
It's better to let go than continue to live in anger, thereby subjecting your partner eternal mystery.

Finally,
Do not blame yourself : the fact that your Partnerl cheated on you doesn't mean you're not beautiful or handsome enough.
Know that you have nothing to do with your partner innapropriate, self destructive choice to turn from you to some one else.

Thanks.


Cc: lalasticlala



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TrapLord
Chisco82

RexKex:
This preaching won't stop anybody from cheating.

It begins with you, the OP.

Laveda:
Well...this thread isn't for me
I'm no cheater....

Don't know, but I find it very hard to go back to a guy who cheated on me..no matter how I cherished you

Mzlaurel hun
Lanicky...beautiful thread

joseph1832:
Since you know this thread isn't for you, why on earth did you comment

I felt like..

Laveda:
I felt like..

lanicky:
OK, I'm here again with my wahala. Make una no vex o. Lol.

If you've ever been cheated on, you know the way pain and anguish that accompanies it. The feelings of rejection and helplessness are almost unbearable, but rest assured there is help to the situation.

To cheaters:

1)Think of your children: Do you think they will forgive you if they find out about what you've been doing?
70% of children find it difficult to forgive their cheating parent.
Think ahead to what court might think of you as q parent. You may think your partner won't fight you on custody, but people change when they get into divorce court.

(2)Be honest with yourself: Do you think you have nothing to hide while trying move forward. Sometimes the past do hunt the future.
If you can't stop on your own, get professional help.
If you know you're not willing to stop the shameful act and you don't care about your partner, you'll let him/her go.

Laveda:
Well...this thread isn't for me
I'm no cheater....

Don't know, but I find it very hard to go back to a guy who cheated on me..no matter how I cherished you

Mzlaurel hun
Lanicky...beautiful thread

Laveda:
I felt like..

joseph1832:
Now why am I not surprise!. Seems you're in the mood of feeling like doing things... So what else do you feel like doing again aside commenting on post that doesn't concern you?

Uhmmm Eating

Laveda:
Uhmmm Eating

joseph1832:
Eating what? Hope its not a dick?

Food

Laveda:
Food

Diddyydiva:
who is this d.ecker wannabe


I guess you need to study your role model right cos he doesn't argue blindly or spill trash




that guy quoting everyone knows himself

Dudeweedlmao:

Are you really gonna e-fight in a thread meant for cheaters?

GodpunishBuhari:



Gboromi daleru

joseph1832:


How do you know 70% of children will not forgive their parent if they know they cheated? Kindly provide proof and evidence to ascertain your claim, cos I believe you must have done a research for you to arrive at this conclusion.

You should know majority of Nigerians aren't honest with themselves, in fact, they see themselves as primus interparas, thus, this gives them the belief that they can do whatever they want and go scud free.



Yet another opinionated post devoid of facts and proof of evidence. Honestly, you guys who come up with all this bullsh1t post should just learn to state it clearly that your post is just base on your personal opinion. Stop coming here and saying this and that and attributing and believing your opinion are facts!.

Thank you very much, thank you very much!!!.

Good riddance!.

TrapLORD:

Cheaters over to you!


Lanicky you quoted me twice.

ronald4ever:
Lanicky, number one rule for a cheater is to dump their ass. Every other is secondary and not worth deliberating on.