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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Abbey2sam(m): 10:34pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy: what are you saying......was it sex after marriage or you tested it and still went ahead ? If it's the latter, why are you complaining? If it's the former why are you still complaining. ..you chose not to test drive |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 10:45pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Ur husband has pile , jedijedi he need a medical advice and good herbal mixture inbox me for more details |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by chemicstein: 10:47pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
So this actually exist....while my bae always pleads for me to cum after after she must had cummed like 4 times......sometimes I dnt even cum atall when we use condom...she thinnks I dnt really love her pumacy: |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by chidinwachukwu(m): 11:44pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
sexyseun:Nope am just helpin a sister in need,with my own experience. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by shaizegotswag: 11:46pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
notoriousbabe:. Chisos!! |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 11:48pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Dongoyaro Monkey Tail Alomo oroki opa eeyin Jedi Etc |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nasty22(m): 11:50pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
sexyseun:wish u were ma gurl...we cud mk a perfect match |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by MymothersKeeper(f): 12:02am On Feb 02, 2015 |
o i better appewciate my hubby then cos when we do it, for a week i get butterfly in my stomach. I give that to him, he gives me joy when im surfing that good good. I thank God we are both very young I have many more years to chop with no repentance 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 12:03am On Feb 02, 2015 |
The same tramadol that I took and started hallucinating is the same drug people use at random for recrational purposes People should think of their livers and kidneys Every drug is a potential poison. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by olipee(m): 12:08am On Feb 02, 2015 |
alberto2k:Oboy u dey vex o............ 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 12:17am On Feb 02, 2015 |
temitemi1: Its not all abt sugar. I take a lot of sugar and I still last for an hour. U know why? Cos I know d sex positions dat make me last longer 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by alphaomega(m): 12:43am On Feb 02, 2015 |
sexyseun: na gurls lyk u go dey mk mouth. i sabi una type... seun oh...enu o shey oh.. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 12:56am On Feb 02, 2015 |
pumacy: try d original kegel exercise......mind u...d pelvic region is nt always relaxed wyl on d missionary style.....u should try oda stuffs like doggGGGy...touch ur toe...anaconda...back to front......tinx like dat like dat....or should i continue.......or lemme just say SEX POSITION MATTERS. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Originalsly: 12:59am On Feb 02, 2015 |
pumacy:I missed this....and this is the essence of your concern. I now say the problem lies with you and this your expectation cannot... yes ....cannot be met. You know that porn stars be popping pills to maintain.....but it seems like you don't know a man can't go naturally for hours.....plus you are expecting him to be on standby for whenever you feel like it. Men are wired differently from women....some women can go on naturally for hours....not men. Maybe you had men who maintained for hours.....pumped up with viagra or whatever but lied to you and said it's their nature......and this caused you to expect the same from your husband. If you can't face reality....then sooner rather than later your marriage would be on the rocks. Just don't get pregnant before you seriously work this out. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 1:02am On Feb 02, 2015 |
sexyseun:pausing for a while??........letim take OSHOMO PLUS OGIDIGA 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by soulglo: 1:32am On Feb 02, 2015 |
pumacy: Your husband needs to spend more time with pre-intimacy. Most women need about 20 minutes to even achieve orgasm with penetration. He can give you orgasms without perpetration then get his three minutes of fun after |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Texykool: 1:49am On Feb 02, 2015 |
temitemi1: First time I am not seeing 'GEJ till 2019' from you. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by awizl(m): 2:00am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Send me an email here jamesoylk@gmail.com. I'll tell you about a pill you can buy over the counter that will make him last and even go into overtime. i'll also send you a link to a medical journal that published a research on using the said pill to treat premature ejaculation. I and my friends that use this pill have never had an orgasm while it is still in our system( it lasts for 3 days). I literallly go onnnnnn till i cant anymo. I have to have sex without it to be able to have an orgasm. Only side effect is initial tiredness. So ideally, he'll use it b4 bed and sleep it off, ready for 3 days of action. No jokes here. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nyceguy92: 2:27am On Feb 02, 2015 |
[quote author=pumacy post=30327295] This lady is not the only one with this problem. Many marriages suffer from sexual non-satisfaction mostly due to the male factor. Many who commented here mere ly made remarks that do not pass for solutions - the lady wants solutions. By not lasting beyond 3 minutes could mean early physical exhaustion or ejaculating too early. I tend to think it is early ejaculation. If your husband is not on any medication that reduces libido or physical strength and eats regular food like any other person, he should be fine. Here are my recipes: 1. It is all in the mind - do not be carried away by the pleasure, control it. Your man should learn to take his mind off the pleasure when it starts to build up towards orgasm. How, you may ask? Do simple arithmetic, think of a problem you need to solve and try solving it. This will reduce the drive in the direction of ejaculation. Take your mind back to the `business` when the sensation requires boosting. 2. Materials, materials, materials..... Incidentally, parents do not teach how to sleep with a woman or man to their kids. They pick up the art along the line. Resource materials abound in magazines, novels, videos, etc. Explore them. 3. pre-intimacy and the female body.... Many women attain the height of pleasure through pre-intimacy. Although you may discuss or suggest to your husband how to satisfy you, much of the discoveries are for the man to make by himself. 4. Timing.... Lovemaking requires energy and physical exertion. One will not get the best from a tired individual. The setting also counts. The atmosphere needs to be relaxed and enough time available. The more festive, the better. Here are some of the things that turn women on: *Playing with their clitoris - easy guys, don't be rough - with the fingers or tongue. *Massaging their back and neck down toward the - you know what I mean? *Stroking the thighs - if you grab and pinch, it will be painful. *The ear is very sensitive. You can use your tongue on it. *Don't forget the toes. Tickle them with your mouth/tongue. *Notice that I did not mention the nipples in the beginning. Nipple stimulation alone hardly elicits responses in the beginning. Many women are afraid to bring up issues like this for discussion with their men because they are afraid it may backfire. Your husband may be happy to listen to your concerns and be willing to learn/improve. Guys, this is my humble submission. In this matter, one cannot know it all. What works for you? |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by careerfirst45: 2:54am On Feb 02, 2015 |
well, if u are based in lagos, nd u re serious about doing something about your husband case. Email me at Careerfirst45@gmail.com. Your husband is having some erectile dysfunction. So he need help? Some advice on lifestyle, food and supplement will do d trick. Drug and Herb will distory his erection be careful..... |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 3:11am On Feb 02, 2015 |
pumacy: Haa hours ke, you want to kill the man ni Be careful what you wish for, when the kids start coming you won't have time for hours of sex, and your husband will start complaining that you have changed , too much of a good thing is not good. I suggest he take ginseng capsules and if worst comes to worst, take him for a check up, if his heart is very healthy, start sprinkling viagra into his food whenever you need a good seeing to . (Disclaimer :- make sure it's d original viagra and not fake oooo) |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by nsidear: 4:12am On Feb 02, 2015 |
My dear I understand ur trouble. What u have to do is this, get him a skin to skin condom, that way u both don't feel he's even using that. But before he uses that, also get him a desensitizing spray, let him spray on his penis 10 minute before sex, just on the tip of his penis, then slide in the condom, the rest is history. Don't let him spray the desensitized without using condom, else u will be desensitized and 1. U will have a long sex but no feelings and enjoyment cos u are desensitized. But after using the spray with condom and long lasting sex, he can take it off with soap and water, wash his penis and continue sex without condom so he can reach his ejaculation. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by nsidear: 4:14am On Feb 02, 2015 |
nsidear: Let us know when u try. If u need additional info, post and will respond. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by 100Cents: 5:56am On Feb 02, 2015 |
carbon1224: Groundnut, banana, red meat suya, lacasara and alomo can help him before the action. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by pharmson22: 7:29am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Discuss with your husband, talk to him, so that the two of u come up with a solution instead of coming to social media saying ur personal problem. Not good enough |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by filiks(m): 7:56am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Whenever he's pumping fast like he's about to get there, look him in the eyes and tell him 'Don't even think about it!' *in my wife's voice* And watch stay on you all night. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by desol4real(f): 8:19am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Takn enough liquid can do much n eatn vegetalbe like ewedu |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by fuckerholic(m): 8:22am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Rikidony: And I hope your bobby is still standing (strong and sound) while walking around naked else you kill his morale entirely |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by korexdodo(m): 8:24am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ask him to use sasun oil, its a desensitizer, just follow the mode of operation on the leaflet, he will beg to cum. It is sold in most chemists |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by talk2cj08(m): 9:12am On Feb 02, 2015 |
pumacy:@op i quite understand how u feel, its ur right to enjoy sexual intimacy in ur marriage. Let me teach u what works for me, 1 alcohol intake 2 bottles of stout it does magic, 2 engage him in pre-intimacy before d Maine penetration he should totally remove his mind from sex and think about another thing, 3 advice him to use skin to skin condom |
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