Nonso23:


Fortunately i am in need of a third opinion and i have requested yours. So do you have an answer or not??

raumdeuter:


Some of these things we pay for include lawn mowing which is done every 2 weeks, Handyman work which is a daily thing, carrying the heavy load when we go shopping(Use Mexicans).

We decided no one would stay at home and both would work. She put a lot into getting where she is and I wont be fair to tell her to stop working. WHy study for MCAT, PCAT, LSAT GMAT and all those exams and later sit at home.

I wont want any boy to do that for my daughter

carefreewannabe:


I have a better solution. If, like they say, life is so easy for women and marriage a lucrative job, then they only need to find a working woman who earns much money, marry her, impregnate her and look after the children, then divorce her and ....... voilà ..... they are rich.

Easy, isn't it?

Nonso23:


I'm not married and frankly i will protect myself properly before i enter such an institution.
Trust me if i ever get divorced then you can be sure that ex wifey's property will be the cake to be shared, custody of the kids will be mine and a restraining order will be put in place.
Smart people get away with a lot these days.

Babymama1:


What difference will it make to you and your gossip groups what my response is?
Does it matter?
Grandmother
That's a new one
Hahahaha
I will leave you to titillate yourself with what the answer could be

Babymama1:


Ad the smart men are doing it
Many of the underachieving nigerian men actually demand payment at divorce
These ones crying make it look like it is always the other way around
Al theses taxi drivers around marrying nurses,do you think the smart ones are leaving completely empty handed?
There are women who lose custody of their kids at divorce and pay child support too

Ewuro4:

What's wrong being at grandma at 50+ ?? After all I'm mocked by same you about my late marriage and young kids
You don't have to reply me you know we already have an idea how old you are. just
surprised it's true after all . Coz your posts don't depict your age . shymex o she gan oh.
I don't mean to be rude ma.

Nonso23:


Very shallow reasons.
All those simple things at the expense of my sweat??

Babymama1:


And the smart men are doing it
Many of the [b][size=16pt]underachieving [/size][/b]nigerian men actually demand payment at divorce
These ones crying make it look like it is always the other way around
All theses taxi drivers and efulefu around marrying nurses,do you think the smart ones are leaving completely empty handed?
They don't
They also share in the assets and that is completely fair
Marriage is a marriage of assets and liabilities
There are women who lose custody of their kids at divorce and pay child support too

Babymama1:


Is pre marriage wealth the subject of discussion here
When did that come in?

How many men in all sincerity had shishi to their names before marriage?
Abeg

Fhemmmy:



GBAMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!My mission accomplished . . . You have said it ALL in your statement, some men after all that MADE the woman to sit at home, so is it fair to now fire same woman and no compensation? I never said if the woman is LAZY, but if she is trying to be a good wife and obey your command of "You cant work" ?

Nonso23:


Unlike you i am not wired to sit down and swallow the norm. There are always workarounds and i am fully aware of the ways to get to them. That's all there is to say.

OK, Sir . . .I guess you would kill her too

pickabeau1:


A lot do especially your brothers who marry ladies much younger than them

Is amnesia setting in...

Babymama1:


This is now about my brothers
Hmm
Pickabeau1 na kwa echecki

pickabeau1:


Not your filial brothers

I mean your tribesmen
Igbo

What do you mean by kwa echeki

Nonso23:


Is this an attempt to get me to say something for you witches to hunt me with later on

Nonso23:


Who said killing people is the worst sort of punishment

Fhemmmy:


So you agree it is fair for you to punish your own wife and make sure it is worse than killing her? keep tallking, you are on a public forum.

Ewuro4:


I dey jare.. How body

Fine oo my Mrs bitterleaf. Today was really stressful but fine as usual.

Babymama1:


I know nothing about your late marriage nne
I know nothing about your kids
The only thing I learned about you from your posts is that you had a bad upbringing and a runaway father
I didn't make it up
You said it yourself
Now scram before I shoot to kill

Nonso23:


I agree that it is fair for both parties to protect themselves and legally grab all there is to grab in the event of a divorce. May the better party win.
Any other insinuations are entirely your words and opinions.

Fhemmmy:


Chairman, would it be fair if your daughter is treated the way you are planning to treat your wife?

Babymama1:


Some of these people are actually teens
Forgive them

Thought as much . . .

Nonso23:


I do not plan to raise a theif