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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 10:19pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:Going by your assertion that a wife who births and takes care of her children is not jobless, that means she's employed by her husband. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 10:36pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
donpeey22: No, she works for her family, like the father. Her husband is not her boss, neither is she her husband's boss. They are a couple, partners, lovers and parents. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 10:53pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:That means she doesn't deserve any cosmpensation during divorce especially if didn't give up a job for the sake of birthing and raising children? So, those ladies that want to be paid for having sex, birthing children and losing their beauty should better stfu. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 11:03pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
donpeey22: It isn't so simple. Who determines the value of the work done at home? It's a 24/7 job. Leave the beauty part out of it. Nobody should be paid for aging. It's a natural process, should not even be considered a problem. And the s*Ex talk should be left out too, is she a prostitute, does she not enjoy s*ex? 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by yokiti: 11:06pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
sukkot:I so much love this response that I had to quote it. I am a living witness of this happening. Despite the fact that the lady in question is married with kids, at times, my heart do long for her but I always tell myself that that its selfishness and am not wishing her well in her marriage because, if wishes were to be granted, what will be the fate of her hubby as well as my own lady? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:23am On Feb 07, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:Yeah, house chores might be much of a job but remember it is most times shared between the couple. In some cases the man employs a maid to help in domestic chores. So, if the woman is compensated for her part, shouldn't the man be equally compensated? I like the rest of your reply! |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 9:07am On Feb 07, 2015 |
donpeey22: Look after a child involves more than house chores. @bold Where are you from? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Demainman1: 10:50am On Feb 07, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Are you suggesting that your husband does not help out in the house? Any man that does not help out with chores in his house deserve to be divorced. I won't support that. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 10:52am On Feb 07, 2015 |
Demainman1: I am not married. I like your attitude but why get married to someone who does not help with house chores in the first place? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by babygirlfl: 11:39am On Feb 07, 2015 |
Demainman1: You have a nice attitude. sadly a lot men don't believe in doing chores at home. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 11:41am On Feb 07, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Really nice, isn't it? One of those things that make a bachelor desirable. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:I am from Nigeria and where I come domestic chores are shared between the couple. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:47pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
Why marry him/her then kill him/her, this is insane......
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:58pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
donpeey22: Love it. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:29pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by oshaosha2014(m): 5:52am On Feb 08, 2015 |
Demainman1: See talk. House chores is never a 'do or die' affair for any man so stop talking as if you don't already know this. The women will praise you but they too know what's reality out there. U better be real... Why am I even bothering myself telling you to be real; this is a faceless medium, omo, u can be anything you want to be jare. 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Demainman1: 1:48pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
oshaosha2014: Bros, I don't need any woman to praise me. I support what i support and i condemn what i condemn. You can go back and read my few posts on this thread. My opinion is that abroad is too hard for a man not help out in his house. Leaving every household chores to your wife is courting unhappiness in your marriage which may lead to divorce. I do help out in my house. No woman can use cooking and cleaning make 'shakara' for me cos i can even do it better than most sef. Whatever i do in my house is for the betterment of my family. What i will not tolerate is a woman using my kindness for weakness. My family (including wife) is my life investment and woe betide that person who wants to put asunder (including the wife sef!) I can never tell how i will react if it happens so i understand where those that murdered their wives are coming from even though I don't support murder. Again to our nigerian girls: Please don't ride on any man's back to come abroad. that idea it is full of all sorts of risks especially if you attempt to bail out after he would have invested greatly on you. To my Nigerian brothers: stop going to nigeria to get married. You might live to regret it. 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by donodion(m): 6:10pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Demainman1:A man like me.pray they listen.its even good our sistas are also hooking up with foreigners too. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by username792: 9:10pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
mutter: All of this to say what exactly?? Do I need to bring up statistics about RAPE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, SEXUAL ABUSE etc women go through at the hands of men,yet despite this mass degradation and dehumanisation women do not resort to KILLING those men on the same scale? These men are clearly monsters who prey on MUCH YOUNGER women because they see them as more maleable, vulnerable and naive than their age mates. And when these women refuse to be their pets, their egos cant take it! This is what is so fvckep up with Africans, plenty of you making e for ABUSE OF POWER and SAVAGERY. DISRESPECT OF ANY KIND IS NEVER AN EXCUSE TO TAKE A LIFE Also who give the right to step between a wife and husband? I would have smacked the shhit out of your busy body azz, had you had the audacity to talk to me like that. 7 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by kandiikane(m): 12:42am On Feb 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: lol.... |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by kandiikane(m): 1:58am On Feb 16, 2015 |
Funny thing is, SeneGambian women, especially the wolof are the most loving and loyal wives I have ever known. Mehn, they will become strippers for you in the bedroom just to make you happy and keep you sane. They will do whatever it takes just to make their husbands happy, even let him marry oyibo and pretend to be his sister just so he can have his life long dream of going to babylon. The fact that there is a senegalese woman in there just shows the men are just naturally phucked up in the head. This has nothing to do with the woman not cleaning or cooking or even stressing the guy which would have been even more phucked up because that is just a sane person killing for pleasure. You would be surprised at how many murderers from nigeria roam the streets abroad. 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fawklicant: 12:37pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
bukatyne: Milady, if you read my comment again, you'd understand that I wasn't in any way bashing anybody. Just read it again without bias. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 2:10pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Fawklicant: Never said you were bashed anyone... Just breaking down the effect of your words... 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Sebastine1994(m): 7:21am On Dec 17, 2016 |
Redoil: I have always said this like a billion times. First impression matters. Some people are not emotionally mature. People fall in and out of love daily. Read laws of power to hasten your maturity |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by machiavelli95: 8:32am On Mar 11, 2020 |
48 pages..wow |
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