pickabeau1:


Woman

Don't interpret my words for me..picking my words out of context

A woman who stays at home to take care of the home front is making sacrifices for her family since she made the decision jointly with her partner

A woman who sees marriage as an office and is waiting for a payday in the event of a divorce is lazy

Try and see the big picture

Do you understand

pickabeau1:


Woman

Don't interpret my words for me..picking my words out of context

A woman who stays at home to take care of the home front is making sacrifices for her family since she made the decision jointly with her partner

A woman who sees marriage as an office and is waiting for a payday in the event of a divorce is lazy

Try and see the big picture

Do you understand

Justfollowit:


Inasmuch I am also totally against using divorce as a means of get rich quick, you have failed to consider how difficult it would be for divorcees who were full-time wives to get back into the job market. If the law could step in, we will have less to worry about.

Justfollowit:


Inasmuch I am also totally against using divorce as a means of get rich quick, you have failed to consider how difficult it would be for divorcees who were full-time wives to get back into the job market. If the law could step in, we will have less to worry about.

Nonso23:


Witches mean only one thing,-- witches-- i'm not interested in the unnecessary semantics.

Why should I reveal what i plan to do online when there are a good number of witches waiting to haunt themselves.
I will do what i want and account to nobody especially online. When I need y'all input i will definitely let you all know.

I don't have fans nor do i post for likes.

Fhemmmy:


OK, Sir . . . Glad you no vex and for the ladies around me, nice one too . . . Again, if you have a direct question to ask me go ahead, else, it was nice reading your mind too.

Dragonking:


I will free you this time as I have no intentions of ridiculing you any further...However just know that when you try to be biased I will be right in front of you to put you back in track...

Nice doing business with you...ciao.

bukatyne:


I did not pick your words out of context, only helped you intepret them ( I should be making money seriously out of This)

You said a woman who has a brain & two legs should not sit @ home amongst others...

I do not support a woman not working but If a husband demands his wife stops work or he sends her parking, will I blame her If she stays

While condemning the marriage officers(they are quite a number in diverse manners), acknowledge there are some unfortunate ones

It makes the posts fresh to the eyes

Fhemmmy:


I would be glad if we could do it today . . . Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee, or we could have a date for tomorrow.

pickabeau1:


Once again it us not your job to interprete my posts

Make your points

You Also dont support women doing nothing yet go about interpreting posts...

I don't even know wat point u r making

Dragonking:


There is no need anymore...you refused to answer simple and direct questions that I asked you...No more business for you...have a gud night rest.

bukatyne:


I have made it mine (woman must wack)

I do not support women doing nothing HOWEVER I acknowledge some were strongarmed to stay at home and they deserve to spousal support

No blanket statements on How women are lazy

Nonso23:


I'm not interested in living my life online nor in witches haunting me thread after thread.
My privacy is extremely important online and offline.

You too have people you post alike.

carefreewannabe:


And this is what happens in the West for MAJORITY of couples. They share bills and they acquire properties together. You can't look at these laws from a purely Nigerian perspective.

Moana:
fact remains the same wars are the ones that destroyed lives and probably created more divisions in the world more than ever before.

absolute rubbish there are still many divisions amongst European countries. There is still a lot of "tribalism" that goes on amongst the English, the Germans, the French, the Russians! All these caused by war and the urge to be the most powerful.

its understandable because you dont possess any qualities any matured woman would want in a keeper. Its best you stick to what you can handle anyway.

like i said you cannot give your opnion on what you have never had, you can only give expert opinion on the aimless bunch your surrender yourself with.

andromida:


But why did the men marry such women? and if the women are so evil why not divorce them?

Seeing as a woman can break a man he should do his due diligence to marry a woman who is good for him and become the kind of man who can command respect from his wife so that the children can learn how to respect themselves and others.

cococandy:
which one is Nigerian perspective? Nigerian wives are hardworking and industrious Biko . Many break their backs to support their families from trading to professional jobs and what have you.

Thing is it is easy for a man to throw his wife out and enjoy all she contributed to with his new sissie who doesn't know the effort behind the accumulation of such assets. The wife will either have to take it or leave or if she has superior might,fight for her rights which in most cases she won't even get her accurate due.

The ranting by the males is because they are not used to a fair system which gives the wife her due share of the family belongings. They'd rather have it the way they are used.

If I came from Mars ,I'd think women don't work and support their families from the hyped 'everything the man worked for' being bandied around.

soulglo:


At least one of those women was not NIgerian. There was a Senegalese woman who was even pregnant. The man wrapped his hands around his pregnant wife's neck and squeezed it until she was dead. Imagine. Maybe some of his "Nigeria" rubbed of on her and she started to act like a Nigerian woman and as such deserved to be killed.

cococandy:
which one is Nigerian perspective? Nigerian wives are hardworking and industrious Biko . Many break their backs to support their families from trading to professional jobs and what have you.

Thing is it is easy for a man to throw his wife out and enjoy all she contributed to with his new sissie who doesn't know the effort behind the accumulation of such assets. The wife will either have to take it or leave or if she has superior might,fight for her rights which in most cases she won't even get her accurate due.

The ranting by the males is because they are not used to a fair system which gives the wife her due share of the family belongings. They'd rather have it the way they are used.

If I came from Mars ,I'd think women don't work and support their families from the hyped 'everything the man worked for' being bandied around.

carefreewannabe:


You are right but let us not deceive ourselves, a great number of women demands money from men even when dating, then a bride price is paid and then many men are expected to pay the bills all by themselves..This is also part of the reality. There are those hard working women who contribute and even though they do, are guests in their own houses and there are those who consider it the man's responsibility to pay for all bills, before and after marriage.

pickabeau1:



Thanks for ur honesty
I don't understand how gender bias can make people see white and call it black.

carefreewannabe:


You are welcome.

But I must say that you are often gender biased too.

pickabeau1:



You could say that..it may or maynot be true....
no need to argue
Its an opinion which you are entitled to

pickabeau1:


So is the solution a throwback to patriarchal days when men were overlords

ArewaSweetheart:



Unfortunately its not for you or i to decide what the solution should be.
Thus, your wish/suggestion will not change the status quo already in place, neither can it bring back a comeback of the ancient patriachal lordship reign.

carefreewannabe:

Have a lovely day!

pickabeau1:

Women using marriage as payday has roots in the notion that they were helpless or nothing outside the marriage institution
Why are vu still marking time waiting for the loot of marriage

carefreewannabe:


You are right but let us not deceive ourselves, a great number of women demands money from men even when dating, then a bride price is paid and then many men are expected to pay the bills all by themselves. This is also part of the reality. There are those hard working women who contribute and even though they do, are guests in their own houses and there are those who consider it the man's responsibility to pay for all bills, before and after marriage.

oloyede252:
nairaland...land of men vs women.all hail d great association of nigeria women online worriors.the great association of defender of men integrity. not to forget d association of nairaland witches and woman wrappers.nd not witout mentioning the great association of comment readers.thks for al the contribution u av made.