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7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Trending(m): 11:05pm On Feb 03, 2015
These days, it’s hard to meet a man with qualities
of a true gentleman. But every woman still hopes
to find a true gentleman, chivalry is surely not
dead. Times are changing, and the way in which
we perceive perfection is changing as well. Sure,
you don’t have to dwell on perfection, since there
is no perfect man. But still, here are seven rarest
qualities of a true gentleman that women would
love their men to have.
1. Manly manners
I’m sure lots of women will agree that manly
manners are lacking in modern men. When a true
gentleman meets your parents, you don’t worry
about what he will do or say. He is never
inappropriate, and he will do traditional things
such as pulling out the chair for you or holding
open doors. A true gentleman will treat her woman
like she deserves to be treated.
2. Patience
Patience is one of the rarest qualities of a true
gentleman. Sometimes men, without realizing it,
push women to be physical. Maybe it’s not a
terrible thing for you, but it can make a woman
uncomfortable, especially if she is not ready to
move forward in a relationship. If your man is a
true gentleman, he will understand your desire to
wait, and he will support whatever decision you
take.
3. Calmness
Everybody is allowed to become angry, however, a
true gentleman keeps calm and collected in any
situation. He always knows how to cope with his
temper and he doesn’t allow his frustration to alter
his personality. Moreover, he will never vent his
anger on you. While, he can’t be always calm and
collected, you will never notice his mood swings.
4. He never uses swear words
A true gentleman acts a bit differently than a
prince in Disney movies does. Sure, he is not
going to go around dancing and singing to declare
his love for you. Your relationship’s going to be
real and cursing can happen sometimes. But
there’s a huge difference between cursing in anger
or excitement and curses which are aimed at you.
A true gentleman will never use swear words,
which will be aimed at you. Moreover, he will
never use swear words, which will be aimed at any
woman. After all, he is a true gentleman!
5. He never makes you feel uncomfortable
A real gentleman will never tell inappropriate jokes
and he will never push you to discuss a subject
that you don’t want to talk about. He will never
make anything that would make you feel bad and
uncomfortable. When you are around a true
gentleman, you are absolutely at ease.
6. Little sweetness
‘Thank you’ and ‘please’ are small words with a
great impact. It is very important for a person to
show appreciation. Even the smallest comment can
make someone’s day. After all, don’t you like when
your hairstyle or favorite dress is complimented?
You want your man to smile at passersby and to
be polite to sellers and waiters. He will be a true
gentleman they wish they knew, and you are lucky
enough to be a woman he loves.
7. Strong morals
A true gentleman will never take advantage of a
woman. He will never steal and drink and drive. He
will never do anything that he thinks is wrong or
bad. He possesses strong morals, and he knows
which things are good. Unfortunately, most girls
consider such guys boring, but they are actually
fun and interesting.
I believe that true gentlemen do exist. You should
also believe that some day you will meet one of
them. Stop thinking that there are only bad guys.
What other qualities do you believe define a man
as a real gentleman? Please share your thoughts
with us.
Ladies Guess What?av g0t all dis qualities!!
Source http:///yaq
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Joshkid(m): 11:23pm On Feb 03, 2015
COoL
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Nobody: 11:31pm On Feb 03, 2015
hmnmm...

very soon one uselez guy go come form saint like say him holy pass elijah
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by nativdacta: 11:34pm On Feb 03, 2015
I sure say loneliness dey really worry u. Am stop always available
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by mirexxx(f): 11:35pm On Feb 03, 2015
very rare among our dudes 2day smiley
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Nobody: 11:40pm On Feb 03, 2015
nice thread.

heaven help guys of nowadays.
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Elvisonjack2(m): 11:40pm On Feb 03, 2015
taaaa. . . .em still dey do am joor!!!


I personally dey do am.
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Nobody: 11:41pm On Feb 03, 2015
mirexxx:
very rare among our dudes 2day smiley
do u have shares on nairaland?

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Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by mirexxx(f): 11:42pm On Feb 03, 2015
kallmemrB:
do u have shares on nairaland?
nope
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Nobody: 11:44pm On Feb 03, 2015
mirexxx:
nope
how come u are always on almost every thread

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Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Welrez(m): 11:57pm On Feb 03, 2015
The list reminds me of my late father who was certainly an epitome of these qualities. I'm following in his footsteps.
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Mynd44: 6:18am On Feb 04, 2015
In Fela's voice
"Me I no be gentleman at all"
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Trending(m): 6:46am On Feb 04, 2015
Mynd44:
In Fela's voice
"Me I no be gentleman at all"
Lol..obviously.
.
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Trending(m): 6:55am On Feb 04, 2015
mirexxx:
very rare among our dudes 2day smiley
grin
mirexxx:
very rare among our dudes 2day smiley
me gat all dis qualities and even more o.
Lol..I.no.know y d gals always end up breaking d good guys heart

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Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by cassysmallz(m): 7:00am On Feb 04, 2015
mirexxx:
very rare among our dudes 2day smiley

I dont believe you, you shouldnt generalize smiley
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by olasmith10(m): 8:45am On Feb 04, 2015
i can beat my chest to fracture dat I exhibit all dis buh d irony of life is she doesn't really enjoy d gentlemanism( not sure if did word is correct).. D other day I opened d door for her to hop into d car buh to my utmost surprise she said she will be fyn opening it herself.. so many I can't begin to mention.. The only thing dat pops into my mind is : ' what does a woman really wants'
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by jworos(m): 9:02am On Feb 04, 2015
i wonder how many gentle men get Gf...
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by nawtikid(m): 10:24am On Feb 04, 2015
Being a gentleman z so boring jare


Bad boys rule grin
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Trending(m): 10:36am On Feb 04, 2015
olasmith10:
i can beat my chest to fracture dat I exhibit all dis buh d irony of life is she doesn't really enjoy d gentlemanism( not sure if did word is correct).. D other day I opened d door for her to hop into d car buh to my utmost surprise she said she will be fyn opening it herself.. so many I can't begin to mention.. The only thing dat pops into my mind is : ' what does a woman really wants'

don't mind em,women are naturally confused homo sapiens, dey don't know what they want,wen dey manage to get wat others are dieing to av,dey will treat it anyhow.. me Neva get time for woman matter now sef..
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Trending(m): 10:37am On Feb 04, 2015
nawtikid:
Being a gentleman z so boring jare


Bad boys rule grin
only senseless ladies who are wild will agree with your philosophy brada
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Trending(m): 10:39am On Feb 04, 2015
jworos:
i wonder how many gentle men get Gf...
I bet just 30% even among d 30%,d gfs usually break their heart

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Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by bond77(m): 10:47am On Feb 04, 2015
undecided
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by bond77(m): 10:47am On Feb 04, 2015
Still 70% of ladies still prefer the stubborn and the crazy types
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 04, 2015
Mynd44:
In Fela's voice
"Me I no be gentleman at all"
*replies in rick ross's voice; I NO BE GENTLEMAN AT ALL OOO
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by nawtikid(m): 10:57am On Feb 04, 2015
Trending:
only senseless ladies who are wild will agree with your philosophy brada
I've tried d gentleman concept, it didn't work out well...I'm no longa a gentleman, and I can categorically prove dat dis side of me has bin more of good dan bad
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Trending(m): 11:13am On Feb 04, 2015
nawtikid:
I've tried d gentleman concept, it didn't work out well...I'm no longa a gentleman, and I can categorically prove dat dis side of me has bin more of good dan bad
OK..continu,buy remember, diaris God o
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Oahray: 12:20pm On Feb 04, 2015
Pheeew! I'm no gentleman cheesy
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Osyxcel(m): 3:49pm On Feb 04, 2015
**In Fela's voice**

I no be gentleman at all o, I be African Man, Original! I no be gentleman at all o. tongue tongue
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Nobody: 4:03pm On Feb 04, 2015
There is no how you can possess all this, even if you do naija babe go still break your heart......I'm a perfect guy for myself sha
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by sirwaleh: 4:19pm On Feb 04, 2015
mirexxx:
very rare among our dudes 2day smiley
it might truly b rare bt dere are guys out dere who posess dose qualities.
Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Nobody: 4:20pm On Feb 04, 2015
Trending:
These days, it’s hard to meet a man with qualities
of a true gentleman. But every woman still hopes
to find a true gentleman, chivalry is surely not
dead. Times are changing, and the way in which
we perceive perfection is changing as well. Sure,
you don’t have to dwell on perfection, since there
is no perfect man. But still, here are seven rarest
qualities of a true gentleman that women would
love their men to have.
1. Manly manners
I’m sure lots of women will agree that manly
manners are lacking in modern men. When a true
gentleman meets your parents, you don’t worry
about what he will do or say. He is never
inappropriate, and he will do traditional things
such as pulling out the chair for you or holding
open doors. A true gentleman will treat her woman
like she deserves to be treated.
2. Patience
Patience is one of the rarest qualities of a true
gentleman. Sometimes men, without realizing it,
push women to be physical. Maybe it’s not a
terrible thing for you, but it can make a woman
uncomfortable, especially if she is not ready to
move forward in a relationship. If your man is a
true gentleman, he will understand your desire to
wait, and he will support whatever decision you
take.
3. Calmness
Everybody is allowed to become angry, however, a
true gentleman keeps calm and collected in any
situation. He always knows how to cope with his
temper and he doesn’t allow his frustration to alter
his personality. Moreover, he will never vent his
anger on you. While, he can’t be always calm and
collected, you will never notice his mood swings.
4. He never uses swear words
A true gentleman acts a bit differently than a
prince in Disney movies does. Sure, he is not
going to go around dancing and singing to declare
his love for you. Your relationship’s going to be
real and cursing can happen sometimes. But
there’s a huge difference between cursing in anger
or excitement and curses which are aimed at you.
A true gentleman will never use swear words,
which will be aimed at you. Moreover, he will
never use swear words, which will be aimed at any
woman. After all, he is a true gentleman!
5. He never makes you feel uncomfortable
A real gentleman will never tell inappropriate jokes
and he will never push you to discuss a subject
that you don’t want to talk about. He will never
make anything that would make you feel bad and
uncomfortable. When you are around a true
gentleman, you are absolutely at ease.
6. Little sweetness
‘Thank you’ and ‘please’ are small words with a
great impact. It is very important for a person to
show appreciation. Even the smallest comment can
make someone’s day. After all, don’t you like when
your hairstyle or favorite dress is complimented?
You want your man to smile at passersby and to
be polite to sellers and waiters. He will be a true
gentleman they wish they knew, and you are lucky
enough to be a woman he loves.
7. Strong morals
A true gentleman will never take advantage of a
woman. He will never steal and drink and drive. He
will never do anything that he thinks is wrong or
bad. He possesses strong morals, and he knows
which things are good. Unfortunately, most girls
consider such guys boring, but they are actually
fun and interesting.
I believe that true gentlemen do exist. You should
also believe that some day you will meet one of
them. Stop thinking that there are only bad guys.
What other qualities do you believe define a man
as a real gentleman? Please share your thoughts
with us.
Ladies Guess What?av g0t all dis qualities!!
Source http:///yaq
Any guy wey possess these qualities in naija of today is referred to as a mugu by naija girls grin

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Re: 7 Rarest Qualities Of A True Gentleman by Nobody: 4:24pm On Feb 04, 2015
sirwaleh:
it might truly b rare bt dere are guys out dere who posess dose qualities.

yeah but women won't be contented with it

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