A gentleman, if I'm up to date, is simply a man who is gentle and not a man who is "simple" or naive. Simply put, a maga; Nah.

It's amazing and sounds unscrupulous and asinine how SOME today's 21st Century Ladies have tilted it towards their own advantage even from a guy who isn't theirs yet...

Hmm, if you don't do this or that towards satisfying her desire, then you're not a "Gentleman". How delusional!

The rhetorical question then is, "Are you a Gentleman" from our Ladies' standpoint?

The compound word "Gentleman" has been soiled and spoiled by most ladies, especially ours.

Now, from their view, as implanted into most of them, from an early age, perhaps; A gentleman is a guy who:

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1. Willingly Fall For Their "Friendzone" Trap

Have you ever been friend zoned before? It's a scalar quantity, guy. You're deluded because you think something might still happen when nothing is ever gonna happen. Why? She sees you as a Gentleman. A friend. A brother. Accepting this seat, makes you look like a Perfect Gentleman to her.


2. Lets Her Play A 'Free Rolec Concerning His Money

Haha! Her main and first definition for a Gentle man is the guy who let's her control his 'world bank'. Some will be forming what I don't understand here on NL but...I tell you, you are not a complete gentleman until you make her No. 10 of your wallet. Forget theories.


3. Stands For them to sit in a fixed situation

Whether in a bus or an eatery, stand for her to sit and in her mind, "this guy is such a gentleman". Don't think that's enough green card o. Visit No. 2 for more details.


4. Who doesn't tell them the truth

Why did Eve believe Satan, Father of lies? There is something about most ladies: they love to lied to. Tell them the truth: You're so immature, insensitive and inexperienced. Lie to them: He may be a jerk at times but he's kinda sweet and a perfect Gentleman. :p


5. Who loves the errand boy position.

This reminds me of Uni; so many errand boys. She needs to charge her phone, you put on your gen. Her assignment, it's you she falls on. And ladies like such guys! To her, he is such a Gentleman. A good guy too. Not like these rough guys, she said. It's good to just keep him as a good friend. As they said, "Keep him close under close scrutiny". You need one of such Errand Boys around.


6. Who gives and doesn't expect in return

Don't crucify me saying, "Must guys expect something in return after doing something nice?" No, I don't BUT we are not all the same. Most guys know the truly sincere girls and won't really expect. For the few rest, he sees her opening her legs for little gifts and maybe, as a 'good neighbour', he's been helping her with bigger, more expensive gifts. Hate it or like it, he maybe tempted to expect a 'return'.
Solution: If you're serious, Avoid scenarios that warrant such situations. What you don't have, you don't need. Hurry to ask a guy you're not friends with is asking him for "Two things".Taking things from a guy you barely trust or know and EXPECTING he'll be a Gentleman in return is an EXPENSIVE JOKE, plain childishness and irresponsibility on your part.



7. Swallows their suggestions hook, line and sinker.

I've met a handful of girls who get cranky when there is kinda a "heated" misunderstanding that needs logical explanation. Well, married couples argue, how much singles. She doesn't like you reasoning out her opinions FOR the reason that she's hot-tempered and lack enough reasons venturing into such deals. All you're there for is to help o. But, refusing to swallow blindly and choosing to be logical excludes your name from the list of Gentlemen. Hmm!



With all these, can you call yourself a Gentleman?
Ladies could open up who they really term a "Gentleman".

Cheers!

That number 5 want kill me wit laf

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Make dem better park well

Well in my university days I used to be a gentleman, buh nw, aint no murrafvckn lady gona tell me shitt and expect me to fall for it...


U feell me?

Cutehector:
Well in my university days I used to be a gentleman, buh nw, aint no murrafvckn lady gona tell me shitt and expect me to fall for it...


U feell me?

Hehehe, I feel you
Your eyes are now opened

A friend of mine was trying to get this girl, he bought her stuffs and even assisted her when she asked for cash. i was close to her cos i understand yoruba while my friend doesn't

a day came when she brought her friend to the lodge unexpectedly, unprepared i couldn't just go out to get a cold drink in that hot weather. she complained. but my friend didn't answer since she wasn't opening for him to do the do.

they left with disappointment written on their faces like "stingy boys looooolz"

later that evening we saw them in a restaurant so i decided to buy them drinks so i did for both of them and my friend too. while we were there they spoke yoruba making jest of my friend calling him stingy boy while they called me better person. i became the gentleman.

she forgot that my friend had done far better than me, but just that one time he refused he was hated and i became the gentleman.

I told my friend when we got to the lodge and he was sooo angry cos she said all that in public, he wanted to confront her but i pleaded him not to tell her in order to save my name and position(newest gentleman)

giirllss so quick to switch. biaaaatch



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Qualities of a certified "Maga"

Anything that won't fetch me the "punny" in return, I don't/won't do it.

Lol. Laughing Cause Its So True

Lol. Laughing Cause Its So True

profojah:
Well, I pray and hope to be a gentleman when I get to the university. ..

PS: I don get admission into Umaru Musa YarAdua University to study Social therapy and Human PsychoAnalysis. Pls wish me well. I can't wait to finish with a First Class Upper Credit.

Why should we wish you well? What do you have for us in return?

profojah:
Well, I pray and hope to be a gentleman when I get to the university. ..

PS: I don get admission into Umaru Musa YarAdua University to study Social therapy and Human PsychoAnalysis. Pls wish me well. I can't wait to finish with a First Class Upper Credit.

Your masters?

Qualities of a weak man

Qualities of mumu.

All true. Whenever a lady calls one a gentleman there's a need to be worried and have a reflection of their disposition in dealing with her. Like the OP rightly pointed out a gentleman is a stooge and one they can control and manipulate to do their bidding always.

The flip side is that they detest these 'gentlemen' and find them unappealing but rather are attracted to ignoble men.

I never want to be the 'gentle man'

ohhhh. I remind me of ME when handling ladies. cool, loving, caring bt when she tries to act smart, i cal her bluff without wastin time nor tinking twice. Bleep gentlemen, ladies love us d badt nd spoilt dudes bcus even dem dont want a home were husbands wud turn dem to prayer warriors nd give dem missionary style only.

operation give them rough as if its porn you both are acting