Every time I visit nairaland there is always a thread denigrating Nigerian girls/ladies. If it's not about how broke they are, it's about how much they love money or something else that's condescending and negative. Some people cannot talk about women from other countries without comparing them to Nigerian women and shedding our ladies in a bad light.
My question to these men/boys saying all these is this; don't you have mothers, sisters, aunts and female cousins? Are they not Nigerians? Why do you insult the womenfolk? It's not gentlemanly and shows Ill upbringing. please endeavour to stop such behaviour, it is becoming alarming on nairaland.
Let's learn to critise positively. There's a saying that goes "if you don't have anything good to say don't say anything"
I would love for my little girls to grow up and choose to marry Nigerian men! But I'm also hoping they're not ill mannered men who have no respect for ladies, because my darlings are as delicate as roses.

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To Nigerian ladies out there, most of the reason men have given is that we're greedy and demanding. I think not, however, maintain your dignity by not asking a man who's not responsible for you for anything. You're only going to get yourself insulted. Work hard, get what you want for yourself or ask your family members. you will be better off for it knowing you don't owe any man anything.

i am guilty

funny enough i see mum sis cousins and crushes in a different light

it has the do with her ( NIGERIA)
She dey frustrate pesin.. i guess if she becomes more tolerant with her inhabitants.. the likes of us would be d romantics we initially were.

listening to L.O.V.E by Nat king Cole (1965).. so so relaxing.. and i love u atm

when i start hustling in d heat of d afternoon.. i can yab for Africa

kilokeys:
i am guilty

funny enough i see mum sis cousins and crushes in a different light

lol, you see them as separated from women folk? please, do the needful. For the sake of our daughters

AdaNri1:
lol, you see them as separated from women folk? please, do the needful. For the sake of our daughters

isnt it funny how we want to date d hottest girls and yab dem if dey seem high maintenance.. and d same time scold our sisters if they date or fraternize with guys with zero account balances.

if the future was relatively secured and we see hard work pays, graduates get good jobs.. what d heck.

we would get along well.
the flowers, dates and romance would come alive


i met a chic recently.. and i kinda liked her until she asked me for a galaxy S4 when me, d wooer dey use almighty tecno H7..
what do u expect.? . ill fall out of love as quickly as i fell in..
then bitc.h abt how girls are too materialistic..

but wouldnt it be different if i could afford a trip to Seychelles and d babe just asked for a phone..?

with d speed of light.. ill do it and even more..

Hehe... Criticism is allowed but generalizing is suicidal . I have met girls with bad manners, that doesn't mean the next lady is gonna have the same behaviours or the ones am yet to meet even in my dreams are gonna be worst, so why judge others based on the person u've come across.

Seriously, I have my reasons why I don't judge people but my dear op, some ladies needs to restore dignity to womenfolk. Its alarming to see different guys from different locations who had met different girls from different areas complaining about almost the same thing.

Well, I hope the good ones will maintain their good lifestyle and others strive to change for good, and at the same time, the guys stop judging coz most times they (guys) are the architect of their bad experiences from women.
My mother, cousins, siblings, Aunty, girlfriend to be and wife to be wife are females, so I LOVE THEM GIRLS. Haters should go for castration

Not the fault of the guys, you need to come close to 10 Nigerian girls then you'll find out how wayward 9 out of them are. No one loves girls that fake and pretend, naija girls are the definition of pretense

You dey mind them?
The funny thing is that they will rant and rant online while some chic is pressing their mumu button offline

No be today

Shebi I said it. That if they take all the gurls,ladiez and women from Nigeria,or other countries, the men,guys and boys will not survive one day.



I think they are just fascinated at these amazing heavenly beings (females)

Op i admire ur courage for writing dis,bt i most say,ur level of ignorance is very well profound.d question u should hv ask urself is,how come different guys from different background and also from different location re complaining of, almost thesame,if not thesame thing?some of us, knows that,we still hv some good ones bt they re few.each time u see a generalization lyk all girls re so and so jst take it as FALLACY OF HASTY GENERALIZATION.truth is some of us, our aunt,sister nd mother display such character/attitude but pride won't let us say it.i must say ur manner is also ill/weak nd bad,tho am judging from d context of ur write up,dat means i may b wrong or right bt i will leave wit ur conscience to judge.

I think the level of bashing is equivalent to the amount of fake, greedy, n morally degraded characters these girls exhibit. in places like the US where people are more liberal these things we say don't mean much to the girls n the guys have learnt not to even bother saying things like we c on NL. there is less pretence over there. if you know the xter of an average naija girl then the way she tries to form saint about it u become irritated. the fault is from the girls who make it look.like if guys know they fuxk regularly then it's a big deal. stop the hypocrisy n we'll follow suite.

Yeeeparipa naija girls don vex o

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chidyhels:
You dey mind them?
The funny thing is that they will rant and rant online while some chic is pressing their mumu button offline

No be today

I guess you post this from experience. Abi? How many guys mumu button you dey press?

AdaNri1:
Every time I visit nairaland there is always a thread denigrating Nigerian girls/ladies. If it's not about how broke they are, it's about how much they love money or something else that's condescending and negative. Some people cannot talk about women from other countries without comparing them to Nigerian women and shedding our ladies in a bad light.
My question to these men/boys saying all these is this; don't you have mothers, sisters, aunts and female cousins? Are they not Nigerians? Why do you insult the womenfolk? It's not gentlemanly and shows Ill upbringing. please endeavour to stop such behaviour, it is becoming alarming on nairaland.
Let's learn to critise positively. There's a saying that goes "if you don't have anything good to say don't say anything"
I would love for my little girls to grow up and choose to marry Nigerian men! But I'm also hoping they're not ill mannered men who have no respect for ladies, because my darlings are as delicate as roses

Op I don't get this?

What is debasing abt writing or saying Nigeria girls are broke, or how much they love money or pointing out some of their negative trait? Are they not broke? Don't they love money? because we have sisters, gf,aunts... We shouldn't say d truth. Only d truth shall set us free,if u don't knw.

We knw our girls are broke & lovers of money,they are slippery. It's a well knw fact that larger percentage of ladies hinge on guys for financial support. It has been like that, so wht are u saying?

AdaNri1:
Every time I visit nairaland there is always a thread denigrating Nigerian girls/ladies. If it's not about how broke they are, it's about how much they love money or something else that's condescending and negative. Some people cannot talk about women from other countries without comparing them to Nigerian women and shedding our ladies in a bad light.
My question to these men/boys saying all these is this; don't you have mothers, sisters, aunts and female cousins? Are they not Nigerians? Why do you insult the womenfolk? It's not gentlemanly and shows Ill upbringing. please endeavour to stop such behaviour, it is becoming alarming on nairaland.
Let's learn to critise positively. There's a saying that goes "if you don't have anything good to say don't say anything"
I would love for my little girls to grow up and choose to marry Nigerian men! But I'm also hoping they're not ill mannered men who have no respect for ladies, because my darlings are as delicate as roses

well i agree with you
i dont insult here or anywhere else
some things changed me

but ladies too need to change
you need to see what those guys have been through even myself with ladies


only thing is that i didnt and dont let ladies action or inaction get to me but really

i just wonder what ladies want,think and see this days................................... THEY MAKE ME WONDER

BELIEVE ME I HAVE A LONG LIST OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

golor:
Op i admire ur courage for writing dis,bt i most say,ur level of ignorance is very well profound.d question u should hv ask urself is,how come different guys from different background and also from different location re complaining of, almost thesame,if not thesame thing?some of us, knows that,we still hv some good ones bt they re few.each time u see a generalization lyk all girls re so and so jst take it as FALLACY OF HASTY GENERALIZATION.truth is some of us, our aunt,sister nd mother display such character/attitude but pride won't let us say it.i must say ur manner is also ill/weak nd bad,tho am judging from d context of ur write up,dat means i may b wrong or right bt i will leave wit ur conscience to judge.

All the people I have heard criticising Nigerian ladies are Nigerian men. Yes I know some ladies do not respect themselves but there are ways to correct someone without resorting to such indignity.

Prixus:
I think the level of bashing is equivalent to the amount of fake, greedy, n morally degraded characters these girls exhibit. in places like the US where people are more liberal these things we say don't mean much to the girls n the guys have learnt not to even bother saying things like we c on NL. there is less pretence over there. if you know the xter of an average naija girl then the way she tries to form saint about it u become irritated. the fault is from the girls who make it look.like if guys know they fuxk regularly then it's a big deal. stop the hypocrisy n we'll follow suite.

true that!

AdaNri1:
Every time I visit nairaland there is always a thread denigrating Nigerian girls/ladies. If it's not about how broke they are, it's about how much they love money or something else that's condescending and negative. Some people cannot talk about women from other countries without comparing them to Nigerian women and shedding our ladies in a bad light.
My question to these men/boys saying all these is this; don't you have mothers, sisters, aunts and female cousins? Are they not Nigerians? Why do you insult the womenfolk? It's not gentlemanly and shows Ill upbringing. please endeavour to stop such behaviour, it is becoming alarming on nairaland.
Let's learn to critise positively. There's a saying that goes "if you don't have anything good to say don't say anything"
I would love for my little girls to grow up and choose to marry Nigerian men! But I'm also hoping they're not ill mannered men who have no respect for ladies, because my darlings are as delicate as roses.

[[size=14pt]modified[/size]]
To Nigerian ladies out there, most of the reason men have given is that we're greedy and demanding. I think not, however, maintain your dignity by not asking a man who's not responsible for you for anything. You're only going to get yourself insulted. Work hard, get what you want for yourself or ask your family members. you will be better off for it knowing you don't owe any man anything.

you know, that not only nigerian men are talking how disgusting they are? ask everywhere in the world- very little percentage will tell that they like nigerian women. ESPECIALLY for their personality

gofyourself:


you know, that not only nigerian men are talking how disgusting they are? ask everywhere in the world- very little percentage will tell that they like nigerian women. ESPECIALLY for their personality

i wonder why u got dat statistics from?which poll says dat.and what about dose who call nigerian men fraudsters and dat they marry for green cards?nigerian men also have a BAD reputation in d international community and d diaspora.u guys aint saints either,u just are bad as dose u condemn but ur ego will not allow u see it,stop deceiving urselfs,u are not all dat either.

ChristyG:
i wonder why u got dat statistics from?which poll says dat.and what about dose who call nigerian men fraudsters and dat they marry for green cards?nigerian men also have a BAD reputation in d international community and d diaspora.u guys aint saints either,u just are bad as dose u condemn but ur ego will not allow u see it,stop deceiving urselfs,u are not all dat either.

not a guy

If a man believes all women are b.itches or gold diggers he probably has bad taste in women and really sometimes the man himself is the problem and you know some of these guys never had a bad experience they've just spent too much time in the company of bitter men who have failed themselves they then run with what they hear and even if they've had a nasty experience they need to get over themselves.

AdaNri1:
Every time I visit nairaland there is always a thread denigrating Nigerian girls/ladies. If it's not about how broke they are, it's about how much they love money or something else that's condescending and negative. Some people cannot talk about women from other countries without comparing them to Nigerian women and shedding our ladies in a bad light.
My question to these men/boys saying all these is this; don't you have mothers, sisters, aunts and female cousins? Are they not Nigerians? Why do you insult the womenfolk? It's not gentlemanly and shows Ill upbringing. please endeavour to stop such behaviour, it is becoming alarming on nairaland.
Let's learn to critise positively. There's a saying that goes "if you don't have anything good to say don't say anything"
I would love for my little girls to grow up and choose to marry Nigerian men! But I'm also hoping they're not ill mannered men who have no respect for ladies, because my darlings are as delicate as roses.

[[size=14pt]modified[/size]]
To Nigerian ladies out there, most of the reason men have given is that we're greedy and demanding. I think not, however, maintain your dignity by not asking a man who's not responsible for you for anything. You're only going to get yourself insulted. Work hard, get what you want for yourself or ask your family members. you will be better off for it knowing you don't owe any man anything.

i like the addition

chidyhels:
You dey mind them?
The funny thing is that they will rant and rant online while some chic is pressing their mumu button offline

No be today

thats not true
most guys are aware of the mumu button stuff but for the lost
and some of US aint blabbing
we speak what we want, know and feel

dovelike:
Shebi I said it. That if they take all the gurls,ladiez and women from Nigeria,or other countries, the men,guys and boys will not survive one day.



I think they are just fascinated at these amazing heavenly beings (females)

are you sure ma

andromida:
If a man believes all women are b.itches or gold diggers he probably has bad taste in women and really sometimes the man himself is the problem and you know some of these guys never had a bad experience they've just spent too much time in the company of bitter men who have failed themselves they then run with what they hear and even if they've had a nasty experience they need to get over themselves.

no man does till he has met a lot of them
you may be cool and decent
but believe me even the decent ones have some of these trait that makes guys call them names
i have met people who i want to kneel and greet daily till i have a piece of their act
i have also met some id worship for life

all ladies aint bad
but i tell you the right ones are scarce

even from their speech youd know them
the them them that have made these issues linger

signor11:




are you sure ma

YES

signor11:



no man does till he has met a lot of them
you may be cool and decent
but believe me even the decent ones have some of these trait that makes guys call them names
i have met people who i want to kneel and greet daily till i have a piece of their act
i have also met some id worship for life

all ladies aint bad
but i tell you the right ones are scarce

even from their speech youd know them
the them them that have made these issues linger

We are the common denominator in our relationships. Nobody can force themselves on me same way i can't force myself on anyone so if i find myself attracting and accepting same types over and over again i'll check myself. I know this is all on me i simply cannot afford to blame men for my predicament when i see flourishing relationships all around me.

There are always going to be different kinds of people you'll def come in contact with some bad fits you simply don't choose them and some times you make mistakes just learn from them.

dovelike:

YES

i doubt it
a bit

signor11:



i doubt it
a bit

A bit,right?

dovelike:

A bit,right?

yes naa
wetin dey special for una side

a bit kwanu
no more no less a bit

andromida:


We are the common denominator in our relationships. Nobody can force themselves on me same way i can't force myself on anyone so if i find myself attracting and accepting same types over and over again i'll check myself. I know this is all on me i simply cannot afford to blame men for my predicament when i see flourishing relationships all around me.

There are always going to be different kinds of people you'll def come in contact with some bad fits you simply don't choose them and some times you make mistakes just learn from them.

We are the common denominator in our relationships.(not really it need not be a fraction)

Nobody can force themselves on me same way i can't force myself on anyone so if i find myself attracting and accepting same types over and over again i'll check myself. (thats true. once we come to terms with this we do better and value ourselves more...............we also move up faster and attract less opposites that'll make us sorry)

I know this is all on me i simply cannot afford to blame men for my predicament when i see flourishing relationships all around me. (each time we see ourselves we grow when we push it on others we stay stagnant and stink in time)

There are always going to be different kinds of people you'll def come in contact with some bad fits you simply don't choose themnothing good (comes out from bad sources there'll always be a price to pay)
we must rule our desires and stay of bad opposites else we would regret it (i have 2 cases at that........................wild goose chase that left a scar)
and some times you make mistakes just learn from them (we dont have to experience to learn we can learn from the experience of others its a virtue thats common with guru's.......................standing on the shoulders of people who have gone ahead of us)

signor11:



yes naa
wetin dey special for una side

a bit kwanu
no more no less a bit

Wait until it happens.Then anywhere you see a lady you go dey respect am

signor11:


We are the common denominator in our relationships.(not really it need not be a fraction)

Nobody can force themselves on me same way i can't force myself on anyone so if i find myself attracting and accepting same types over and over again i'll check myself. (thats true. once we come to terms with this we do better and value ourselves more...............we also move up faster and attract less opposites that'll make us sorry)

I know this is all on me i simply cannot afford to blame men for my predicament when i see flourishing relationships all around me. (each time we see ourselves we grow when we push it on others we stay stagnant and stink in time)

There are always going to be different kinds of people you'll def come in contact with some bad fits you simply don't choose themnothing good (comes out from bad sources there'll always be a price to pay)
we must rule our desires and stay of bad opposites else we would regret it (i have 2 cases at that........................wild goose chase that left a scar)
and some times you make mistakes just learn from them (we dont have to experience to learn we can learn from the experience of others its a virtue thats common with guru's.......................standing on the shoulders of people who have gone ahead of us)