WHY SEX SHOULDN'T COME BEFORE COMMITMENT. (A Must Read)
Heart2Heart With Andy Kwakpovwe. 6th Feb, 2014.

Sex has become more important than love in today’s world.

Many people’s idea of love is centered more around how you can rock my world not so much on how true our connection is.

It’s all backwards, we’re undoubtedly chasing lust with the idea that it’s going to turn into love. We are backwards.

We’ve gotten to a point where we believe sex after marriage is for idiots, lame folks, people who are ugly, and weirdos.

If it’s not about that good sex then why be with them right? You need to be pleased right?

Well we are getting pleasure and heartbreaks. A bunch of soul ties for orgasms.

We fill our voids with sex and using promiscuity to define our identity because in this generation that sex gets you the eyes.

It’s all about good head, big butts, and good sex sessions more than anything.

Only if we could see how much we are hurting ourselves. If we could postpone sex until marriage how much better would it make things?

Well here’s some beliefs you can get out of your mind and maybe you can see why it’s better to put sex on hold.

1. SEX CLOUDS JUDGEMENT AND COMPLICATES THINGS.
Imagine meeting someone you know you have nothing in common with. You can clearly see that if you had a relationship with them it would go no where, but loneliness led you and bam it happened.

The sex was good but he or she is a bad match. Well what happened? Your lust filled heart will raise your curiosity and justifying will start.

After sleeping together a few times eventually you’ll start saying “this ain’t that bad, this isn’t that bad.”

How many times have you fallen for someone whom you didn’t even like from the start but settled with because they were giving you something you felt you needed at the time?

Sex makes more things acceptable. It makes compromising easier even when it's sometimes goes against logic.

When you choose to keep sex out you get to know the person for who they truly are.

If you fall in love with them, you fall in love with the ''real them, real connection, real bond not influenced by anything. Most men won't stick around if they aren't gettn sex, why would you want to be with someone who can't be with you if not for sex? Don't be deceived you're nothing to him or her but a MERE intimacy gadget. This guy doesn't love you, he's in love with whats between your legs.

How did d older generation make it? They valued sex,respected it and many praticed it only in marriage,Dont u see ow their love story is diffrnt frm ours?

Okoro

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A very good advice. Goat will remain goats. I have no problem with goats but giving sheep to goats just isn't it. And between: research has it that intelligent people (genius) with good genes find it difficult to sleep around, and its evolutionary because the genes are rarely found so they have been wired to protect it with a partner worth while.

Nice write-up