hey everyone
the situation is this, i met a guy, added him on facebook and we wrote some short notes. after 2,3 times writing i asked if he would like to go out for a drink with me. i knew it might not be smart to make this first move but tha guy is soo damn cute, so i asked.
first he didnt answer for lets say a week, then he said he was sick and didnt reply anymore. i think that shows he's not interested- but i now noticed some friends of mine are friends of his, so i'm thinkin if i now act as if i neva asked, and just b friends, maybe we might still become closa?
wot do u guyz think? pllleeeeeease advise me

he said he was disappointed that you felt he was cute. he thinks you are shallow.
are you looking for a fling

no be so, i asked him if he wanted to go out for a drink, i never made him any compliments, i just wanted to give a clear hint that i'm interested. and now i feel like it was a big mistake

aw I am sorry. what can I do to help

@ OP

There is absolutely nada wrong in what you have done. . .at least in my opinion.
It's your right to offer and he's gat the rights to accept or decline your offer.

He might just not be interested. . .and I seriously dont think youve cheapened yourself by inviting him out for a drink.

Keep ya head up.

I think it depends on the guy. Some guys think women who ask them out are cheap and loose.

you have done well.

i think you are more modern and open-minded.

if he is yours, he will accept otherwise, ignore; live continues.

H2O2:

I think it depends on the guy. Some guys think women who ask them out are cheap and loose.

You right. . . .but I think only " a bit shallow" guy should think that way.

Most girls that guys ask out are loose and cheap. . . .so it doesnt just add up to thinking that girls that makes 1st moves are loose.

There's nothing wrong in you asking a guy out for a drink. He must either be a shallow minded guy to have cut off from you because of that or may be he's the type that cannot control themselves in the presence of ladies, always afraid to get intimate with a lady.