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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Godson201333(m): 2:25am On Feb 11, 2015 |
iceberylin: Lol and must your papa be long before you can make he a queen?? Some guys self |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 5:57am On Feb 11, 2015 |
MzNelly:as ur face ugly lyk who kil her ex 7yrs ago.who go show dat face a romance? |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by micrep3030(m): 8:08am On Feb 11, 2015 |
They will take advance of u joor |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 9:10am On Feb 11, 2015 |
ihedinobi2:Nnam, I am not saying that love should be completely out of the game, All I am saying is, plant the seed of friendship first, nurture it and observe what it will turn into. Falling inlove is disastrous, growing inlove is better............ 1 Like |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ihedinobi2: 9:24am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Nwanne, I di on point. Mana my experience has been that I fall in love with my friends. And even then love has hurt. It may be gradual but love is always like that. It is only physical attraction that occurs in that bolt-of-lightning manner that almost always leaves everyone wondering what changed when relationship gets underway. But love takes its time and when it gets there it can be so strong that when it is hurt you'll wish it never happened in the first place. I don't think we can avoid falling in love. I don't think we can ever eliminate the risk that love comes with. But we can all avoid following our hormones. I've been doing that for so long now that I don't think it's arguable. |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:38am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Adikam: Lol |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 10:05am On Feb 11, 2015 |
ihedinobi2:True that, Most of us have "fallen" in love at one time, only to be treated badly by that person, the reason is because we fell in love............ We didn't take out time to study them............ We didn't know them, we followed our hormones like you said. Love for me is not something to fall for. It is something that grows between two people. Plus it takes time and a lot of trust. Falling in love sounds accidental and I hate accidents. My ex for instance stuck her foot out, I tripped, feel in a hole and broke my neck. Ahh bro, I ain't falling like that again. How would one know if the attraction is genuine? How would one know if the person is honest? How would you know if you can trust the person? How about compatibility issues? All these relationship problems are avoidable if we grow in love. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by MizMyColi(f): 10:24am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1: I Swaaaarr Bro, you too afrid. Pirrriiiiodd. U and ihedinobi2, u too serios!!!!! I don gerrit bro. You two base in Ghana? No oifensee pls |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 10:29am On Feb 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi:That face no fit you walahi. |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ihedinobi2: 12:01pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1:We are actually saying the same thing. The last time I fell in love I remember that the feelings were slow-burning. It took its time. I questioned so many things and wondered a lot before giving myself over to it. It was a conscious decision I made based on what I learned in two months of friendship with someone. My point is that, yes, love should and does grow, but it has a critical mass. When it hits it, my brother, what you thought hormones could do would be so impoverished and kwashiokored in comparison that you'd wish you could go back to "falling in love" if it went wrong. Believe me, when it grows it is by far more powerful than you can imagine. Chasing a woman because she's attractive and since you met her you can't stop thinking about her feels like love. And it can hurt like a dog. But when she's your friend, believe me, if it hurts it kills. |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ihedinobi2: 12:07pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi:Too serious, huh Is Ghana where the serious people live? |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Akuneshiobike(m): 12:25pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
MzNelly:This MzNelly just full everywhere...Any person looking for this Bae and did not see her in her house should quickly check her on NL, you certainly must see her. |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:38pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Akuneshiobike: |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by klark3: 2:14pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1:God bless u... |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 7:57am On Feb 21, 2015 |
ilotriouzAY:....hmmmmmm....good talk 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
In d many centuries I've lived on earth(10 precisely),I've come 2 realize of a fact that men really are simple beings...All they need from their woman is love,faithfulness,appreciation & a firm knowledge that their woman has trust nd faith in them..With these,everything else falls in place..Ladies,if yhu can do these,added with a good dose of caring,then yhu got a man 4 lyf..If ever he strays,he'd come bk nd be truly remorse 4 it..He'd go to the moon nd back to see that u're well nd good... I might just be telling my own love story here,anyway,buh it's simply wah I've come 2 know.. #Phioosopher Quëën# |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Chizzled06(m): 9:20pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Lol. Nice love story. Cheating man, loyal girl. Same old |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:26am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Chizzled06:No,skeptic...it's not d same old story. |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Chizzled06(m): 12:30am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Lol. What makes yours different? |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:58am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Chizzled06:A lot ov things I don't care about telling yhu... |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Chizzled06(m): 1:04am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Fair enough. Goodluck with him! |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 1:10am On Oct 01, 2015 |
jnrprof:They are not all so complicated... there are many loving ones out there who wantu be as good,faithful nd understandable as possible... |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 1:13am On Oct 01, 2015 |
ePUNK:Why are expatriates marrying Nigerian women? |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 1:18am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Akalia: No,they are not dispensable...Men can't do without women,likewise women can't do without men....Both are ultimately necessary,no matter how much ov a headache each may seem to be. #Philosopher Quëën# 1 Like |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Akalia(m): 7:19am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Akalia(m): 7:21am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:hola beautiful |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 7:47am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Akalia:Hi.. |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Akalia(m): 9:14am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:is there any means of reaching u besides here? like mobile number or any of the instant messangers if u don't mind? |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Redlabel: 11:35am On Oct 01, 2015 |
MzNelly:Is been romantic made for Nigerian men only? are the ladies romantic? You expect the men to do everything for you when you dont reciprocate |
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 12:16pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
True talk jere |
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