Creamish:


Shows his level of maturity... others would rather hurl out insults on womenfolk than reason constructively.

Flytefalls:

@ bolded So, you're just out to give women a hard time then? Naughty. Boy.

Labour is never ever peasy, what Disney Channel show have you been studying? We who do not know should embrace our place as spectators until experience tells us otherwise.


Lol, Creamish, he gon' learn today!

mutter:
I can understand that most women are scared. Most women now shy away from a natural birth because of the pain and there is no point trying to convince anyone otherwise.
If you cannot approach a birth as a natural process you are bound to stiffen up and have so much pain.

I had all my children natural and I never had to scream or yell and throw myself around, like you see in the movies and films

Another advantage of a natural birth is that your movement is not restricted. I like walking around, squatting or even entering a bath tub.

I think that most women are scared by what the hear and see and that frightens them. You need to inform yourself more about natural births. In some countries it is an occasion and the whole family is in attendance for a home birth.

soulglo:


I don't think it is a matter of being scared. It's more of the logical approach. Why should I feel pain when I do not have to? I don't understand why the pain part has to be experienced? What does it add to anything. Does it ensure that the child is healthier? Does it make the woman stay sexy forever? I mean what is so important about the pain? Also most women feel the pain before epidural. For many they have already labored for a while before they get it. No one wants to give you epidural when you're not at a reasonably progressed stage of labor. So it's not like you get it when you are 5 months pregnant pending when labor kicks in. Labor has already begun and in many cases pushing is near before epidural comes. I just don't understand how the pain of pushing the baby out and feeling your vagina being cut by a scalpel adds anything to my womanhood.

Creamish:


#NuffRespect.

mutter:
I can understand that most women are scared. Most women now shy away from a natural birth hairstyle because of the pain difficulty and there is no point trying to convince anyone otherwise.
If you cannot approach a birth natural hair as a natural process you are bound to stiffen up and have so much pain despair.

I had all my children hair natural and I never had to scream or yell and throw myself around, like you see in the movies and films

Another advantage of a natural birth hairstyle is that your movement is not restricted. I like walking around, squatting or even entering a bath tub.

I think that most women are scared by what the hear and see and that frightens them. You need to inform yourself more about natural births hairstyles. In some countries it is an occasion and the whole family is in attendance for a home birth big chop.

Flytefalls:
This post reminds me of the snobbery that exists among women belonging to the natural hair movement . So much judgement!



Time to go home I think

mutter:


This pain is different from other pain.
It announces the coming of a child.
the first contractions are shorter and not so painful. As the contractions get intense, the stomach tightens up more you get excited because the baby is almost there. There is no pain in between the contractions. Then at the end you can be active pushing the baby out yourself. Feel it passing through , feel the relief when the baby pups out and the pain is gone completely.

Be able to yell at the kids and tell them how you suffered to bring them to the world

mutter:


This pain is different from other pain.
It announces the coming of a child.
the first contractions are shorter and not so painful. As the contractions get intense, the stomach tightens up more you get excited because the baby is almost there. There is no pain in between the contractions. Then at the end you can be active pushing the baby out yourself. Feel it passing through , feel the relief when the baby pups out and the pain is gone completely.

Be able to yell at the kids and tell them how you suffered to bring them to the world

[size=13pt] At a point, I was really convinced that there's no biggie if you want to have epidural. What matters is the baby comes out safe and sound and the mother is also fine but after reading the bolded, meehhn! If I were a lady, I'll rather have it the natural way

Flytefalls bravo! You've exuded intelligence in this thread. #iMpressed [/size]

bennyrazz:
lmao @ just preparing but really, only lazy women do epidural and it might affect the baby.

mutter:


This pain is different from other pain.
It announces the coming of a child.
the first contractions are shorter and not so painful. As the contractions get intense, the stomach tightens up more you get excited because the baby is almost there. There is no pain in between the contractions. Then at the end you can be active pushing the baby out yourself. Feel it passing through , feel the relief when the baby pups out and the pain is gone completely.

Be able to yell at the kids and tell them how you suffered to bring them to the world

Whether I suffered or not, the fact that I brought them into the world gives me that right. Don't you think?? Or does one have to suffer before she's qualified to be a mother?

Nayah:
Hi Rokiatu

As far as I m concerned I wish I could have a baby this is not the case for now : I pray God that he makes my dreams come true when I ll decide to be a mother and really hope this would be in a natural way . Now I celebrate sisters who had in vitro birth because of many troubles and I admire them I couldn't think about what they have been through

rokiatu:
Thanks for your input Nayah. Good to see you. Its been a while.

50calibre:



This is bigger than just pain relief, it's about wanting to exempt yourself from a natural obligation.

I don't know how to explain it better, but that pain experienced during childbirth is symbolic, it's a stripe you have to earn as a worthy mother, call it a medal if you will.

You're bringing a life into this world, it should be painful, that's nature's way of preparing you for the task ahead, animals go through this, humans have been going through this, so why the sudden intolerance to pain.

My mum felt the pain bringing me into this world, my wife would need to feel that pain as well. Pain isn't an excuse, women go through lots of painful beauty procedures like waxing, this shouldn't be an excuse when nature has given you 9 months to prepare.

It's understandable if for some legitimate reason some woman have to opt for less painful procedures but there's no justification whatsoever for a healthy woman. It's a crime of trying to evade the natural order.

Newmum0615:
You sit on your high chair and spew forth everything in your mouth cos you ain't the one who will bear the pain. Who are you to tell a woman that she shouldn't have epidural for the simple reason that she has to prove that she is a woman? So carrying and nurturing that child in her womb for 9 months is not enough to show that she is worthy of being called a mother simply becos she chose to have her baby without pain. What of all the discomfort she felt all those months waiting in anticipation to have that child. You sit there cos you don't have to do the work. Your point of view is just skewed. I am happy I am not married to you. You are the type that makes me ask why God didn't let men have the responsibility of carrying babies. I bet you ask your wife to do all the hard chores in the house while you raise your feet at home and fart around simply she is a woman and must act as woman whether or not she is up to it or not while carrying a baby. I really do not envy who you are married to. Go on with Ur bigoted views. I wish you luck.

rokiatu:
damn babe you are really angry

Nita2013:
e reach to vex na. What nonsense!!! I pray he is allowed into the labour/delivery room when his wife gets to that part. By the time he sees d kind of pain d wife is going tru he ll be d one to ask for epidural. Mtcheeeew..........

christabeli:
I know you didn't read everything he wrote. If you had done so, you would have seen where he admitted defeat.

Nita2013:
I see you are omni present to know i didn't read everything he wrote. I read every of his post and saw where he admitted his defeat but going by his previous posts b4 accepting (whether truly or not) i wrote that.

favoredgal:
Team epidural #AllDayEveryDay

50calibre:


Really? Why then do all these celebrities opt for c section, I though that was the least painful and stressful