Hubby has not touched me for almost two months now.
We sleep on same bed, have 4 kids and on family planning.

Have enquired if anything is wrong or worrying him but no concrete responce.

2 whole months?
I no even get energy to type, I'll just follow

he must have taken offense at somethin you did but he wont tell you

or he's keeping a secret

either way

He is stressed up

Your marriage your business

Maybe he has a disease and is fighting hard not to infect you. Don't persuade him too much

Am I too harsh?

purplesummer:
Maybe he has a disease and is fighting hard not to infect you. Don't persuade him too much

Am I too harsh?

go and sleep

My own do touch me taya. . . . I am now allergic to ALL touches!
Over-use!!!!!!

Hes prolly getting some fresh asss outside. I can imagine a woman's core after four kids!

2 weeks is too long. Log off nairaland and go find out what his problem is

braine:
Hes prolly getting some fresh asss outside. I can imagine a woman's core after four kids!

Op ignore this poster, your man is not cheating on you sometimes it happens like that. can't say more than this, my guardian angels are on duty.

Hmmm...still persist till dawn.

NaijaOptimist:
Hubby has not touched me for almost two months now.
We sleep on same bed, have 4 kids and on family planning.

Have enquired if anything is wrong or worrying him but no concrete responce.

Two months??

Are you overworked and stopped paying attention to your selves?

brito:







Op ignore this poster, your man is not cheating on you sometimes it happens like that. can't say more than this, my guardian angels are on duty.

oh, yeah; ignore me. You may be shocked.

OK am expecting to read what have u done to ursef? Are u fat n ugly? Look good. Seduce him. Do this n that
Arghhhhhhh
When will all these stop being centred on us women?
Can't men make changes?

U have 4kids madam and u still wanna be serviced every other day?
Ok 2 months is long enuf

In short I don't wanna write more

Dyt:
OK am expecting to read what have u done to ursef? Are u fat n ugly? Look good. Seduce him. Do this n that
Arghhhhhhh
When will all these stop being centred on us women?
Can't men make changes?

U have 4kids madam and u still wanna be serviced every other day?
Ok 2 months is long enuf

In short I don't wanna write more

Please write more

jaybee3:


Please write more

Lol
No cos I will abuse the woman ni and then abuse the husband and tag u along.

How u been boo?

What stops you from touching him?

Dyt:


Lol
No cos I will abuse the woman ni and then abuse the husband and tag u along.

How u been boo?

haaaaa

wetin i do ke

why you wan abuse me

I dey darl

Madam,since he refused touching u mayb u should seduce him.

jaybee3:
What stops you from touching him?

Maybe the man is broke na

He will be thinking of how to feed her n the kids and the only thing she's worrying herself abt is sex.
#jstsaying#

What really led to all these insults here

OP how old is your husband and has he been sick recently?

Many men become less active with age and with some men it sets in faster. It is something you have to talk about honestly and reach a compromise. When the man is under pressure to perform and when he thinks he might not be able to satisfy you then it gets even worse.

On the other hand maybe there is no problem at all.

But i have to ask you , do you just lie there and fall asleep.
I would have raped my husband after a few days

since your username is Optimist I don't see why you should be complaining about not been touched
keep on being an Optimist and hope he might touch you one day... goodluck

please don't wait for him again initiate it and do things that will make him want u ,you know now he is or husband

ucmummy:
please don't wait for him again initiate it and do things that will make him want u ,you know now he is or husband

Ekun