Gentle or difficult guys; which do girls prefer

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I prefer a gentle guy.

@arramyjay

Every girl says dat, but in reality its never true, no matter what.

I think girls prefer mean guys, i cant fathom why. I have a friend who treats gals like trash, i mean, downright nasty, uncaring, with a quick temper. Its so bad dat sometimes i am d one dat remembers stuff 4 him e.g birthdays. But girls still trip for him. Like they enjoy it in some weird way.

@Hesperus

true that

Even DMX sang about it
"Why do good girls love bad guys"

In my opinion most of the western women prefer bad or rough guys. our african women r more or a bit conservative ;its only natural 4 them to prefer gentle guys.

If your very cool and gentle with a girl, she will rough shed you and provoke you to death because she knows you are a cool and gentle guy but if you are very nasty, violent and mean to her, she will respect you, fear you and shove her provocative attitude down her ass hole!

Most girls are built to be internal bullies when they catch a cool guy and they will torment your soul till eternity with their whinnings, naggings and stubborness but when you shove a fist or slap every now and then to their throats or stomachs, then you will realise how calm and wiey they can get.

@ topic

Guys that are mean to me will certainly not get my attention, infact we'd soon become enemies and I'd avoid them at all costs. I really can't understand why any self respecting woman would choose to be with someone like that.

A combination of both works beautifully.
Gotta find the right balance between the two. Can't be too soft or too mean.

I love Gentle guys. . . not difficult with a hint of toughness about them. Those are the best.

i think most guys here are carbon copies of my friends, judging frm their post. it so happen dat when i am with girls i do much of d listening than talkin though some of their stories could be really borin and suprisingly they love my attitude. i am a gentle guy but nt too gentle to b played around by a girl. my friends want me to become a hard guy by all means and it seems i am abt givin in . girls ur opinion is urgently needed!!! :-)

Most girls are built to be internal bullies when they catch a cool guy and they will torment your soul till eternity with their whinnings, naggings and stubborness but when you shove a fist or slap every now and then to their throats or stomachs, then you will realise how calm and wiey they can get.


Are you kidding me?

@post
True talk, maybe you've never heard of alpha male, try and do some reading about it then you will understand.
Start by saying no to their first ten requests, your chances will improve greatly

After discovering which is better, what happens?
Try to be what you are nnot?

Folks, we should just try to be who we are and let our personality attract our type of ladies
Trying to be another person just doesn't work. If you are gentle so be it
if you are harsh and crude, just pray to meet ya type. . .

guy it also baffles me too
methinks d problem is with the ladies
they dont really know wat they want in a guy
^{GOD HELP US}

guy it also baffles me too
methinks d problem is with the ladies
they dont really know wat they want in a guy
^{GOD HELP US}