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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:04pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Serenity22: Good! Change your number sef if that will help you move away quicker A man who loves you will not deliberately do and say things to wound your spirit He is being very sadistic. Hold your head up high and walk 4 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Serenity22: 8:10pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
babyosisi:lol at carrying belle. I'll just avoid him bcs weneva I see him my knees turn to jelly |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by DuchessLily(f): 8:40pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
TONYE001: Woow! Well done!! Wish ur wifey safe delivery God bless u 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:57pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
There was this lady friend of mine when I was an underG. She is well established and the only thing was marriage. She now met a man. Handsome to a fault with politician's kinda mouth. Affair started. My guy knows what d lady wanted and proposed. She accepted. We were all delighted. If my guy wanna enter town,he will call my lady and tell her what he would like to eat. My lady will leave her shop and go a cooking (lol) Now my inquisitive nature went to work. My guy said he works in so so and so in PH. I know that place like the back of my palm and I called some guys to check him up. It was lie. I told my lady. The guy will enter town and won't visit her at her shop but will go and drink with friends, then midnight he will show. then my friend will present whatever she cooked. One night, a friend of the guy called mmy lady asking she should give my guy phone so they will chat. She did. And told me. I started thinking"is this not a set up. Told her my fears and everything. She went and told the guy every single thing I said. He even said he is running for a political post and borrowed money from this chic. Lots of things. That was how this lady cut me off from her life and even set me up. (we were like sisters,so close) Fast forward,i graduated and left. Went back to process my result and heard that d guy is now married to one school worker. The lady bought a car for him. Mi lady is still single and searching after 6 yrs. So heartbreaking cos she is a very good gal. Should be in early forties now. So gals, read in between lines. I love u and good sexx is very easy to come by. If u see any handwriting on the wall, pick up ur shoe and tear race. Love is everywhere. U can also get good and quality sexx everywhere. 7 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 9:12pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Serenity22:Just quit.Don't say cos he's your first you can't leave.It might seem hard for you initially but you will get over it. You will still meet a better guy.Try to socialise a bit more,just make new friends. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:21pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
moca: We all do foolish things for love You are giving woman advise when she is having fights with her man,they settle their quarrel and you become the bad person After she has gisted you all the nasty things he did One woman here was having problems with her husband,I mean physical fights with 911 showing up Her fellow women took her out for lunch and gave her tips on how to handle stuff One day the man touch her for waist that he abandoned since and she blabs everything they advised her The husband calls the husbands of the other women to warn their wives to keep away from his marriage,endangering thei relationships of people trying to help her Of course when the issues resumed and he cleared the account and eventually moved out and filed divorce,she didn't have the face to tell the other ladies what she was going through. 7 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
babyosisi:Nne, I learnt the hard way. She was so close to me. I don't want to see her hurt cos it was obvious that guy is a randy guy. Told her to make investigation. It wasn't only me. Like three of us but I was d youngest and a student. A week after sleeping in her house,his IV came out. He soiled her name. Since then, If u tell me u wanna date and marry Mr A, I will wish u luck. D guy that was sent to deal with me happened to be my former nebor and we were really close. When he came, he was like no, it can't be me cos he know me very well. So he told me how he was told to come and teach me a small lesson(by the randy guy) I'm very careful now. I can only do online advise and go my way. Ladies, we no dey hear at all 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 9:53pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Chai, I sincerely feel this woman's pain. Some stupid things we do for love. That guy, the thunder that will strike him and his generation is still doing press up in Amadioha shrine, believe me. moca: |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:54pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
moca: Hahahahaha Na today People don't like the truth I have a friend that stopped talking to me because I told her she had destroyed the relationship with a man that wanted to marry her by something very insensitive that she did and I didn't see him marrying her. The day she was expecting the engagement ring,he asked her to give him 15 months I said nne didn't I warn you From that day we became foes I have said it a million times,whenever you see any girl approaching and passed 40 who wants to marry and is not,go and check it well well,she has a huge hand in her predicament.I have seen it over and over again. Another one I even helped hook up with one man started gossiping with my name and I had no clue until word came to me that she said that I looked her finish and found her an igbotic man to marry That was my reward for trying to help a friend The man before that she left because she insisted on seeing his certificate with her korokoro eyes to ensure he was a graduate I said nne take it easy na,this is not FBI work,you can't be interrogating a suitor like say na docket e dey for high court She is still single till today And the igbotic man is happily married to another friend of mine 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:04pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
gleatz:She is good, very good. Just don't know. Maybe bad luck or what. She obviously don't no the signs to look for in a man. When a guy whom d wife recently died while giving birth came, we saw the love and genuineness. Told her to give the guy a chance. She didn't. Reason;there must be something that made the woman die during childbirth.shuuuu! We begged and begged. The man works for SSS. Was about travelling to US(i think he is a citizen) and want to go with the wife. He left and courted and married another. By d time my friend will realize what she has done,he has traveled out with d wife. I for the go US like part 2 no dey. Infact, we r bad compared to her. Flawless. I have told her to leave that city. It is better for her. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:07pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
moca: Does she have a spirit husband Do you know Rofl I hear dem spirit husbands are jealous lovers Na so dem go chase every physical husband comot |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:19pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
babyosisi:So u believe in that thing? I don't even though I ve seen one manifesting. She actually ran to me for help. Told her to go to mfm. Anyway, I don't think she has. At least from all d prayer houses she has been going to, nobody has told her yet I don pray tire for her head. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:25pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
moca: I was kidding |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Same for men but mostly with girls@Moca. I completely agree with you that a ladies approaching 40 have a hand in them not getting a suitor or married, why? While in grad school, I met her but friend zoned me while dating a guy that worked in the school, although older than I am(33yrs) but very good girl. Her reasons for not dating me, I was not a catholic, same level(she was doing parttime) plus it going to take time before I get a job. After grad school, the guy she was dating left her, she did not tell me the reason he left. She was devastated. I still could not date her because she needed time to heal, I gave her space, the space I gave another guy filled it in and by the time I was knocking the door was closed. After after service, I advice her to leave her present location to stay with her elder sister in Abuja, she did as advice and got a place of her own, I even visited Abuja(not because of her), although we communicate but I do not do long distance relationship. My phone got stolen and we could not communicate. Guess who sent me a message on facebook to call her after two years? Am sure you know her age. Most men of my age would prefer younger girls than girls approaching 40yrs. Finally, learn to find out the understated; a. Your partners love language b. Your partner temperament c. Your partner values. d. Study or research about your partner. It will help you. Do not marry out of desperation, fustration, pity, pressure (either by partner or family). No one is born perfect, you see the quality you like...... Hit the altar and if the brother aint got enough cash support him or better yet introduction so as to enable you save for the raining days. Good night. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 6:53am On Mar 27, 2015 |
@Moca This leads me to the question "why does the so-called ladies and gus fall into the hands of wrong partners?" Its so sadening seeing this hapenn. What coud just be the reason Cc: All |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 7:16am On Mar 27, 2015 |
gleatz:Naivety,greed,lust.......and desperation at a stage when age becomes a factor. To be good does not stop one from having the above. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 7:45am On Mar 27, 2015 |
Naivety I quite agree with you! Some dnt ve the greed factor in them though thorpido: |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 7:53am On Mar 27, 2015 |
gleatz:One person may not have all the factors i listed but they often have one. One major one is lust.Girls often get attracted to tall,handsome,dark and broadchested guys.There's nothing wrong with that but if the physical appearance does not allow a lady to pay more attention to his character and personality,she will likely get into trouble. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:43am On Mar 27, 2015 |
@GoldenDr,i hear u. U have spoken well. Thanks dear. @ thorpido, I agree with @gleatz. I don't know about others but this lady is exceptional. I just couldn't abandon her. Even with the attack on my personality, I went back to her and felt so sorry for her. I guess what was putting guys off was her age and she looks it. U know some folks look older/younger than their age. She has a relationship(up to 4 yrs)and the guy died. She started another(5 to six yrs) and small misunderstanding, the guy married another lady. U see how the yrs keep on accumulating meanwhile the bad gals like us don't have problem with suitors and marriage. If u hv a problem,just go to her for advice or financial support,she must help u. I had once raised this question. Why r the very good ones left behind? U guys don't really know what gals who r very matured to marry pass tru. There r so many of them out there and I tell u, they r well behaved ladies. I tire o. Two major problems of women r when u reach the age of Mrs and nobody comes knocking and when u marry no pikin. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 8:56am On Mar 27, 2015 |
moca:I agree with you that at a stage,age becomes a factor and many guys retreat at that time. The question is what happens at 20-25yrs,26-30yrs?This is where i don't seem to understand. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:51pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
At 22-25yrs, most still form, wanting a guy that is very comfortable, do not know what they want as a result of peer pressure and some unrealistic reasons. At 26-30yrs to the best of my knowledge desperation(especially if she is 30yrs, you hear statement like when are we going to see your parent, calling you every time, your mates are getting married infact every statement that comes out of her mouth 95% is marriage, when you have not dated up to three months), fustration (most especially if they do not have hand work or uneducated) and pressure from society (most especially at work place). Some at that age(26-30yrs) have a very bad mouth, still watching Kim Kardashin and family and acting that way and a few are just bad cooks. thorpido: |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
GoldenDr:Lmao. Lol *faints * Lol. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by PearlO(f): 11:41pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Great job.....weldone to evrybody who has contributed to the growth of this thread...trust me, guyz ve saved alora pple and I happen to b one.... Saw d thread wen twas on d 45th page...I folod religiously until nw.. I have learnt alot...sm ve implemented n it worked odaz havent....like y'all ve said, different strokes for different folks....coz it worked for d oda pson doesnt mean it will for me..... to each his own I rily wish I cud share mine bt dunno where to start from. seem like ve got d worse n most complicated love life ever I guez I will ve d courage to share mine smday soon keep doing wot y'all knw hw to do best Godz using y'all to bless so many pple 4 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:27am On Mar 28, 2015 |
PearlO: Thank you for the kind words It's exciting to know that the thread achieved its purpose Thanks to all the contributors who shared their personal stories and experiences and words of advise from the heart 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 5:36am On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:the thread will still reach 200 pages. It is like that kitchen thread. It touches one part or the other of most people's lives. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by soonest(f): 9:25am On Mar 28, 2015 |
Have been following religiously |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by An0nimus: 2:20pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
cococandy:That kitchen thread sha, Lord have mercy. See food kwa. I'm always touched anytime I visit that thread. If only I can receive that anointing for exploits |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 4:01pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
An0nimus:one of my favorite threads on NL. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:02pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Please drop the link. cococandy: |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 10:37pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
GoldenDr:https://www.nairaland.com/1122902/cook-kitchen-take-pictures-post/242#32010052 |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chillis: 9:22am On Mar 29, 2015 |
81 pages, abeg wetin una dey talk here sef . Just mention me when una begin share money |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 10:31am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Amebo Chillis: |
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