MarvellousGod:
Yeah, Thanks...
Let's hope so

Preternatura1:
Hello everyone.

Floodgater, how are you dear? Babyosisi, hello.

I think his mum doesn't like me and he's acting all cold since my return yesterday, I think he's not happy I didn't go to his mum's.

I called to say hi and she told me, she doesn't think I'm the one for her son, that I couldn't even bring down myself to honor her invite, what does this even mean?

I don't understand it, I mean I told her I couldn't make it.

I haven't really talked with him but I think his mum's told him she doesn't want me, how do I handle this please?

babyosisi:


Just keep calm.she is offended you couldn't come but I don't blame you for not going to spend time with her without her son there.why would your man even ask you to go spend Easter with his mom when he won't be there.
The woman is unwise for saying those words .
This tells you that your journey with her if you eventually marry the son will not be easy initially
You have to find out exactly how your man feels about this
That is very crucial
If after your explanation,he is siding his mom and sees nothing valid in your reasons,red flags ought to go up in your head about future occurrences.
Watch and pray and watch again
This period of courtship is very crucial,do not overlook anything that goes on here
I knew at courtship I would have issues with my MIL
Not only did my hubby tell me his mom was a tough woman,I experienced some little things
The most important deciding factor for you is the man
Is he on your side and standing with you or at least being understanding
You need to make sure of that
You don't want to speak an entire married life trying to please his mother

babyosisi:


Just keep calm.she is offended you couldn't come but I don't blame you for not going to spend time with her without her son there.why would your man even ask you to go spend Easter with his mom when he won't be there.
The woman is unwise for saying those words .
This tells you that your journey with her if you eventually marry the son will not be easy initially
You have to find out exactly how your man feels about this
That is very crucial
If after your explanation,he is siding his mom and sees nothing valid in your reasons,red flags ought to go up in your head about future occurrences.
Watch and pray and watch again
This period of courtship is very crucial,do not overlook anything that goes on here
I knew at courtship I would have issues with my MIL
Not only did my hubby tell me his mom was a tough woman,I experienced some little things
The most important deciding factor for you is the man
Is he on your side and standing with you or at least being understanding
You need to make sure of that
You don't want to speak an entire married life trying to please his mother

Preternatura1:
I am upset at what she said but I'll be calm and talk to him about it, I'm just kind of confused as I thought she understood when I told her I already had plans, when I told him I couldn't go, he didn't push, though it was obvious he wasn't happy about it, still I expect him to understand.

Saturday is usually date night but I will ask him we do it tomorrow, so we can talk.

I'll keep you posted. Thank you for your help, it's highly appreciated.

How are you doing? Hope you had a fun easter?

Preternatura1:
Hello everyone.

Floodgater, how are you dear? Babyosisi, hello.

I think his mum doesn't like me and he's acting all cold since my return yesterday, I think he's not happy I didn't go to his mum's.

I called to say hi and she told me, she doesn't think I'm the one for her son, that I couldn't even bring down myself to honor her invite, what does this even mean?

I don't understand it, I mean I told her I couldn't make it.

I haven't really talked with him but I think his mum's told him she doesn't want me, how do I handle this please?

Preternatura1:
Hello everyone.

Floodgater, how are you dear? Babyosisi, hello.

I think his mum doesn't like me and he's acting all cold since my return yesterday, I think he's not happy I didn't go to his mum's.

I called to say hi and she told me, she doesn't think I'm the one for her son, that I couldn't even bring down myself to honor her invite, what does this even mean?

I don't understand it, I mean I told her I couldn't make it.

I haven't really talked with him but I think his mum's told him she doesn't want me, how do I handle this please?

Opiosko:
Relax and be urslf. When i was little abt 9yrs old, a cousin brought one fine gurl home nd said he want to marry her... The gurl saw HELL mehn, she was called names, and chased outta the house. Everyone of our extended family was against her. Fast foward to today, she's 5&6 with everyone. She's earned the respect of the whole family and she stands as the second favourite wife.....So just relax, keep cool and be urslf.

babyosisi:


Na wa for your family
I hope they know about karma aka sowing and reaping

Opiosko:
Hahaha! It was one hell of an event. We the children even composed a dance song to mock her sef.I have always asked myslf what her crime was..... Abt Karma, forgerit joor, e no dey catch people who ar making innocent mistake.

babyosisi:


No seriously
A woman I know that chased her daughter in law away because she was barren had her own daughter chased away and she also had no kids
I hope they have apologized to her or their daughters may taste the same thing

Preternatura1:
Hello everyone.
Floodgater, how are you dear? Babyosisi, hello.
I think his mum doesn't like me and he's acting all cold since my return yesterday, I think he's not happy I didn't go to his mum's.
I called to say hi and she told me, she doesn't think I'm the one for her son, that I couldn't even bring down myself to honor her invite, what does this even mean?
I don't understand it, I mean I told her I couldn't make it.
I haven't really talked with him but I think his mum's told him she doesn't want me, how do I handle this please?

Evina:


It is shallow people who are not wise enough to build their home on the right foundation that make ignorant statements like, "you are not yet married to him, therefore you don't have a stake in his life".

If you and a man have decided to be man and wife, you enter into courtship. Courtship is the time you decide the kind of marriage you want and then proceed to lay the required foundation for that type of marriage. You do NOT wait to enter into marriage before you start putting the bricks that lays the foundation in place.

I decided from when I started earning a living that I WANTED to submit to a man wholly. With my finances too. I didn't want to be that woman that had a secret bank account or secret asset. The bible says, " a man shall leave his mum and dad and cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

Therefore, if the two of us have become one flesh, there should be no selfish agenda instigated by distrust. This understanding helped me choose a man that shared the same values. I couldn't trust the first guy with money. If I give him some money to keep for me, he would squander on frivolous things. He wasn't open about his finances.

My current and I are very open and transparent with our finances. I know every detail of his earnings, he knows about mine. We have one joint account for projects and individual accounts, to which we both have access to the ATM cards. It has been a very peaceful and mutually beneficial arrangement. The key to pulling such, is absolute trust. When each party trusts the other, transparency will come naturally.

If the man can trust that the woman is not out to take advantage of his financial status, but actually there to help and improve things, he will be open.

Also, I believe a godly woman MUST earn a living. It is ungodly to be slothful and you will be falling short as a woman, to not have your own earnings. The virtuous woman is a perfect guide.

So please, develop that skill to commercial level, strive to stay successful at it, you will see that he will respect you more.

All the best.

Idowuogbo:

Hei! Is a lie ooo...so your type still dey market? Kai! *screams* Veave o!!!!! Grab it! noooooooooooooow!!!

nannymcphee:


So how do you differentiate the above from guys who share the No sex policy due to religious beliefs?

By differentiate, how can you tell tell if his stance is due to medical reasons or religious reasons

iwatch:
people like that exist o ID. On a more serious note, I still feel awkward when someone serve me food. I have been used to going into the kitchen to my food. No woman can do me shakara as I have hands to cook my food.

I have seen cases where women use food to starve their husband over little quarrel.

veave:





You and Idowuogbo shud leme alone

Am not n the mood

iwatch:
people like that exist o ID. On a more serious note, I still feel awkward when someone serve me food. I have been used to going into the kitchen to my food. No woman can do me shakara as I have hands to cook my food.

I have seen cases where women use food to starve their husband over little quarrel.

veave:





You and Idowuogbo shud leme alone

Am not n the mood

Idowuogbo:

See this babe,I dey recruit better meat for you,you dey do shakara abi? Ok o!

iwatch:
lol... but no one is holding you na.

veave:



You sabi turn semo

Herzumpther:

veave:

veave:



You sabi turn semo

iwatch:
I go turn Amala, Eba... even pound yam for you

Herzumpther:
You are really serious with this turning semo business. You sef.

Herzumpther:

FOREXMART:


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