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Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 10:22pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Hope you're enjoying your Valentine? The feeling of "affection" towards the opposite sex... That awe that causes you to stutter while talking to her... That butterfly feeling, you know... They all depict the "love" I'm talking about - It's called Romantic Love. Real Love has two stages: ROMANTIC and RESPONSIBILITY stages. When both are combined, you call it Real Love- Friendship Love. Even as Valentine's Day is wrapping up and some guys are considering going into a serious relationship with her OR perhaps that was your school of thought. Before you do, read this: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For Love Alone 1. Being Possessive Is Most Likely To Surface. When you find yourself being possessive. You see her with any guy, your head starts spinning with jealousy! You feel so bad! You want her to be close to you only. How unreal! If she's your friend, you really won't be afraid of losing her. Unless what you have is just Romantic Love. This kind of Love wants to GET, POSSESS. Nobody likes being around a possessive person. 2. You Look Weak and Inactive This kind of love makes you look weak when she's around. You act weak, talk weak and live weak. That's why she eventually leaves you for another guy. 3. Most Ladies Give The Attitude When A Guy Expresses Love I'm sure many other guys can attest to this. I don't know why. Mistakenly tell a Lady you love her, she begins to almost immediately act funny. Hmm! For the most part, you end up losing her. Hmm! 4. "Love Is Blind" Isn't A Lie. This love blindfolds you to the true realities of whom she really is. You see her "weak spots" but this kind of love cause you to overlook. You may overlook now but don't complain later 5. You Make Unintelligent Decisions. Because you think you love her, you bypass protocol just to please her- That's not good for both of you anyways. For example, you waste your savings on her petty wants during dating and when it's time for the real thing, you look like a child. 6. You Risk Being Heart Broken. Some years back, I had a friend whom I loved dearly. I told her my feelings, she agreed but couldn't wait- I wasn't ready then. I didn't feel heart broken because I truly loved her. I felt bad but not heart broken. I want the best for her. Its not a Do OR Die Affair. One reason I believe no guy should cross a certain limit over any girl! You shouldn't date her for love alone. What should be your standard? Go for Reality. Don't present to her a mirage. Hmm! You borrow a car just to ask her out. That's unrealistic! Be proud of your job, tribe and family. Tell her if she wants to hear. If she loves you still, then that's no more just Romantic Love. It's crossing over to Responsibility Love. She is making a tough decision to accept you as you are above all her other suitors. You can add more Have a good evening 65 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by spartoo: 10:24pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
u lose moni 12 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by cutieberie1(f): 10:37pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
ok... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by tosyne2much(m): 10:41pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Booked 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 10:48pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
spartoo: I blame you... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 10:50pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
tosyne2much: One plot o... 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:00pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Baba Emusmith..... Make ur boy Ctrl C + Ctrl V this tin na...... Nor worry, me go put ur name there as the owner 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:00pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Yes. I completely agree. It really is pathetic and sad when one jumps into a relationship or marriage because he/she is under the illusion of "love." 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:01pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by chymystique(f): 11:01pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
I love your Fourth point.. You couldnt ve said it any better 1 Like |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:02pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ: Lol...My oga Outside this crib? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:03pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
MzNelly: True dearie, so many are good @ trial and error... Honestly, I envy them |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:06pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
chymystique: Thanks hun, You speak like you have a helpful contribution |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by mirexxx(f): 11:07pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
the long list again what else should he date her for ? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
brito: What's your point? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:09pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
mirexxx: You haven't read it... |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:10pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
emusmith:Yelz boss buh ur boi nor know ur full name bros |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:11pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by mirexxx(f): 11:12pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
emusmith:lol yea soo damnn lazy |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by malonephill(m): 11:14pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Reading all this stuff here self, won't make me develop feelings for any babe 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:14pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
brito: Wow, Can you suggest a mature love thread? Reply ooo...to prove you have something upstairs OK...I'm waiting 4 Likes |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
mirexxx: what happened? too much fries, turkey and fried rice ba? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
emusmith: Then do your ownown |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:17pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
malonephill: I thought you were in love? |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:19pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
emusmith: why d insults? I won't reply you |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:19pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ: Haha.. I go pm you |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:19pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
MzNelly: No one to do it with |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
emusmith:OK bros. U too much |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:21pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by malonephill(m): 11:22pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
emusmith:I have friendship |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by mirexxx(f): 11:22pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
emusmith:lol i was home all through jare seeing a movie #Paul the apostle# |
Re: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For "Love" Alone. by Nobody: 11:22pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ: Na my pleasure o... |
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